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Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 06:49 AM
i had a fight with my picsean.....he said dat he didnt luv me anymore.....he avoids confrontation n communication..i asked him if he wants breakup...he said no...hes v confusing....cut all communication...didnt answer my text n calls...currently i have been doing nc n its been 3 months...neither he contacts nor i do...i dnt know wat t do???can anybody help me??i do all begging n crying for 2 months,,,n den started nc....he also said dat u have t win my heart n luv bla bla...i m taurus...IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6374 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 07, 2013 07:14 AM
Hi Banita,Welcome to the forum. Sounds to me like he doesn't want to be with you anymore. Did you do something to upset him? Is he angry at you? Maybe he's hurt? Or maybe he just really doesn't love you anymore and wants to move on. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 3772 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 07, 2013 07:17 AM
He said you have to win his heart? move on.IP: Logged |
geea Knowflake Posts: 642 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 07, 2013 07:22 AM
i cnt hlp u cz i cnnt undrstnd a fq wrd u r wrtng haerIP: Logged |
Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 07:39 AM
He said dat i m clingy....n hes fed up with me....but he didnt want t breakup.he avoids communication.i tried t call him but nothing works.he act soo cold n distant.how could i win his luv ???if he cuts all communication???will he came back???any suggestion??he also said dat he wants t remain friends.....bla bla. N he will marry me....i m sooo confused...wat he wants???IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6374 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 07, 2013 07:44 AM
I suggest you tell him bye bye, cut all contact and move on and heal.IP: Logged |
Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 07:49 AM
He drives me insane...i tried atleast 7 times t fix the relationship but nothing works....is all pisces guys r same?even nc wont worksIP: Logged |
DaniPepper87 Knowflake Posts: 419 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 07:50 AM
Hi Banita!When a Pisces one don't want to talk, leave him alone. My ex was this way AND my father act the same. Forget about him. That's their way to say "I don't want you anymore", but they want YOU to breakup. If you don't want to be "in and out" of this relationship, move on. You deserve someone better! IP: Logged |
geea Knowflake Posts: 642 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 07, 2013 07:54 AM
”win my heart?„ that isnt a man! ffsive been told something similar by a scorpio ex: ”you should have fought for me” fff off. Plenty of fish in the sea Taurus is a strong sign...leave him be, respect his wish have a good time without him. You might discover you dont want him after all. And, if he misses you he will come to you. imo
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Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 07:54 AM
We were together for 6 years.i m taurus.i always support him.always compromise.he sometimes acted rude but i forgive him.i m just fedup now.i tried everything from begging t crying even apologise him.but hes soo stubborn....yeah i think he wants me to do breakup.IP: Logged |
Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 07:58 AM
Hi geea Currently i m doing nc n its been 3 months.i try t move on but i really miss himIP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 882 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 07, 2013 08:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by DaniPepper87: Hi Banita!When a Pisces one don't want to talk, leave him alone. My ex was this way AND my father act the same. Forget about him. That's their way to say "I don't want you anymore", but they want YOU to breakup. If you don't want to be "in and out" of this relationship, move on. You deserve someone better!
I dated one for 3 years and this is what happened as well. went all silent and forced me to break it off so he could look hurt and weak. HATED confrontation/fights. a real loser imo :-) and the lies... oh my goodness... such liars! IP: Logged |
Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 08:16 AM
I really want t fix everything...but he avoid communication....i asked him if he wants breakup?he said no but u have t win my heart.hes so indifferent t me...wat shall i do???continue nc ??IP: Logged |
Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 10:06 AM
Any suggestion guys???IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6374 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 07, 2013 10:23 AM
How about you try to have a conversation with him, heart to heart, and tell him exactly how you feel?And if he doesn't take you back after you've opened up to him, then that would be a good sign that it's over. Good luck! IP: Logged |
Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 10:28 AM
he just avoid communication...n also said dat he does not want breakup bla bla...im just hanged...its so frustrating....IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 3772 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 07, 2013 10:30 AM
He is just playing mind game. If you try to win his heart, it will let him control the relationship. Cut him off.But we know only one side of the story . IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87 Knowflake Posts: 419 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 10:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: I dated one for 3 years and this is what happened as well. went all silent and forced me to break it off so he could look hurt and weak. HATED confrontation/fights. a real loser imo :-) and the lies... oh my goodness... such liars!
Hi Starmoon... As I scorpio I hate when someone make themselves as victims. Hate people who pretend to be weaker than they are. And yes, I can say most pisces men I know are big liars... IP: Logged |
Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 10:36 AM
He said t me dat i m clingy .but i dnt think so i were???i gave him a lot of time n space.he acted cold n distant...i always try t support him in his hard times....i really dnt know wat he wants!!!!!! IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 1228 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 07, 2013 10:42 AM
If he doesn't want to talk, write a letter from you heart, PURELY from your heart, which means *at the right moment* without ANY expectations/force or whatever (ofcourse), after which *YOU* will have peace.. whatever his decision may be. If this works you won't even bother about an answer.. as you'll feel *relieved* after giving the very verry best of yourself.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6374 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 07, 2013 10:42 AM
Okay girlie, basically, that dude is a di** and if you had enough self-respect - which you don't seem to have, unfortunately - you'd dump his a$$ in a heartbeat.Open your eyes and realize that he's treating you like dirt. Nothing good will come out from such an association. Now pick up your broken pieces and move on, it will be for the best. He's not worth your time and better things are awaiting for ya.
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Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 10:45 AM
Ok i will try t move on.....i always think dat may b i m wrong....but thanx everyoneeeeeee for ur insightIP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6374 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 07, 2013 10:47 AM
I'm sure it's the best thing to do at this point, Banita.You can do it! Best of luck. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 1079 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 07, 2013 10:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Hi Banita,Welcome to the forum. Sounds to me like he doesn't want to be with you anymore. Did you do something to upset him? Is he angry at you? Maybe he's hurt? Or maybe he just really doesn't love you anymore and wants to move on.
Your North Node on natal DSC is showing and glowing when you are on LL! You have a way with people. You better make a career out of it or it's a wasted gift. Maybe a psychologist? IP: Logged |
Banita Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 07, 2013 11:05 AM
Hi mir I tried each n everything for more than 2 months...asked him politely dat wat he wants???if he wants breakup ,just tell me clearly...now after getting so many advices from people.....i decided t move on......never date a pisces men againIP: Logged |