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posted November 17, 2013 05:40 AM            

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so, am new to horoscopes and stuff..but i like this leo man to the extend i really want to understand his behavior and whether he likes me or not....below is a summary of our relation:
1- we met online 6 months ago...but we have many real mutual friends
2- at first it was obvious he likes me at least he likes the way i look as he was always commenting about how pretty i am...he also mentioned that he likes my personality and enjoys talking to me
3- we were talking as friends but i am annoyed that he started to feel bored..he always mentions how quickly he gets bored of everything..so i stopped initiating contact with him, again, when he starts initiating, he gets bored and he can become very rude at times...i heard leo men loves the attention, but when i give it to him, he used to like it before but now he gives rude comments and then says he was joking!
i think he doesn't like me anymore, or maybe he found someone,,,the problem is that even when i try to ignore him, he comes to me and wants to chat....what can i do to get his attention back and makes him like me more and more? do i play hard to get? do i pay him attention and ignore his rude comments about it? what shall i do? i like this guy very much please help!

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posted November 17, 2013 08:59 AM            

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Hi Virgo8, welcome to the forum.

You guys sound quite young (?).
And the attention-span of young people isn't famous for its longevity.
It sounds like that guy doesn't really care about you - sure, he may find you attractive, but there's no real depth of feeling, it seems.
If he gets bored and stops talking to you, that's a red flag.
Just because he randomly talks to you from time to time, doesn't mean he cares about you in a significant way - maybe he just wants someone to talk to when he's bored and needs 'company', and you happen to like him so obviously you won't turn down the conversation. It could also be an ego-boost.

Anyway, all that to say: you can't make someone love you, it doesn't really matter what you do... if they don't like you for you, you can't change much about it. You can make yourself more attractive and try to charm and seduce someone but it won't be as genuine and natural, and can easily lead to the dissipation of the relationship or the attraction.

By the way, this is all theory, here.
Obviously I don't know your situation very well and it could be something else entirely.

If you really suffer because of your feelings for him, maybe try to tell him that you like him, and see how he reacts. That should give you a good idea of where he stands.

Good luck!

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posted November 17, 2013 09:47 AM            

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My experience with Leo men is they'll pout and sulk unless you revolve around them. They require more maintenance than the average (typically detached and subtle) Virgo can give them...but this'll really depend on their Moon. In any case, what DR said.

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posted November 17, 2013 09:54 AM            

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Since Virgo and Leo sit side by side, a relationship between these two signs has its challenges. They don't really have a lot of energy between them, so you might feel this sense of not being that attracted, or perhaps you feel attracted to the Leo but he doesn't reciprocate the way you wish?
Virgo isn't so much an ego oriented sign while Leo is the sun's domicile and are here to impact their surroundings personally, by being known.

I have friendships with Leo suns. The Virgo tends to dote on the Leo without a lot in return. This has been my experience and some people like this type of relationship. With others, it just builds resentment so there can be times when you don't have much to do with the Leo. There can be inconsistency.

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posted November 17, 2013 10:25 AM            

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I'm a Leo girl, and there is nothing I hate more than, when people are fake with me. When you read, that Leos like praise, it doesn't mean you have to throw flattery at him constantly. It's so annoying! It may be the reason why he's a bit turned off. Be genuine and compliment when he deserves it or seeks your approval.

Do you know his other chart placements? Maybe he has some personal planets in Gemini, they tend to get bored very easily.

Anyway, good luck. Leo men are a difficult ones, but can be very loving, giving and romantic with the person they care about.

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posted November 17, 2013 11:03 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
The Virgo tends to dote on the Leo without a lot in return. This has been my experience and some people like this type of relationship. With others, it just builds resentment so there can be times when you don't have much to do with the Leo.

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I think this is important. Virgos are usually all too willing to serve...it's an instinct that doesn't require much thought. But Virgos operate in subtle, small, and behind the scenes ways. This can go unnoticed by those who live on a large stage.

As a Virgo, I tend to be put off (embarrassed really) by too much effusive acknowledgment for the things I do. But if it's utterly unnoticed or taken for granted, then the critical, sharped tongue Virgo will come out.

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posted November 17, 2013 11:16 AM            

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Originally posted by mcmlxix:
I think this is important. Virgos are usually all to willing to serve...it's an instinct that doesn't require much thought. But Virgos operate in subtle, small, and behind the scenes ways. This can go unnoticed by those who live on a large stage.

As a Virgo, I tend to be put off (embarrassed really) by too much effusive acknowledgment for the things I do. But if it's utterly unnoticed or taken for granted, then the critical, sharped tongue Virgo will come out.

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We both have a Libra stellium and this is the sign of reciprocation, also.

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posted November 17, 2013 12:23 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted November 19, 2013 01:52 AM            

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Many thanks guys for the replies...
we are both in our early 30s so we are not young at all
now as i started to completely ignore him...he started to take any opportunity to talk to me...i don't know if its because he is bored or because he really enjoys talking to me as he claims...it's really hard to read this guy..
but all what i can say is i solved the moodiness and boredom by talking for a short period of time then leave the conversation...he seems like he gets more interested in me when i do that! and he initiate more conversations when i do it..
its exhausting to do this every time because i really miss him and i really want to continue talking with him,,but i try to avoid the bad feelings that i feel when he gets bored
i don't know how long i can continue doing that

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posted November 19, 2013 02:00 AM            

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Leos do play cat and mouse.

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posted November 19, 2013 02:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Leos do play cat and mouse.

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so what is ur advise? do i continue ignoring him? i am thinking even ignore some of his messages and leave them unanswered...i feel that i have to play the game too and not be very nice!

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posted November 19, 2013 02:32 AM            

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Would you like me to do a Relationship Report for the two of you?

If so, leave birth information here:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/009055.html

I am certainly no expert in the art of Court & Spark, but I would like to help.

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posted November 19, 2013 06:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Would you like me to do a Relationship Report for the two of you?

If so, leave birth information here:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/009055.html

I am certainly no expert in the art of Court & Spark, but I would like to help.

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i don't know about hi birth exact time...i know only mine

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posted November 19, 2013 07:41 AM            

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That's fine, I'll allow for that and give you what is correct.

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posted November 19, 2013 12:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
That's fine, I'll allow for that and give you what is correct.

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posted November 19, 2013 12:35 PM            

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posted November 19, 2013 12:47 PM            

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Where? and you are what time?

Go ahead and edit, I've got it.

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posted November 19, 2013 01:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Where? and you are what time?

Go ahead and edit, I've got it.

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Done...check above plz

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posted November 19, 2013 01:12 PM            

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Okay, got it.

Where in that area?

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posted November 19, 2013 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Okay, got it.

Where in that area?

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posted November 19, 2013 01:17 PM            

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Go ahead and edit.

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posted November 19, 2013 01:20 PM            

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Go ahead and edit.

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Sorry I don't know what you mean. .you want me to add it to the previous reply?

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posted November 19, 2013 01:26 PM            

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Synastry Report for LeoVirgo8 Knowflake

LeoVirgo8 Knowflake

Report For LeoVirgo8 Knowflake
Moon
LeoVirgo8's Moon in Virgo8's 5th House
If Virgo8 takes your feelings playfully, it's meant as a compliment, not to dismiss
you. Your comebacks inspire passion and creativity, so be ready to kick the ball
around any time you make a rejoinder. You're felt to be a playmate in the best
meaning of the word.
LeoVirgo8's Moon Trine Virgo8's Moon
Although you may both have different feelings about any situation you encounter,
you'll pretty much agree on a gut level and your emotional reactions will blend
and support each other. You intuit what is in common underneath it all.
LeoVirgo8's Moon Conjunction Virgo8's Sun
When Virgo8 puts out, you receive, and you know what's coming just like a good
catcher reads a star pitcher. Just give the signal, and Virgo8 puts it right into
your glove. This is a classic marriage aspect, in case that's what you're up to.
LeoVirgo8's Moon Conjunction Virgo8's Venus
You are instantly sensitive to Virgo8's needs, an antenna for Virgo8's desires.
Ideal for anything from a lover to a personal shopper. Conversely, your feelings
are ideally suited to please Virgo8 and your every reaction is a new treat.
LeoVirgo8's Moon Trine Virgo8's Ascendant
Even when you're not making the same moves together, you'll feel like you are,
as you pretty much know what to expect from Virgo8 and are in support whether
you're directly involved or not. What you see in Virgo8 is what you would like to
expect.
Sun
LeoVirgo8's Sun in Virgo8's 4th House
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You can be both rising and setting sun for Virgo8 if given the chance, which may
well happen. You don't need to give advice to be leaned on, just be yourself and
you will find yourself part of Virgo8's home, a bottom line necessity.
LeoVirgo8's Sun Trine Virgo8's Moon
Although you may not find Virgo8 a perfect mirror, there's easy support and your
personal style will find warm and easy acceptance. Virgo8 innately knows what
you are about and will cheer you on without a second thought.
LeoVirgo8's Sun Conjunction Virgo8's Venus
Your personality is likely just Virgo8's cup of tea, whether you agree on details
on not. The compliments that come as a result may go to your head, but let them.
It's sincere appreciation. Mutual admiration is to be savored.
LeoVirgo8's Sun Square Virgo8's Mars
Competition may spark or mar this relationship, and if it gets too hot, back off to
avoid the punches. Avoid wasting each other's energies in beating around the
bush, repositioning. Define mutual goals or establish separate ones.
LeoVirgo8's Sun Sextile Virgo8's Saturn
You can always get under Virgo8's defenses and help give support from within,
even when others are shut out. That can make you a really valuable friend on a
long-term basis. Similarly, Virgo8 can be a bulwark when you need it most.
Mercury
LeoVirgo8's Mercury in Virgo8's 4th House
Virgo8 may come to expect you to have the last word on any personal issue, and
you may indeed do just that. Feel free not to as well, or you may wind up
carrying both credit and blame for weighty issues that are not entirely yours.
LeoVirgo8's Mercury Sextile Virgo8's Mercury
Mental games of toss and catch come easily and you don't have to strain your
brains to come to a solution. You have just enough differences to provide
perspective, but not so many as to divide you, so any road will take you there.
LeoVirgo8's Mercury Square Virgo8's Jupiter
Getting a handle on Virgo8's crazy schemes may not be your allotted task, which
you'll find out after you've tried it a couple of times. Not that they're utterly
impossible, just not right for you to get your head around. Leave them to Virgo8.
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LeoVirgo8's Mercury Opposition Virgo8's Midheaven
You can probably give Virgo8 lots of good advice about personal image,
partnership dealings, and even home scenarios, but you would be well advised
to stay fairly clear of Virgo8's career front. You have the potential to accidentally
cause harm there, so lay low.
LeoVirgo8's Mercury Square Virgo8's Ascendant
A critique of Virgo8's image by you is not going to go very far, so don't waste
your words. That's partly due to your own misunderstanding and partly due to
Virgo8's reluctance to be understood. So just let it slide -- it won't hurt either of
you.
Venus
LeoVirgo8's Venus in Virgo8's 3rd House
A charming wit and a flattering tongue will get everybody everything in this
relationship, so don't hesitate to pour it on thick. Don't expect it all to come true,
but just thrashing out what you would like can be a joy.
LeoVirgo8's Venus Sextile Virgo8's Sun
Virgo8's style is innately pleasing, though may not go out of the way to please
you specifically. There's a sort of casual contentment that's spread around easily
which you can pick up on as a matter of course. No strain, definitely no pain.
LeoVirgo8's Venus Square Virgo8's Mercury
If it seems that Virgo8 says things just to put you off, get over it and get on with it.
It's not intentional, just off on another trip that may not be the one you're looking
for at the moment. Try more non-verbal communication to touch base.
LeoVirgo8's Venus Trine Virgo8's Jupiter
Virgo8 is a good one to lead you gently into new experiences, develop new
tastes and appetites, without undue strain or getting unnecessarily sidetracked.
Try this? Oh, sure -- that's good! Without fanfare, just agreement and enjoyment.
LeoVirgo8's Venus Sextile Virgo8's Ascendant
Virgo8 looks pretty good to you, not necessarily electric, but certainly someone
you'd be pleased to be seen with. The feeling is likely mutual, and you're likely to
make each other look good without getting in each other's way.
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Mars
LeoVirgo8's Mars in Virgo8's 6th House
When Virgo8 tires, you'll be the first to pick up the speed and set the pace. Push
it to the limit, but not beyond, particularly where physical stamina and endurance
are concerned. Know Virgo8's limits and do not insist on more.
LeoVirgo8's Mars Sextile Virgo8's Moon
Your efforts will likely find emotionally fertile ground in Virgo8, whose reactions
will be supportive and encourage you continue your labors with a smile. Similarly,
your actions give Virgo8 confidence to open up and express positive feelings.
LeoVirgo8's Mars Sextile Virgo8's Venus
Your efforts are appreciated by Virgo8, without actually having to set the woods
on fire. Activities and pleasures go hand in hand in a fairly pressureless
environment, which can make this relationship something to vacation with.
LeoVirgo8's Mars Conjunction Virgo8's Saturn
You may be able to get Virgo8 up and moving, but it can be at your own
expense. Virgo8 can be a serious energy drain if you are not careful. Should you
be overwrought, however, Virgo8 is the perfect person to settle you down,
ground you.
Jupiter
LeoVirgo8's Jupiter in Virgo8's 5th House
You're the one to suggest new ways to play -- in school, the boardroom, or the
bedroom. Be a fount of creative new ideas and approaches and Virgo8 will be
the first to enthusiastically redesign the game. Make the suggestion, then be
carried along.
LeoVirgo8's Jupiter Square Virgo8's Moon
Be careful that emotional situations don't get blown out of proportion by pursuing
issues further than they should naturally go. It can be easy to get tangled in everspiraling
change that exhausts Virgo8's clarity of judgment.
LeoVirgo8's Jupiter Conjunction Virgo8's Sun
You may find that Virgo8's company all by itself inspires you to try out new
things, step up to fresh adventures on many planes. Similarly, you provide an
atmosphere that encourages Virgo8's personal buds to come into flower.
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LeoVirgo8's Jupiter Sextile Virgo8's Mars
Fresh new directions always seem to provide the energy demanded to attend to
them. You don't really need to schedule it, just let it flow and the strength and
endurance will be there for both of you. Novelty provides its own fuel.
Saturn
LeoVirgo8's Saturn in Virgo8's 5th House
When Virgo8's life becomes all play and no work, you're the perfect person to
set things straight. But, don't be a party-pooper, either. Sometimes fewer, more
focused joys bring more happiness than doing it all at once -- sort out passions,
don't suppress them.
LeoVirgo8's Saturn Square Virgo8's Moon
Avoid the unconscious tendency to be critical of or to selectively ignore Virgo8's
feelings. Although you may not share them, they are to be respected more than
you may believe. Conversely, when you don't want to deal with something,
Virgo8 should refrain from forcing the issue.
LeoVirgo8's Saturn Conjunction Virgo8's Mercury
You can do a lot to cut out the verbiage in Virgo8's approach and help get down
to brass tacks. A little clear thinking, without embellishment, goes a long way,
and you can help provide it. Conversely, Virgo8 can help you express your own
boundaries so you know just how to say no.
LeoVirgo8's Saturn Trine Virgo8's Midheaven
Your stability may do much to enhance Virgo8's reputation, although neither of
you may have a clue as to exactly why or how. Your presence would appear to
add some kind of credibility, with Virgo8's success only adding to it.
Uranus
LeoVirgo8's Uranus in Virgo8's 7th House
You may well shake up Virgo8's idea of just what partnership can be about, and
your new versions may be quite welcome. Take it one change at a time,
however, and don't try to reinvent everything all at once, or it will lead to
uncertainty and confusion.
Neptune
LeoVirgo8's Neptune in Virgo8's 8th House
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Remembrance of things past, lost horizons just beyond the horizon, these and
more you may inspire in Virgo8. You can be a help in getting back in touch with
the past. On the other hand, stay out of Virgo8's credit scene, lest you stir
muddy waters.
Pluto
LeoVirgo8's Pluto in Virgo8's 6th House
Routine and humdrum affairs, the daily grind, sometime require drastic
measures to change. You can help do that for Virgo8, but make sure you have a
replacement to suggest before you blow away what's there. Plans for
reconstruction are essential.

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posted November 19, 2013 01:30 PM            

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You can erase all your personal information.

See where it says edit? Right ^ above this box?

Just click on that and backspace on the reply box.

You have to leave something, a letter; or it won't submit.

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posted November 19, 2013 01:31 PM            

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Wow! Thank you very much! Am going to read it now!

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