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Topic: Attraction to broken bad boys?
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 308 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 05:59 PM
Why do I always choose these men? Mars in cancer opposite Neptune + Uranus Moon in virgo trine Neptune + Uranus Venus in aqua Do you think these aspects suggest so? I choose men who are not nessacarily good for me yet I find the challenge and difficulty of trying to fix them a turn on. Its a weird psychology, but I'm guessing that my mars wants to nurture and my virgo moon be of service. And my Venus in aqua and Uranus liking the excitement of it all. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2339 From: 🔮 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 06:01 PM
It's your mars! I have the same and I'm always attracted to those types of boys! I want to help and make them better and I feel maybe that's why I'm attracted to them. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 6035 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 06, 2013 06:03 PM
Probably Venus in Aqua. Wanting to help/mend/save them would be more Neptunian.IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 308 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 06:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: It's your mars! I have the same and I'm always attracted to those types of boys!
Yeah, I'm just attracted to f*****d up people, sad but true. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 308 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 06:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Probably Venus in Aqua. Wanting to help/mend/save them would be more Neptunian.
Yes, I don't like normal predictable relationships. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2339 From: 🔮 Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 06:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: Yeah, I'm just attracted to f*****d up people, sad but true.
Me too lol and looking at me you wouldn't think I would. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 7406 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 06, 2013 06:10 PM
What aspects is your Venus making. I suppose you have some masochistic tendencies because you're only hurting yourself.I have mars square Neptune and Uranus Personally I like the thrill, this does not mean I want to fix people... if anything I use them as an adrenaline rush. I wouldn't consider myself as a bad person so I project my shadow side on to someone else. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 308 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 06:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: What aspects is your Venus making. I suppose you have some masochistic tendencies because you're only hurting yourself giving.I have mars square Neptune and Uranus Personally I like the thrill, this does not mean I want to fix people... if anything I use them as an adrenaline rush.
My Venus trines Jupiter in the 12th I think I'm too optimistic when it comes to wanting to fix someone, but in reality they will never be fixed. Oh, my bml is in Pisces so yeah, I can go into victim mode in relationships. IP: Logged |
summerlite Knowflake Posts: 159 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 06:17 PM
u should read "the one that got away" thread. sounds so similiar.IP: Logged |
summerlite Knowflake Posts: 159 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 06:17 PM
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 7406 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 06, 2013 06:44 PM
^^ Ahh pisces bml. Pisces is the martyr so sacrificing yourself in the name of love?I have bml is sag conjunct dsc so I should be master and dating bad people but I'm really not. I just like to briefly partner up (7th house) with people that bring out my shadow side (sag) and seek adventure and thrills. A bit self destructive too. However BML is opposite Venus exact so I can be kinda of toxic myself because when the thrill is over I vamoose. Lucky me, but not luck for those who really like me... I like BML because she empowers you, so even with bml is pisces you can some how own that energy when you face it directly. I use to wonder why I attract all these crazy people into myself now I just go along with it and have fun and try to keep myself out of too much trouble.
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3344 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 06, 2013 07:49 PM
My Aquarius BFF is the same way and we've blamed that on her 10H Pisces moon & Mars (how she rues them), but she also has an Aquarian Venus. Though perhaps it's worth adding that many of her bad boys are wimps. A few try to be tough but they've folded before me when I confronted them every time. I don't let anyone treat her badly though she does at time stop me from confronting them. Most of the broken guys she hooks up with, however, are more in the need of saving kind of guy and/or the narcissistic artist (including musician, and I came to really appreciate the jokes that trash musicians after one guy in particular she was with). She's currently celibate (and uses some Taoist practice to harness & transform her sexual energy into spiritual energy), has been for many months now approaching a year. It's a conscious choice as she realizes she just can't feel attraction to any other type of guy so she's like, "Fine, then I won't act on my attractions." She finds life is less painful and more beautiful that way than going for the guys who moon & Mars keep aiming her at and she says she's discovered her self-respect in doing so. IP: Logged |