posted March 19, 2014 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by crabbypatty:
One of the professional astrologers on this site did a private reading for me some years ago......I first feel strongly that if anything were to happen with him, he would feel so guilt ridden that he would cut you off completely. That's one of the most common behaviors for people with hard Mars-Saturn aspects in their charts. Hanging up the phone is their favorite method of expressing anger, cutting off communication, and when they cut you out of their lives, there's no letting you back in

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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
I have a natal Mars-Saturn square, and if people hurt me or I feel guilty about something/someone, I do cut them out of my life completely. Often with no contact. I thought it was my natal Venus-Pluto conjunction in Scorpio that was the culprit. I guess that makes me doubly cold. I don't believe in talking things out with someone to gain "closure". Closure happens with you move the f on.

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Wow! I have never read anything like this before but I do this. If I am hurt or mad I cut that person of my life completely.

I have always wondered about how this aspect works for me. By the way, I'm a woman & it is a Leo Mars and Saturn Scorpio.

posted March 19, 2014 04:34 PM            

I rarely give second chances and when I do, I usually live to regret it.

Didn't know this was a Mars/Saturn thing, thought I was being a decisive Aries stellium.

posted March 19, 2014 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
I have the opposition. I cut people off frequently. Recently had an engagement end and I terminated the accounts that could leave room for further contact. Destroyed pictures and threw gifts in the garbage bin. It's been 2 years since I haven't talked to my father because he was an abusive pieceofshit.

I rarely give second chances and when I do, I usually live to regret it.

Didn't know this was a Mars/Saturn thing, thought I was being a decisive Aries stellium.

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posted March 19, 2014 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
I have the opposition. I cut people off frequently. Recently had an engagement end and I terminated the accounts that could leave room for further contact. Destroyed pictures and threw gifts in the garbage bin. It's been 2 years since I haven't talked to my father because he was an abusive pieceofshit.

I rarely give second chances and when I do, I usually live to regret it.

Didn't know this was a Mars/Saturn thing, thought I was being a decisive Aries stellium.

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I do this too. Mars in Aqua sq saturn in scorp. I also thought it was an Aries thing, as I have an Aries moon.

posted March 20, 2014 09:40 AM            

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Originally posted by CAY_512:
I can relate. Do all Saturn/Mars aspects have this quality? Do you think the trine and sextile create the same feeling?

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posted March 20, 2014 06:04 PM            

De Sade had Mars in Aries sq Saturn in Cancer. He wasn't a murderer though.

IMO Mars/Saturn is in better control of themselves and their urges than Uranian or Plutonian types, even. But yeah, I've seen sadists with this - though surprisingly the soft aspects were more common. How about that..

posted March 20, 2014 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Don't **** us off then!

De Sade had Mars in Aries sq Saturn in Cancer. He wasn't a murderer though.

IMO Mars/Saturn is in better control of themselves and their urges than Uranian or Plutonian types, even. But yeah, I've seen sadists with this - though surprisingly the soft aspects were more common. How about that..

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No way! I would f*** you off people! I love your aspect so much ( but not ahahaha)

Yes, De Sade had it and he was not a killer but he was killing in his fantasy and torturing with pleasure. I really looked once and found out that many of serial killer dudes had it..anyway person with MARS square Saturn is never masochist! That one is sure ..classic SADO aspect..I dont think it plays out with soft aspect though..square is very kinky and potentially dangerous..

posted March 20, 2014 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
I believe we restrain our Mars much more than they do. I have an exact Mars/Pluto opposition, I don't want to imagine what kind of person I would have been if Saturn was not in the mix.

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uh...I would like to know more about your sexual fantasies, what turns you on..I am very curious about
that one I must admit

posted March 21, 2014 07:11 AM            

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Originally posted by pocaloca:
No way! I would f*** you off people! I love your aspect so much ( but not ahahaha)

Yes, De Sade had it and he was not a killer but he was killing in his fantasy and torturing with pleasure. I really looked once and found out that many of serial killer dudes had it..anyway person with MARS square Saturn is never masochist! That one is sure ..classic SADO aspect..I dont think it plays out with soft aspect though..square is very kinky and potentially dangerous..

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Hello all Mars square Saturns

posted March 21, 2014 08:06 AM            

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Originally posted by pocaloca:
uh...I would like to know more about your sexual fantasies, what turns you on..I am very curious about
that one I must admit

Do you mind telling us where they are? Which houses? But man! mars opposition pluto square saturn! I would def. dont like to be alone in the dark with you!

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I don't have a T-square, it's Mars opp Pluto AND Saturn. Oh and nobody complained about being alone with me in the dark

posted March 21, 2014 01:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
I don't have a T-square, it's Mars opp Pluto AND Saturn. Oh and nobody complained about being alone with me in the dark

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posted March 21, 2014 01:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
My sexual fantasies? Not only are you intruding into my VERY private thoughts, but it's against the rules. You'll just have to figure them out in your own little head, darling.

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posted March 21, 2014 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by rorrr:

Hello all Mars square Saturns

Can anybody elaborate on this... Do you feel pleasure in commanding dominance? Never masochistic?

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posted March 21, 2014 03:04 PM            

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Originally posted by pocaloca:
So Pluto conjuncts Saturn 180 Mars...In which house and sign if I may ask..( she dares!) I know about squares but less how it plays out when it comes to opposition..

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Mars in Aries in the 3rd opp Pluto in Libra and Saturn in Scorpio in the 9th.

The squares usually are triggered by events, whereas oppositions by interactions. If someone attacks me as a Mars, I play out Saturn-Pluto, meaning my response to an aggressive bully is to outsmart him psychologically. I was in danger of being raped 3 times and in all 3 times I got out because I played them psychologically (and I wish I were such a mesmerizing witch all the time but I have no control over it, it becomes mobilized when I am in danger only). If however someone were to try to manipulate me, use emotional blackmail or force my hand into anything, I respond with raw anger (you don't want to do that). Same if I am belittled, treated unfairly or abandoned but I am less prone to express it as it's admitting vulnerability (Saturn issues, previous ones were more Pluto-like).

I am only dangerous if your intentions are ill. I never attack but I defend myself to the death, mine or yours. I suffered plenty of abuse until now, I am not accepting any more - bar is closed, guys, find some other victim! I am actually masochistic if we're talking self inflicting pain. I was tempted to self harm some time ago and there is something seductive in exploring pain to a certain degree. It's a different ball game if someone wants to harm me. Good luck obtaining consent (never gonna happen), so I guess I'll see you in court. I am neither cruel nor a sadist (I actually tried but apparently I suck at it because I'm too soft), I'm a hedonist (yoohoo, Taurus Venus!!). Most of the time I am a gentle person (and pretty vanilla). I do role play when I get bored.

Sorry I am not as interesting as you thought.

posted March 22, 2014 03:53 AM            

In synastry too.
I am Mars , she is saturn. We have been friends for over 20 years . I feel I had enough that she isn't tge one who support me anymore but she try to against me almost every action/ideas .
I decided to cut her out off my life , I'm not talking to her eversince , before we talk everyday. Deep down I feel , she block me , oppose my thought/action as if it's not her intention.

posted March 22, 2014 11:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Mars in Aries in the 3rd opp Pluto in Libra and Saturn in Scorpio in the 9th.

Sorry I am not as interesting as you thought.

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