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Topic: Aqua Venus feeling retarded in love.
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 773 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 11, 2014 06:12 PM
If anyone asks me to go on a date, they expect me to be something I'm not, they expect me to be a certain way, what society expects of me. I just sit there, and be a complete goofball because I don't know how to be fake. Anyone else feel like love interests expect something that you are not? I just need a friend, who accepts me for being me, who I can be completely weird with. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 6434 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 11, 2014 06:17 PM
Follow me to the world of not dating ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 773 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 11, 2014 06:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: Follow me to the world of not dating
This is a good idea. What is this thing "emotions?" IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 1363 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 11, 2014 06:26 PM
Where's your Moon?IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 773 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 11, 2014 06:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Where's your Moon?
11th house. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 1363 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 11, 2014 06:29 PM
11th house what?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 54503 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 11, 2014 06:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: If anyone asks me to go on a date, they expect me to be something I'm not, they expect me to be a certain way, what society expects of me. I just sit there, and be a complete goofball because I don't know how to be fake. Anyone else feel like love interests expect something that you are not? I just need a friend, who accepts me for being me, who I can be completely weird with.
Sounds more Moon, to me. What is your Moon sign and what is it doing? ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 6434 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 11, 2014 06:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: This is a good idea. What is this thing "emotions?"
You're dramatizing You don't have to get rid of emotions. Just don't go on dates if it gets on your nerves. ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 773 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 11, 2014 06:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Sounds more Moon, to me. What is your Moon sign and what is it doing?
Virgo moon 11th inconjunct Saturn in 4th, trine Neptune and Uranus in 3rd. Squaring sun in 3rd. IP: Logged |
fauxcoat Knowflake Posts: 514 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 11, 2014 10:41 PM
Aqua venus, Gemini venus, and Virgo venus are, to me, the most difficult, flighty, flakey venus signs. I think twice before dating guys with these venus signs. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 10801 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 11, 2014 10:44 PM
LoLOh air venus.. I think Libra only likes the boring date that consists of dinner movie routine. but I never liked those I'd like to do something random and fun I think Aqua can keep up with that. IP: Logged |
IV XXIV Knowflake Posts: 105 From: Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 11, 2014 11:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by fauxcoat: Aqua venus, Gemini venus, and Virgo venus are, to me, the most difficult, flighty, flakey venus signs. I think twice before dating guys with these venus signs.
What has been your experience with Virgo Venus? IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 11, 2014 11:44 PM
I'm an aqua venus and, like you, I feel really retarded in love. I feel like love for me it's an outerworld experience, it's really weird and unnatural and I feel a bit awkward when I'm in love and for instance, I'm not one of those girls who fall in love quickly and easily, I'm really picky when it comes to love.IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 239 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 12, 2014 02:17 AM
Those Aqua Venus guys I attract Sun Cap Venus Aqua guys often. They drive me crazy too.IP: Logged |
AlexDern Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 12, 2014 02:23 AM
I'm a cap sun aqua venus mars pisces dude and I am 'like' so gimp in the love department. People think I'm a stud but I turn into a robot when it comes to romance.I've had really intense relationships where I serenaded my lovers - mars in pisces - but venus in aquarius always cools things off. I've realized I have to be spiritual in all I do and find someone like that and then the romance will truly blossom. If I can find someone who lives peacefully with duality and doesn't believe that someone is this or that or some binary number in a cpu registry - or as other's have voiced above - then I'm probably kosher. In the meantime...I love breathing and live and the simple things so much that I just make love to the day. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 773 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 12, 2014 02:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by AlexDern: I'm a cap sun aqua venus mars pisces dude and I am 'like' so gimp in the love department. People think I'm a stud but I turn into a robot when it comes to romance.I've had really intense relationships where I serenaded my lovers - mars in pisces - but venus in aquarius always cools things off. I've realized I have to be spiritual in all I do and find someone like that and then the romance will truly blossom. If I can find someone who lives peacefully with duality and doesn't believe that someone is this or that or some binary number in a cpu registry - or as other's have voiced above - then I'm probably kosher. In the meantime...I love breathing and live and the simple things so much that I just make love to the day.
I'm the exact same way, except I have mars in cancer in 9th opposite Neptune, I'm spiritual, I like truth and honesty, but I attract deceiving people which is irritating (mostly they are deceiving themselves) and try and mold me to their vision which is even more irritating. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 142 From: Phoenix, AZ, USA Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 12, 2014 03:08 AM
Hmm..my experiences is that I need to form a friendship before seriously dating someone. I can't fall in love with someone who is not my best friend as well.Venus in Aqua is not my problem though- it is the Venus square Mars that gives me problems! Add in a cool and reserved Cap Asc with a spiritual and idealistic Pisces Moon and its no wonder I am not a relationship person. IP: Logged |
AlexDern Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 12, 2014 03:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: I'm the exact same way, except I have mars in cancer in 9th opposite Neptune, I'm spiritual, I like truth and honesty, but I attract deceiving people which is irritating (mostly they are deceiving themselves) and try and mold me to their vision which is even more irritating.
Tell me about! IP: Logged |
AlexDern Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 12, 2014 03:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: Hmm..my experiences is that I need to form a friendship before seriously dating someone. I can't fall in love with someone who is not my best friend as well.Venus in Aqua is not my problem though- it is the Venus square Mars that gives me problems! Add in a cool and reserved Cap Asc with a spiritual and idealistic Pisces Moon and its no wonder I am not a relationship person.
Good point...it's usually the squares that make it difficult.My venus is on a full onslaught with almost every planet in my chart...even my north node..and the strange thing is my north node is in taurus...and it's square the ruler of taurus...I call that the isolate yourself or end up in the loony bin aspect. The only good aspects - if good - are semisextiles to moon in pisces and jupiter in capricorn. Otherwise poor venus is being backed up into a corner by a square to saturn....a semi-square from my sun...a conjunction from my mars in pisces... I do have a venus trine my ascendant though...and it trines varuna and vesta and juno...so maybe there's hope for a poor schmuck.
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BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 142 From: Phoenix, AZ, USA Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 12, 2014 03:49 AM
Lol loony bin aspect! Well my Mars is in Taurus so I get what you mean. I also have Venus-NN, only sextile. I would imagine a good deal of your destiny involves transformation through love relationships. I don't have an aspect to Saturn, but I do have Venus sextile Moon, trine Jupiter, semisextile Uranus, quincuix Chiron, trine BML, semisextile Juno, sextile Ascendant. There is hope for you...unless you want to be indifferent and selfish like me IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 6434 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 12, 2014 10:51 AM
quote: but I never liked those I'd like to do something random and fun I think Aqua can keep up with that.
Do you feel like a walk? ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
aquagembaby Knowflake Posts: 132 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 12, 2014 07:37 PM
I feel like that too. I can tell when people think I'm not "girly" enough or once they get to know my personality they think that I "think like a dude" therefore I'm considered weird.I don't really think about it though because eventually I'll end things with those people anyway, or if I just met them, I can choose not to associate with them. You just have to remember that you have complete control and you don't have to let anyone in your life who gives you negative energy. Also, as long as you're confident, people will see that and embrace you for who you are. -Aqua Sun, Aqua Venus IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 1778 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 13, 2014 03:12 AM
All the time. I have venus in 11H in the Aqua Dwad/Duad or whichever one it is sq. Uranus. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 10801 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 13, 2014 03:38 AM
First kiss under a volcanic firestorm <3 IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 6434 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 13, 2014 05:39 AM
First kiss with an alien <3 ------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |