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posted June 20, 2014 06:37 PM            

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Are there aspects in your natal and synastry with someone that would indicate an invasion of privacy?

As in dating someone yet going through their cell phone, whether it's just being nosy or actually not trusting them and assuming they're up to something.. Etc.

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posted June 20, 2014 06:40 PM            

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I've known sags to do this.

I know that's generalization and I hope we don't have a butthurt war over it.
It's like it says...
"I've known" sags to be that way.

Ones I've dated and a friend at work who admitted snooping through his girlfriends stuff AND he snooped through files at work and things left out on desks.

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posted June 20, 2014 06:43 PM            

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I think hard Venus-Pluto... Pluto gets suspicious as Venus tries to pull away from too much intensity/obsession, and Pluto gets even more obsessive/suspicious when Venus just needs space/a breather.

Also, I think heavy 12H placements... Mars, Venus, even Uranus/Neptune in a composite... Maybe even Pluto. There's a feeling of not everything being said/disclosed, and the person affected in Composite gets nosy.

This was my last relationship/marriage. I had gut feelings, checked on them, they were right... Until finally I was like, "This isn't even worth it. This isn't who I am, nor who I want to be." But it was constantly perpetuated. I couldn't ignore it.

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posted June 20, 2014 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I've known sags to do this.

I know that's generalization and I hope we don't have a butthurt war over it.
It's like it says...
"I've known" sags to be that way.

Ones I've dated and a friend at work who admitted snooping through his girlfriends stuff AND he snooped through files at work and things left out on desks.

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Lmao one of my closest friends is a Sag sun, Taurus AC, Aqua moon and she's gone through her boyfriend's email quite frequently. My best friend's (aries sun) husband is a Sag sun, moon and mercury and he's gone through her phone, computer, and tablet before. Maybe you're onto something..

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posted June 20, 2014 07:00 PM            

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pretty simple, scorpio

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posted June 20, 2014 07:13 PM            

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Hmm, well I'm a Sag, but I'm very respectful of people's privacy as my Sun is in my 12th house. I'm soooo private, myself.

However, my Mom (Sag sun/Moon/MErcury) is not respectful of my privacy. Drives me nuts.

Scorps, yes, I find that they like to snoop.

My Aqua ex (Taurus Moon, Venus in Cap, Mars in Libra) hacked my FB account, and looked through my phone whenever he could.

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posted June 20, 2014 07:20 PM            

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Generally speaking, cheaters expect others to be cheaters as well and thus presume guilt. Since plenty of Sags are cheaters then I can see them being snoopy like that, not for being Sags, but for being cheaters. Sags who aren't cheaters shouldn't feel the need or interest (unless it's for a prank).

Scorpio has the rep of invading privacy while protecting his or her own, but that's instinctive so while I may find it annoying I can brush it off as "Scorpio" rather than "this is a person constantly suspicious of me, so I'd better be just as suspicious in return." Not to say that Scorpios never cheat, just that they'll be silently intrusive regardless.

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posted June 20, 2014 07:35 PM            

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Moon aspect to pluto, some scorp moons are paranoid too...

My sister has her saturn right on my north node and she is very intrusive in the Saturnian sense

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posted June 20, 2014 07:40 PM            

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As a sag moon i'm always honest about stuff like this. Either I ask them directly to let me check their phone or I tell them bluntly what i've done afterwards.

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posted June 22, 2014 11:14 PM            

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Yeah, Scorps.

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posted June 23, 2014 03:01 PM            

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i usually find saggis to pretty honest and straight forward. though i'm sure there are some with lotsa scorp placements that might make them suspicious and sneaky (not that all scorps are like that!)

anyways, i have a lot of 12th house action and i am VERY private, i don't really reveal myself for sometime. i would be even less likely to if i felt like someone was trying to invade my privacy.

i dated a cancer man, heavy water, who read my journals...when he knew that i didn't want anyone to read them.

and my mother is a scorp, heavy water, and she was crazy....she would turn my room upside down, spy on me at school (worked across the street)...and i swear she tapped the phone (there is no way she'd know some of the things she does, unless!)

i can't see air signs being motivated enough to find out the dirt on people....maybe that's ust me though....i don't want to know anything that people don't want me to know. when it comes to personal stuff anyways.

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posted June 23, 2014 03:51 PM            

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yup. butt hurt war....

i'm a sag s/m/m with a 12h scorp venus, 12h libra mars AND moon square pluto. i never ever snoop and i don't cheat.

i guess having all the snooping aspects must make me immune, right? lol! if i only had one i guess i'd be a snooper.

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posted June 23, 2014 05:20 PM            

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I actually consider that my prerogative.
I'd also stalk them if provided the chance.
Not in the dating biz anymore, however. Phew

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posted June 23, 2014 11:14 PM            

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Hmm, the only people I know that do this (consistently) have Mars in Gemini.

That said, my sample size only consists of three people, so take it with a grain of salt.

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posted June 24, 2014 02:25 AM            

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Originally posted by nove731:
Hmm, the only people I know that do this (consistently) have Mars in Gemini.

That said, my sample size only consists of three people, so take it with a grain of salt.

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interesting. my partner and i both have this and are not snoopers. i could see how curiosity could get the best of oneself. i hold my own privacy so highly it would feel like a crime to invade someone else's. that's probably my 12th house **** though.

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posted June 24, 2014 04:36 AM            

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Originally posted by mareaire:
interesting. my partner and i both have this and are not snoopers. i could see how curiosity could get the best of oneself. i hold my own privacy so highly it would feel like a crime to invade someone else's. that's probably my 12th house **** though.

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you might be on to something. Besides what was said about cheaters often snoop (which I'm actually not sure is true), it could also be added that those who value their own privacy are less likely to want to invade the privacy of others.

I'm also very private (V&M 12h) especially about my love/sex life.

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posted June 24, 2014 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I actually consider that my prerogative.
I'd also stalk them if provided the chance.
Not in the dating biz anymore, however. Phew

Virgo

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Ok the most stalkery stalker I knew is a Virgo. What is it about virgos that make them enjoy stalking?

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posted June 24, 2014 11:15 AM            

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I disagree with the whole cheaters are suspicious thing. Some people are just plain old suspicious. Some people are so suspicious that they assume the other is cheating, and then cheat themselves to get revenge.

I am a snooper. I have moon Pluto trine, in water signs. They trine my descendant too. I'm not sure how this would affect snooping but someone mentioned moon Pluto aspects. I'm not sneaky about it though. It's more like "hey I could find out whatever I want about you so stay in line ************ ." Though I am a little more stalkery of friends than the average person too.

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