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Topic: anyone else not attracted to 7th house placements?
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elise11
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From: deutschland
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 28, 2014 05:21 PM
  
Now that I ve finally found out I'm a Leo ascendant, and I certainly am, I just feel like it, I m still wondering why I m not attracted to my 7th house: Acquarius.
I find them sexy and exciting, really really exciting, but I m romantically drawn to water, especially pisces (my 7th house starts at the end of aqua and covers almost all of pisces). Anyone else who is rather attracted to the sign after their 7th house? Anyone attracted to the sign of the house the 7th house ruler is in (4th house= cancer, for me)?IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted June 28, 2014 05:42 PM
Yep
Never. They're fun to talk to but I've never been attracted.
My mom is Aries though (also Libra asc like me) so maybe there was some kind of subconscious block like, "ewwww no!" lol IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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From: The same energy that made you.
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posted June 28, 2014 05:55 PM
^ lol.I'm in the same boat. Sag DSC. No Sag ever that's significantly stood out IRL.
Some Sag placements I find attractive, like Mars, especially if it's close to my DSC or in my 8H (Sag rules both DSC & 8H).
I like Sag Moons as well but I think it's kinda one-sided, lmao.
I enjoy some Sag Suns but mainly if they're mature and exhibit the optimistic/faithful energies and not the righteous/cynical traits. Same goes for Mercury.
Venus in Sag is lost on me most of the time. Now, the ruler of my DSC is probably key. It's in Libra in the 6H conjunct Venus. I like Venusian energy a lottt. Earth energy as well.
Well technically I'm more often attracted to cold and broody types as represented by my Mars. But what I truly like and value, is shown by my Venus combined with the DSC/DSC ruler.
Thing is, I can't tell if I like it because Venus is involved or if it's because it's the DSC ruler. Since they're conjunct I can't separate the two. Oh, well. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 28, 2014 06:19 PM
The 7th house indicates the nature of the partnerships that you have; More especially the planet that rules it.My 7th house is in Scorpio;the ruler being Pluto.So the nature of my relationships are supposed to be very intimate and intense(in essence).That is true. When I look at my associations and close partnerships,I see that there are a lot of Pluto aspects that the people I am closest to have. Either my Pluto aspects their personal natal planets(Sun,Moon,Mercury,Venus,Mars)or they have Pluto aspects to personal planets already in their natal chart. I am definitely drawn to my 7th house ruler. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted June 28, 2014 06:48 PM
Makes sense. Mars being my Dsc ruler is Virgo, but conjunct my Libra asc.
Barbie is Libra and lots of aspects to my Mars/asc Along many other interesting connections. IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20
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From: I live where you vacation
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 28, 2014 07:00 PM
Yup here! My dsc is sagg and I mean I have found some attractive but nothing too extreme and plus I feel like we don't really connect and they just aren't my "type" I guess. I love them as friends but that's it. I find it odd since I have venus , Mars and Jupiter there BUT what I think affects it for me is my Saturn squaring that whole stellium so maybe that's why .... Could also be because of my Scorpio stellium (sun , mercury , moon) , I tend to like more intense , serious , stable guys/realtionships. One thing I also noticed is that I'm definitely attracted and I attract my secondary 7th house (9th ) which for me is aqua and I tend to really be attracted to people with some placements there as well.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 28, 2014 07:28 PM
Secondary houses seem legit, yes.IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
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From: 2099
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted June 28, 2014 10:41 PM
i have cancer and leo in the 7th. my first bff was a cancer . ive only been romantically attracted to leo types though and my first boyfriend was a leoIP: Logged |
lvASTRO
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From: Saturn
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 29, 2014 12:50 AM
Yeah, it can indicate everything from ruling planet, element, modality, even aspect types. IP: Logged |
elise11
Knowflake Posts: 69
From: deutschland
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 29, 2014 03:04 PM
My secondary DC is Gemini and i m not interested in Gemini at all. But i have my venus and merc exactly at my bfd s 4th house Cup which is his secondary house (DC moon) . I Wonder if this is why he s attracted to me because i have no cancer placements? also i have Lots of saggie placements and he has jupiter in direct opposition to his moon but i Don t know if that counts because i ve heard jupiter just strengthens the energy of a planet which would maybe just make him even more drawn to moon placements IP: Logged |
IV XXIV
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posted June 29, 2014 03:17 PM
My DSC is Scorpio and 7th house is shared by Scorpio and Sagittarius. I very seldom get along with Scorpio suns, but I don't mind Scorp Venus. I can get along platonically with Sagittarius, but in terms of a relationship, it'll never work. I'm attracted to certain traits Scorp has; intensity, passion, just general darkness.. But that's about it. Not attracted to ALL of a Scorpio, only select traits. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted June 29, 2014 03:40 PM
My 7th house ruler is the Moon and its exalt and conjunct my Nadir but in the 3rd house..See, it's a very strong Moon.. but I'm surprised it doesn't = me being attracted to women
or is it just very femme men?  IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 29, 2014 05:40 PM
Aries dsc, I love Aries moon men, but the Aries sun guys always seem abit annoying and too pushy. For some reason I like scorpios, and usually go for them instead, maybe because the old ruler of Scorpio is mars. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Death Star
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 29, 2014 06:19 PM
Pisces DSC. Some of the qualities of this signs appeal to me a lot but I'm not sure how I'd feel about actual planets there. Perhaps it would be too vanilla or too wishy washy.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted June 30, 2014 02:40 AM
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I'm so cappy
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From: Death Star
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posted June 30, 2014 03:09 PM
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Also 7th house is the opposite of your ascendant, the first house of self. It's your void, and it's the dark side of the moon to the shiny side that everyone sees. And it's only accessible through other people. 1st house is hey that me. 7th house is like oh here's the side of me that a loved one brings out.
Not in my case. Sun conjunct Neptune  ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted June 30, 2014 03:20 PM
I can't stand aries sun, they are so rough emotionally and physically. I prefer not being stepped on by a goat as he pushes his way to the top. They literally ram you if your taking the time to stop and think about life and what your doing, where your going and how your going to get there...they don't think thought is necessary most the time, it seems to be a waste of time to them.I do like aries AC though, they appear to have the qualities that fit my needs, which attracts me, but deep down they are something different(hopefully) and they can step back and ponder life a little easier unless they have some other issues or afflictions to their sun/moon signs.
Aries Sun or Moon is a no-no! I'm not sure about an aries Mars but aries Venus? No! It's like taking all the refinement out of Venus....it's not attractive to me!
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elise11
Knowflake Posts: 69
From: deutschland
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 01, 2014 03:06 AM
 i m usually friends with my own AC DC axis, so leo AC or acquarius AC (but bring romanticalky totally indifferent to the acqua AC) , and with virgo sun because it falls into my 1st house ( but Never virgo moon, venus etc). Really weired astrology ins t it IP: Logged |
Lotis White
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted July 01, 2014 06:19 AM
To me the 7th house is only part of a person's entire attraction pattern, and so only tells part of the story of who we're attracted to. Of course there's the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses, and the sign and houses placement of the rulers of these houses. Natal aspects to these rulers tell a lot about our tendencies in these areas too. Then there's the Vertex Axis, Certain asteroids (my favorites are Eros, Psyche, and Juno), secondary houses (having a Taurus Dsc and being attracted to the placements of your 2nd house), and Venus and Mars to take into account. Each person actually has a wide range of ways the can connect to others in a romantic sense. When a certain theme repeats itself throughout the attraction pattern it becomes more pronounced. IP: Logged |
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