posted August 20, 2014 02:48 PM            

I asked basically because I'm an Aries and I feel like I make people uncomfortable just with my presence and feel I just don't blend in with people, at least within small settings. I'm trying to think of all the astrological reasons for this - for instance I have three Aries placements and I think they're exaggerated by the air in my chart. Actually, that just made me think of my Gemini ASC and maybe that's why I meet so many seemingly "nervous" people (I meet LOTS of people who fit my ASC vs. me actually fitting my ASC.). Just thinking out loud here....

posted August 20, 2014 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Aries people are so cute <3 untill they bite your head off.

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posted August 20, 2014 06:00 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I forgot I made this thread, I was so tired last night!

I asked basically because I'm an Aries and I feel like I make people uncomfortable just with my presence and feel I just don't blend in with people, at least within small settings. I'm trying to think of all the astrological reasons for this - for instance I have three Aries placements and I think they're exaggerated by the air in my chart. Actually, that just made me think of my Gemini ASC and maybe that's why I meet so many seemingly "nervous" people (I meet LOTS of people who fit my ASC vs. me actually fitting my ASC.). Just thinking out loud here....

I thought maybe people felt uncomfortable around me because Aries naturally have a forceful, Martian vibe. But the lot of you say you feel comfortable around Aries' so I guess that's not it. Or simply that people are actually nervous nellies more often than not.

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posted August 21, 2014 03:42 AM            

My bestie of over 17 years is an Aries Sun/Gem Moon..So is my mother. And my favorite nephew (he'd sprout an ego the size of Everest (it's only Rainier sized now) if he ever heard me say that ) is an Aries Sun/Gem Moon as well..

posted August 22, 2014 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by fenia:
People feel uncomfortable around you or maybe it's the other way around? If not, then you intimidate them..

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I just notice anything I include myself in immediately fizzles out, like it would've continued a bit longer had I not piped up. I'm self-aware enough that I'm pretty sure I don't say offensive things, thus leaving me stumped as to why it happens and why I'm simply not included in the conversation.

For example, my second job: when I arrive there, as long as I don't try to join in on the conversation the co-workers both coming on shift, and leaving, will stand around chit-chatting and joking with each other. I did an experiment, sort of, and kept quiet until they left on their own and they stayed after a good 15 minutes or so. The next time I waited until I had something to say which was about 5 minutes after I got there, and I interjected with something humorous - they smiled / laughed, but left much sooner. I did it a few more times just to see - same thing. It actually happens here sometimes, I'll go on an active thread and kill it super fast even if I'm on topic, haha.

posted August 22, 2014 02:10 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
It actually happens here sometimes, I'll go on an active thread and kill it super fast even if I'm on topic

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Speaking for myself, I've never felt uneasy about your posts. I don't recall backing away slowly from your threads, and if anyone else did, I don't recall that either.

posted August 22, 2014 02:15 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Speaking for myself, I've never felt uneasy about your posts. I don't recall backing away slowly from your threads, and if anyone else did, I don't recall that either.

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