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MiaPluto
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posted August 27, 2014 12:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MiaPluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that you feel like you are them?

Sometimes you subconsciously act like them.

And there's something so uncannily familiar about them that when you watch them you can relate and understand their way of being really well.

There's a celebrity like that, you see.

We have a lot of pluto aspects. They're mostly double whammy.

Mars-Pluto double whammy:
His Pluto conjunct my mars, my Pluto trine his mars.

Pluto-Jupiter double whammy:
His Pluto square my Jupiter, my Pluto opposite his Jupiter.

Also, my Pluto conjuncts his Sun.

And these are all really tight aspects!

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BellaFenice
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posted August 27, 2014 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is this the same celebrity that you are obsessed over in the horary thread? IDK girl, this comes across as a little bit unhealthy.

To answer your question: no.

I've had plenty of Pluto synastry to where I could really understand and relate to them. but never felt like I was them or subconsciously acted like them.

Edit: You asked what he would think of you, if he would feel a connection to you, and if you would ever meet him in about 5 different horaries. I think you need to take a step back and take off the rose colored glasses.

This is a Neptune issue: you are putting this person on a pedestal and believing that this ideal is the most perfect being on earth. What you have this person out to be in your head is much different than the reality.

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MiaPluto
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posted August 27, 2014 02:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MiaPluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Is this the same celebrity that you are obsessed over in the horary thread? IDK girl, this comes across as a little bit unhealthy.

To answer your question: no.


I already know that.

I know it.

Since a long time now.

*hits forehead against the wall repeatedly*

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Dreaminess
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posted August 27, 2014 06:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This sounds more like neptune related than pluto. Do you have any neptune/pisces/12th house influence in your chart? i know neptunians/pisceans have a tendency to "lose" themselves when they are in love/obsessed with someone, they litterly want to become at one with that person.I have venus square pluto and have had pluto aspects in synastry with men i have been in "love" with before, yeah i was obsessed but i never "lost" myself in them.

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MiaPluto
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posted August 27, 2014 06:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MiaPluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dreaminess:
This sounds more like neptune related than pluto. Do you have any neptune/pisces/12th house influence in your chart? i know neptunians/pisceans have a tendency to "lose" themselves when they are in love/obsessed with someone, they litterly want to become at one with that person.I have venus square pluto and have had pluto aspects in synastry with men i have been in "love" with before, yeah i was obsessed but i never "lost" myself in them.

Yes, my neptune is strongly square his Venus.

And my moon is square his Venus, but at a loose orbit. xx

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Doux Rêve
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posted August 27, 2014 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not really that I was them but rather, that they were a part of me, like an extension of myself, my soul and my heart.

That's how I felt with someone a few years ago when my Venus was trine transiting Neptune; my own Neptune trined their Venus, and their Venus was in my 12H.

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athenegoddess
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posted August 27, 2014 08:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes,

Thats what attraction means. When you are attracted to someone, its because they represent something inside of you that you is lacking. And you are trying to fill it in by making this person become one with you.

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Doux Rêve
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posted August 27, 2014 08:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Yes, and that sounds very 12th house-y!

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In the 12th, we go beyond ordinary partnership. This is the house where we look to partnership to be a conduit for the numinous. This is the house where we seek to find the lost and abandoned part of ourselves through ‘other.’

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Neptune attracts in a Venusian sense, but it attracts via a finer vibration. Unlike Venus, Neptune has no ‘come hither’ look. It’s motives are not that clear and obvious, and its method is mysterious. It has less to do with material reality (2nd) and basic fulfillment of emptiness (7th) than it has with vibration. It brings together that which is vibrating at the same frequency. The 12th house attracts through resonance. It will draw what the soul requires.

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When we do not see our ultimate connection to the divine, we may search for divinity in partnership. When this happens, we project our god within, our most numinous selves, on to ‘other.’ The sign on the 12th house, and planets there, can indicate what (and who) we worship. If we can’t comprehend our own 12th house alignment with the cosmos, we will project that divinity on to others. Much of the fame-worship in our culture is, and always has been, connected to our inability to recognize the god in ourselves. Glamour of all kinds is associated with Neptune and the 12th.

http://theinnerwheel.com/2009/09/16/synastry-studies-the-twelfth-house-and-the-double-inconjunct/


Neptune aspects could possibly be included, as well.

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