posted November 01, 2014 05:49 PM            

T. Saturn conjunct My Sun, Mars, Pluto, & Descendant currently.

almost at the 6th house cusp creeping up on the 7th..

I hope this is good news.

I am craving an intense, deeply emotional bond..

I need this.

But yet, I am alone.. working and just living life.

Take note that I also have a libra moon in the 5th which would explain the extra need to be with someone...

I hate you Saturn.

I just thought we could discuss our experiences because im pretty sure I'm not alone.

posted November 02, 2014 11:22 AM            

Saturn is transiting my 7th and will be going on to the 8th house later this year and so,the issues of relationships and relationship intimacy are themes for me too.

There are people in my life whom I had expected to be there for me and show they care.And it is not forthcoming.They are not making any efforts to see how I am doing.

There are people that I have ignored and not really paid much attention to before.And they are reaching out.

I have had to ask myself; is it better to befriend someone because you have a "connection" with the person?

Or is it wiser to call someone a "friend",when they have shown that they are consistently there for you?

These are not necessarily the same things.And the word "friend" is one that you will know the true definition of as the transit goes on. As Saturn has definitely shown that the former is passing whilst the latter lasts.

So during this transit,people will reach out to you that you may not necessarily feel are your intellectual equal or that you "click" with etc. But they will care very much for you.

You may also be reaching out to people that you believed are/were your friends.People that you thought you had a deeper connection with- only to realize that they are indifferent,annoyed or even emotionally unavailable to you.

The last part is the painful part. And you may have to delete a few names from your phone book whilst highlighting others.

If someone unexpected reaches out to you during this time,don't make them regret the pains they took to do it.

posted November 02, 2014 01:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:

I am craving an intense, deeply emotional bond..

I need this.

But yet, I am alone.. working and just living life.

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posted November 02, 2014 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I hear you.Man I hear you.

Saturn is transiting my 7th and will be going on to the 8th house later this year and so,the issues of relationships and relationship intimacy are themes for me too.

There are people in my life whom I had expected to be there for me and show they care.And it is not forthcoming.They are not making any efforts to see how I am doing.

There are people that I have ignored and not really paid much attention to before.And they are reaching out.

I have had to ask myself; is it better to befriend someone because you have a "connection" with the person?

Or is it wiser to call someone a "friend",when they have shown that they are consistently there for you?

These are not necessarily the same things.And the word "friend" is one that you will know the true definition of as the transit goes on. As Saturn has definitely shown that the former is passing whilst the latter lasts.

So during this transit,people will reach out to you that you may not necessarily feel are your intellectual equal or that you "click" with etc. But they will care very much for you.

You may also be reaching out to people that you believed are/were your friends.People that you thought you had a deeper connection with- only to realize that they are indifferent,annoyed or even emotionally unavailable to you.

The last part is the painful part. And you may have to delete a few names from your phone book whilst highlighting others.

If someone unexpected reaches out to you during this time,don't make them regret the pains they took to do it.

You may lose popularity.But you will gain genuine friends.

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You described the way I'm feeling, perfectly.

I'm not so sure on the last part though..

Everyone who reaches out to you does not have your best interest at heart, but I understand what you're saying.

I do feel a huge shift in my relationships that I can't quite put a finger in.. blame Transit neptune squaring my pluto also.. for that one.

All of my relationships are in a mythical state of flux at the moment.

I'm content, but confused.

Nervous, but excited.

These transits are really helping me see that nothing in life permanent.