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Topic: Does progressed cap do the same 'poker face' thing as natal cap?
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Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 03:57 PM
I asked the same question in another topic but didn't get an answer so I decided to do a new topic about it.Quote from Odette: Capricorn is very good at the 'poker face' thing.. so they can seem disinterested even when they are head over heels for someone. Many women will take this at face value and leave you alone. Does progressed cap do the same thing? My ex has a lot of sag in natal but in progressed he has a lot of cap and stares at me a lot with his "poker face". IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 10830 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 16, 2015 03:59 PM
You mean like this? And this? IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 04:19 PM
Yes like the first one! I can't see the second one though. It's just an empty square box..And something like this too And this but without the dramatic mouth opening IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4206 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 16, 2015 04:27 PM
Hello Einfühlung! Welcome to LL ------------------ "There ain't no revolution, only evolution, but every time I'm in Georgia I 'eat a peach' for peace." Duane Allman IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 5363 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 04:30 PM
Personally....I think you need to try to figure out why you care so much about what's going on in your exes head. I've seen so many threads regarding this, sweetheart you must be going crazy wondering what's going on.If you still have feelings for him and believe he has for you...then talk to him. We can't give you the real deal, only he can, all we have are our opinions and speculation on what's going on. All this talk, stress and obsessing is unnecessary and has to be driving you crazy! It really sounds like you have doubts that he is with the person he's meant to be with, just admit that to yourself, it's ok to feel that way!! You wonder if it's you he's meant to be with. You wonder if he feels that to and maybes he's trying to give you subtle hints. Best thing you can do is talk to him! IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 04:32 PM
Thank you lalalinda IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 5363 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 04:35 PM
If he doesn't feel the same, we can help you get over him so you can find a love that you deserve! IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 04:42 PM
Thanks Gabby for saying it like it is. I just can't get over him, and I just don't have any closure. And I'm not sure if I still have feelings or don't because one day I'm fine but another day I'm not. I will ask him. I've forgotten nobody can really mind-read what a person is thinking and that it's better to confront him about it.IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 04:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: If he doesn't feel the same, we can help you get over him so you can find a love that you deserve!
Thank you this makes me really happy :') IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 5363 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 04:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Einfühlung: Thanks Gabby for saying it like it is. I just can't get over him, and I just don't have any closure. And I'm not sure if I still have feelings or don't because one day I'm fine but another day I'm not. I will ask him. I've forgotten nobody can really mind-read what a person is thinking and that it's better to confront him about it.
Relationships ending is never easy, it never will be! But if you have questions ask those questions to the people that have the answers, for you, ask him. You need closure, you probably don't want to be with him still but your remembering the good times, the sweet things he did, the times he met your needs and forgetting the times he was an insensitive jerk. It's easy to do this once they are gone, we romance the past. I bet if you were to get around him again and have to rely in his warmth to make you happy again...you might decide the breakup was for the best. So first try to talk to him, see where he is at and how you feel afterwards.....then go from there. We are here for you! IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 05:02 PM
Thank you for the motivational speech! I'm trying not to expect anything either because I know that will probably turn out bad. I actually think of the bad he did too but sometimes I think, "what if he learned from it?" And sometimes I think it's my fault he broke up with me and I think of all the things I did that I didn't realize would hurt him too. But yes, all I need is closure. Nothing more nothing less.Now hopefully I won't forget to ask him next time I see him because I see him occasionally. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 5363 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 05:29 PM
You could email him if it's easier? That way you have time to edit what you want to say and it give him the opportunity to think before he answers. IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 05:36 PM
I don't have his email or any form of contact... Plus his girlfriend is seriously the jealous type and she probably has all his contact information and if she sees me trying to contact him, she will wreak havoc. That happened once when I messaged him on Facebook a long time ago. All I said was hi. Don't want that situation to happen again.IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 05:50 PM
I thought he was still single too because he had no relationship status. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 5363 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 16, 2015 06:44 PM
Ok....keep us posted! IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 10830 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 16, 2015 06:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Einfühlung: Yes like the first one! I can't see the second one though. It's just an empty square box..
Jake Gyllenhaal must have bad juju because so far I've posted TWO pics of him and both links broke after a short time! Trying a third time... IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 07:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Jake Gyllenhaal must have bad juju because so far I've posted TWO pics of him and both links broke after a short time! Trying a third time...
I can see him now! Wow he's smoking... Haha IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 16, 2015 07:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Ok....keep us posted!
I will! IP: Logged |
MoonBunny Newflake Posts: 9 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 17, 2015 01:44 PM
This reminds me of my cappy friend. He always talks about his poker face, but he refers to it as his "***** face." Lol he is so funny!! He is always telling me that most of the time it is really inconvenient, and causes people to have a horrible impression of him/his mood. ------------------ "Sólo una cosa vuelve un sueño imposible: el miedo a fracasar." - Paulo Coelho IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 18, 2015 12:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by MoonBunny: This reminds me of my cappy friend. He always talks about his poker face, but he refers to it as his "***** face." Lol he is so funny!! He is always telling me that most of the time it is really inconvenient, and causes people to have a horrible impression of him/his mood.
Lol! You know I've got a brother and friend who are cappies and they do that too! But that's only when they're not around people they know. When I'm with them they don't have their poker faces on. Unless they're really good at hiding what they're actually feeling.. O_O But I can usually tell what they're feeling from their tone of voice and what they're saying. Other Cappies I've met are really hard to talk to sometimes. Can't really tell if I'm annoying them or not.
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theunknown Knowflake Posts: 1815 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 18, 2015 12:49 AM
I don't thibk progressed chart shows up on ones appearance. Progress is just for comparison with natal but not something you can detect when it comes to faces.If you study ppl for a while you will learn how to read cap. Facial expression is just one part of body languages IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Oklahoma Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 18, 2015 01:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by theunknown: Facial expression is just one part of body languages
That is true! Thanks for the helpful opinion IP: Logged |