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Topic: Venus in Aries.
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Libreo
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posted November 12, 2011 08:27 PM
  
Can someone please explain the traits of this placement to me? I understand that it's actually a PASSIVE placement. Do I really have to do all the work? I want to be chased. He has Aries sun so will that balance things out?IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 12, 2011 08:30 PM
lol what?? Venus in pisces is passive, venus in aries WILL chase if they're into you.IP: Logged |
tuxedoMask
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posted November 12, 2011 08:31 PM
passive? uh... where's mars?IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 12, 2011 08:32 PM
I knew an Aries with Aries Venus/Taurus Mars, Virgo Moon. The woman still had to do all the work. He had Sun conj Venus too which doesn't help.
I'm waiting now to hear of evidence to the contrary as it is a weird finding..IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 12, 2011 08:34 PM
Lonake I think it's cos the guy had his taurus in mars lol... So he would move slow. Earth mars move slow in general, and virgo moon would be he's cautious.
Venus in aries are usually pretty forward.
I think it's the sun conjunct venus that's causing it? They're used to people coming to them and not having to put too much work in, so are less aggressive about the chase.
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Libreo
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posted November 12, 2011 08:36 PM
Lonake it's the same guy the psychic told me about. TuxedoMask his Mars is in Pisces, moon in Cancer. He's keen, but won't chase.IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan
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posted November 12, 2011 08:39 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Can someone please explain the traits of this placement to me? I understand that it's actually a PASSIVE placement. Do I really have to do all the work? I want to be chased. He has Aries sun so will that balance things out?
Venus in Aries in not passive, it's detriment because Libra which is ruled by Venus is the opposite sign of Aries. I personally enjoy this placement. Passionate, impulsive, aggressive, and it's conjunct's my Mars in Aries.  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted November 12, 2011 08:41 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Mars is in Pisces, moon in Cancer. He's keen, but won't chase.
He'd rather merge
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tuxedoMask
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posted November 12, 2011 08:42 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Lonake it's the same guy the psychic told me about. TuxedoMask his Mars is in Pisces, moon in Cancer. He's keen, but won't chase.
mars in pisces is passive. venus in aries is not. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted November 12, 2011 08:47 PM
Oh dear, so should I be taking this passiveness as disinterest then? :-(IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 12, 2011 08:53 PM
mars in pisces is sooo passive. I just think a girl shouldn't chase... Ever. Let him come to you. He's a man afterall right?IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted November 12, 2011 09:00 PM
http://cafeastrology.com/articles/venusinariesmarsinpisces.html Still confused! Lol. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 12, 2011 09:06 PM
mars in pisces are pretty flighty ... IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted November 12, 2011 09:29 PM
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I understand that it's actually a PASSIVE placement.
IMO It depends on the Mars.
If a man has an Aries Venus with a confident/strong Mars like Scorpio/Capricorn/Aries/Leo... It won't be a *huge* problem in terms of chasing. But if you attract a man with Aries Venus - who also happens to have an extra feminine Mars like Taurus, Cancer or Pisces... You can just about bet that they have very 'different' ideas about how dating should go...
And usually this means the male role (Mars) is seen as feminine/passive... whereas the female role - (Venus) is seen as masculine/overt. I think I may have said this before... but - what I would be worried about with this Aries Venus/Pisces Mars combination would be that he portrays women as sexually aggressive and animalistic whilst men are the poor little *saints* corrupted by these sinful "women"... I know this ^ may sound strange - but I've had my own experiences with Aries/Pisces mixes in men (in particular Aries Venus)... and they do sometimes make things very religious.
I see them as having good 'potential' to become a psychopath who goes out and murders random prostitutes. They have issues with sex and they blame the women of the world for their own issues.
If you point out the hypocrisy of their Christian beliefs coupled with their rage against women -- they will never get it! IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted November 12, 2011 09:34 PM
Also - as far as I'm concerned.... I feel like gagging when I hear such pleasant sweet-things about Pisces Mars or Pisces Sun in men.YES they can be good people.. Anyone can be a good person. But they are not "cute" - "naive" - or - "innocent". Pisces is the last sign and they are faaaaaar from being "innocent". On their dark side - they can be very dark - very negative - and extremely cruel.. much worse than anything you read in the Scorpio interpretation. So all this pink fluff like "awww pisces is sweet sensitive and passive".... is actually more like "they are passive-aggressive" - rather than simply passive. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted November 12, 2011 09:38 PM
Cruel? Murderous? Good god I have children!IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted November 12, 2011 09:44 PM
Unless he actually sees you as a prostitute – you are probably safe.Although what they see as “prostitute-like” behaviour can sometimes border on the ridiculous.. My ex Pisces with Aries venus --- became hugely abusive one day because of the fact that I was apparently wearing too much makeup (according to him). I should add that he is from a perfectly Western background. He is Australian.. baby blue eyes and dirty blonde hair!
So his 'culture'/background does not excuse this 'chauvinistic' attitude. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted November 12, 2011 10:36 PM
Pisces mars can be inhumane and cold hearted. An ex had this with a gemini venus, scorp moon, cancer sun. What he did to me, his actions, his words, his attitude.. Im still trying to get my head round everything. Nobody with a conscience would ever do what he did. Its like he really lacked the gene for empathy. It makes me sick to knw some people r so selfish and r horrible human beings.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted November 12, 2011 10:37 PM
Ok optimism is shaky now.IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted November 12, 2011 11:16 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
mars in pisces is sooo passive. I just think a girl shouldn't chase... Ever. Let him come to you. He's a man afterall right?
some of us gals have masculine mars placements and we like chasing :-) i've never had a man complain when i show interest first - most really like it, especially if you make the first move and then back off. my current bf is a mars in pisces and if i'd waited on him... well, i'd have waited forever, so i just took control of it all initially. i would say to a woman to go ahead and chase. you'll know right away if he's interested or not, no games needed and you can move forward or move along. IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted November 12, 2011 11:21 PM
Thanks Starmoon, he seems to appreciate my chasing, but I don't know, with my moon in Leo I'd kinda like it to be the other way around. Do you find any of the things Betty Boop has said to be the case with your guy? I'm really worried, but greatful for the warning.IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted November 12, 2011 11:24 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
Pisces mars can be inhumane and cold hearted...
I agree, kinda, on a lesser scale. My mom has her Mars in Pisces and it's like her and the world were not meant to be. I dunno, she can be a great person, for sure! But never get her drunk, let alone talk to her when she's stressed (which is almost always about almost anything). IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted November 14, 2011 04:26 PM
I dated three pisces men and after the last one decided not to date that sign anymore. They are kind of immature, don't know what they want and can be jerks.But the nicest chick I have ever met in my life is a pisces sun with moon in aries and venus and mars in pisces and ascendent in scorpio.IP: Logged |
amelia28
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posted November 14, 2011 04:28 PM
I become friends with a guy who is a leo with moon in scorpio, venus in cancer and mars in pisces and he is a nice guy who likes strong smart women. Not my type but he is a nice guy. Would never murder anyone and really smart.IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 14, 2011 04:33 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Can someone please explain the traits of this placement to me? I understand that it's actually a PASSIVE placement. Do I really have to do all the work? I want to be chased. He has Aries sun so will that balance things out?
Huh? Uhm... NO. Lmao. I have Venus in Aries and it is NOT passive. I have to hold myself back from doing all the work and all the chasing because otherwise the whole relationship would be that way. Venus in Aries is an initiator placement, I'm friendly, comfortable with myself and around people (as long as it's a feeling of equals, otherwise I get nervous) and I have no problem telling someone they're attractive 'cause it doesn't mean anything other than exactly that - unless it goes somewhere.  I fall in love quickly and once interested in someone I'll do a lot for them, be very generous. However, hurt me once and I turn to ice. I'll pretend you don't even exist and it will seem like I never did to you either. IP: Logged |
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