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Topic: Can a moon–neptune hard aspect person ever learn to not tap into others?
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Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 480
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted July 10, 2015 04:27 PM
  
Not only do i have moon–neptune opposition but i also have my moon in cancer and i feel this worsen it. I feel confused of what my hopes thoughts and feelings are. I can start hoping, feeling and think about something just to later find out that someone i know have thought the same things. Often too i can start thinking and feeling something and then the person i am with will blurt out what i was thinking. Not only has this happened with people i know but also with strangers, even strangers at a distanced. Like here on LL for example it has happened a few times that i get a sudden curiosity about a certain aspect placement etc and feel a sudden urge to make a thread about it but choosing not to but later see someone else here suddenly made a thread about that very same aspect placement etc that i thought about, and not only did they make a thread about it the same day i thought about it but also asking the exact questions i`ve been wondering about or writing something i`ve been thinking about. I thought moon–neptune folks only tap into people that are around them? Like i feel so lost from the inside, its hard to "catch" my feelings and thoughts, i feel they are lost among the masses. It saddens me that i accidentally tap into another person`s ideas, thoughts feelings and plans and thinking it was my own just to realise i just fed off on another person. How on earth can i learn to shield myself and "find" my feelings, hopes and thoughts? IP: Logged |
Eirlys
Knowflake Posts: 475
From: Atlantic Coast
Registered: May 2013
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posted July 10, 2015 04:54 PM
How do you know they aren't tapping into yours?Or... have you ever heard someone say that you're 'on the same wavelength' before? Maybe there's something to that, if those people are also Neptunian. 
(Moon square Neptune, here.. exact)
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Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 480
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted July 10, 2015 05:04 PM
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Originally posted by Eirlys:
How do you know they aren't tapping into yours?Or... have you ever heard someone say that you're 'on the same wavelength' before? Maybe there's something to that, if those people are also Neptunian.
(Moon square Neptune, here.. exact)
That thought have occured to me but it has happened way too much with me that i have just realised its me and not them. It has even happened with people that don`t know that i even exist. IP: Logged |
ReadingTheStars95
Knowflake Posts: 447
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Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 10, 2015 05:23 PM
Personally, I have Neptune aspecting everything in my chart but Mercury.. Honestly, I've had a lot of moments where I'm not sure where my feelings are coming from.. Or rather, sometimes I don't know HOW I feel about things, and have a hard time deciding. (I partly attribute that to my Neptune-Mars aspect.. One of my aspects I believe I feel quite strongly..)You could look in to energetic/psychic shielding. That might help. I'm curious.. Is your Neptune direct or retrograde? IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 480
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted July 10, 2015 05:41 PM
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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
Personally, I have Neptune aspecting everything in my chart but Mercury.. Honestly, I've had a lot of moments where I'm not sure where my feelings are coming from.. Or rather, sometimes I don't know HOW I feel about things, and have a hard time deciding. (I partly attribute that to my Neptune-Mars aspect.. One of my aspects I believe I feel quite strongly..)You could look in to energetic/psychic shielding. That might help. I'm curious.. Is your Neptune direct or retrograde?
Uff that must be challenging to have that much neptune influence. Btw i also have Sun and mars square neptune. Yeah these thoughts and feelings i get are often very sudden and not really been something i`ve cared about earlier and they just come up out of nowhere, it confuses me esp since those thoughts and feelings ends up being told by another person. I also have a hard time knowing how i feel about things and also explaining how i feel. IP: Logged |
fireopal09
Knowflake Posts: 558
From: Dallas,TX, Us
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 10, 2015 06:12 PM
I have 7H Pisces Moon square 4H Sagittarius Neptune. I absolutely get what you are saying. People bring me their trauma. It is hard not feel what others' are feeling. I internalize other people's moods way too easily. I am nearing 42 rotations around the Sun, and still am learning how create boundaries. Self care and downtime are vital for people like us. My Sagittarius Moon SO gave me the perfect metaphor: Flight attendants always tell you to put your own oxygen mask on first; so should you. I'm really lucky to have him around to tell me to STOP. He thinks astrology is bunk, but he unwittingly negates his opinion all the time. I follow the HALT rule. Never get too Hungry Angry Lonely Tired. ------------------
Claire
"When going gets weird, the weird turn pro."
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Eirlys
Knowflake Posts: 475
From: Atlantic Coast
Registered: May 2013
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posted July 10, 2015 06:53 PM
@fireopalWhere is your Sun, if you don't mind me asking? ------------------
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fireopal09
Knowflake Posts: 558
From: Dallas,TX, Us
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 10, 2015 06:59 PM
My Libra Sun/Uranus conjunction is in the 2nd house.------------------
Claire
"When going gets weird, the weird turn pro."
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SDragon
Moderator Posts: 479
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 10, 2015 07:39 PM
Neptune sq. Moon in Pisces. Major major downtime. Music, movies and my martial arts gives me time to zone out. Hmm... now that I think about it, I go to my senses when I need to escape. Music - hearing, movies - sight, martial arts - body, maybe because I have a Taurus stellium (sun, venus, mars, mercury). Where are your other planets and can you focus on them more? IP: Logged |
Eirlys
Knowflake Posts: 475
From: Atlantic Coast
Registered: May 2013
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posted July 10, 2015 09:44 PM
Thanks, fireopal ------------------
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Faith
Knowflake Posts: 11577
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 11, 2015 12:14 AM
Pisces moon square NeptuneYes I can block it off. I don't always tap into others. But I usually try and see everyone's point of view, relate to them, have compassion. Then I end up in crossfires because I sympathized at least partially with two people who are fighting, or naively thought I could bridge a communication gap.  I make a lot of mistakes. Hmmm, I'm researching this aspect: quote:
At times, they feel very much at mercy of their emotions, yet they have a hard time truly understanding or defining their emotional worlds.
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/moonneptuneaspects.html That's true. My emotional compass is bonkers, and it's a real handicap in my life.
I mean, I can do a lot of practical Cap sun things, because they don't require emotional intelligence, not necessarily... Going after bigger dreams and goals is hard, though. First, it's hard to pinpoint the dream, and second, it's hard to dream if you foresee landing in the public sphere and being subjected to all sorts of people and their vibes, as a consequence of "success." IP: Logged |
Eirlys
Knowflake Posts: 475
From: Atlantic Coast
Registered: May 2013
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posted July 11, 2015 02:39 AM
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Originally posted by SDragon:
Neptune sq. Moon in Pisces. Major major downtime. Music, movies and my martial arts gives me time to zone out. Hmm... now that I think about it, I go to my senses when I need to escape. Music - hearing, movies - sight, martial arts - body, maybe because I have a Taurus stellium (sun, venus, mars, mercury). Where are your other planets and can you focus on them more?
I do that too... time alone, where *I* control the emotional-sensory input. I'm not into martial arts, but I will put some miles on the treadmill. When I go with a friend, I'm beginning to notice that I'm expending more energy wrapped up in what's going on in her world (aka listening) than actually exercising... having an A-ha moment, here. Thought I was just slacking. Damn. :/
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Janah
Knowflake Posts: 133
From: Berkeley, CA
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 11, 2015 07:15 AM
You just say, "Not today, Satan," and keep swimming on with your life. Jk, partially. I have Moon exactly conjunct Neptune in the 8th house, and sometimes I can feel the negative vibes being sent through the inter-webs, but you have to accept that you are sensitive, but also that you have the ability to turn others' negative emotions into positive results. I read somewhere that people with heavy Neptunian energy need to find ways to encompass or secure their head/crown area so they won't absorb the energies of every environment they enter. I guess the Neptunian mask helps sometimes, but since it relates to the moon and feelings, sometimes you have to forget yourself and others to see the positive. And remember, water is extremely powerful, fluid, flexible. That's an advantage in itself. IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
Knowflake Posts: 1071
From:
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 11, 2015 07:28 AM
I can relate 100% to your post.I have moon in the 5th house square neptune in the 8th house along with a strongly aspected mars with Aries being the ruler of my 12th house with my mars sitting almost right on my 7th house cusp! I also have a strong Scorpio stellium with Heavy Pluto Saturn aspects attached. Illusions, deception, etc in my intimate relationships. I definitely know what you mean when you said you might feel something or think something and someone around you will blurt it out. I thought this was just a coincidence but after it kept happening and I brushed up on my natal chart aspects, I realized Moon-Neptune was the culprit I enjoy this aspect despite its downfalls. It allows me to become intimate with my loved ones despite my Moon-Uranus sqaure also. I am definitely hypersensitive and dreamy. I cry at the drop of a hat! The fact that my moon is in Libra in the 5th house squaring Neptune just adds to my child-like dreamy state. It's hard to cope with reality which is not too good when you're 21 & entering your last year of college  Emotionally, moon-neptune makes me feel like a 12-year old little girl believing in fairytales. Do you think we can actually read others' thoughts and vice versa? (if certain individuals had the aspect). It freaks my "Scorpioness" out when someone blurts outcexactly what I was just thinking or feeling. Others with moon-neptune, you guys don't find that creepy? Haha IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 9087
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 12, 2015 10:51 AM
I have moon in Taurus in exact opposition to Neptune in Scorpio and I am very empathic. Perhaps you are, too? It's difficult for an empath because the human world is not based on empaths, rather, people with duller senses, and we may develop various defense mechanism to deal with being different than most since it's easier to manipulate empaths by playing on our feelings. Empaths come off looking too sensitive or impressionable and others can manipulate or ridicule these qualities. It's this empathy that allows you to take energy from others and translate it into thoughts so maybe you are picking up on energy and not sure where it originated, in yourself or someone else. We can't always discern the source of the energy, just recognize the thoughts when we see them because we had them. IP: Logged | |
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