posted October 11, 2015 08:27 PM            

I know that if you look at your mars and all you'll have pretty much the knowledge about what angers you and all that, but still, I'll ask against all odds:
what would usually frustrate/anger/infuriate you?
How do you live your anger? is it a burning inferno, a frozen hell or a simple spark that never truly light?
And, the most obvious
What aspects would you say influence this anger.

I'll start with myself, of course:

I usually have a pretty high tolerance and doesn't get angry too often. I forgive very often(never forget however)
But when I do get angry it's because people wouldn't respect the limits I impose them.
I am very uptight on limits ahah, if I respect yours, you'd damn well respect mine and my tolerance is very low on those things.
Also, when people try to touch or steal what I deem is Mine (may it be a person or an object) Fury is unleashed and you can expect an underhanded battle (never said I was fair) where I'll destroy the person or its reputation as well as I can.
I'm not the sort to yell, scream or punch (unless I lose too much games), I'm more of the vindictive type, being excessively vicious with my words, but never raising my voice. No matter what, I'll get even with the one who wronged me.
I have this "cold anger" type that frightens many people who saw it.

posted October 11, 2015 08:50 PM            

Well good thing I don't have a thing for guys who are taken.

posted October 11, 2015 09:15 PM            

My Aqua Mars gets angry at universal wrongs. I rage at racism, sexism, any form of bigotry or oppression. I rage at people's pettiness, indifference and cruelty. I rage over wars and governments and police brutality and every form of fascism, authoritarianism and totalitarianism. I rage over inequality, poverty and the simple fact that human being do such a horrendous job caring for each other.

posted October 12, 2015 03:09 AM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I have taurus mars in the 8th. If you have wronged me then I will hold a grudge. I can be very spiteful and i do have a pretty bad temper. Like you Im not really the type to yell or anything but I do love getting "even" or more than even.

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posted October 12, 2015 06:33 AM            

But here's an oversimplified explanation.
Mars Virgo, 12th.

Things that anger me:
False accusations, particularly if based on poor understanding.
Feeling taken advantage of.
Disrespected.
Betrayal.
People who try to cheat, steal, lie. (If I personally find out)
Lazy people.
People who look down on others based on things like employment, etc.

posted October 12, 2015 08:13 AM            

I don't live my anger, it's just like a tornado, I get angry at that time and get vanished at that time too. But I don't forget (although most of the time I forgot lol). I need to make a recall of the memory and you'll be surprised how can I remember all the details which sometimes surprise me too why can I forget and forgive just like that? I don't hold grudge for so long, just days or a month but simply it's just an unfinished anger.

posted October 12, 2015 10:12 AM            

You don't wan't to see me p***ed off.

I avoid anger to the max, because I know I could seriously and physically hurt someone severely.
I don't lose it often but when I do it's like Chernobyl the Remake.

My childhood sucked. My own dad was a very angry person.
Being dominated, ignored, disrespected are my main triggers.
Stealing my credits or the person I happen to be sleeping with is also a big no-no. But, in this case I will be colder. I take my time so I make it the most ironical and painful revenge ever.

posted October 12, 2015 10:57 AM            

Mars in Libra in the 6th/7th house.

When I get angry, I tend to seethe. I don't forget an injury and I have "cut" people off when I have had it with them.

posted October 12, 2015 11:56 AM            

Generally speaking, that which threatens survival of me and mine (and sometimes others) angers me, and also terrorizing someone. Killing cats to make a statement against me and mine (and yes, it has happened) can really do it, especially when they see themselves as righteous for doing so. The cat killer(s) are fortunate that I never learned who was behind that because I wouldn't have handled it by legal means.

A deep betrayal can do it, but I have to put a lot of trust in someone before that can happen.

I'm not counting being irritated or annoyed, that's not anger to me. Nor am I counting something that may have me hold someone in contempt which is something based more on a code than on feelings. When I cut someone out, that's usually mental resolve rather than anger (though I may initially be angry). Nor does getting over it give people the green light to hurt me or take advantage of me as I will put a stop to it.

I can also get potentially vicious to someone that's based more on strategy than anger. If someone has made it clear that they're going to make my life hell, then I can resolve to make them regret it until they find a safer hobby, and that can include actions best not described, and not done in anger. Ironically, I'm more likely to walk off anger if I can because I know I'll get over soon enough.

I recall getting angry at one woman who was jealous of me (which irritated me but didn't anger me), and after I told her I was at the club for the music and I was more of a lesbian anyway, she thought it would be funny to tell guys I told her that I liked them. That infuriated me, both for the sake of the guys as well as her just doing that (why!?). If I hadn't been carrying a gun I'd have dragged her outside to beat the living **** out of her, but I mentally realized the problems that could arise if the police got involved and found a gun on me (unlike the majority of people, I do think ahead and am not a slave to my emotions, something incomprehensible to many people) so I first walked home and put my gun away and then thought about going back to thrash that ***** (with a focus on her looks since she valued scoring a man above all else), but it was a dangerous neighborhood for a woman to walk alone and I already knew I couldn't get a ride, so I didn't. I do wish I'd left the gun at home so I could've disciplined that stupid ***** .

posted October 12, 2015 12:09 PM            

The two men saw me and literally ran. That was one time I wished I'd thought more before acted (I was in total lioness mode, which my Leo ASC can do well) so that I could've had the girl take their pic and report it to the police (if either of them were already on some d-base, they might do something about it).

posted October 17, 2015 01:17 PM            

So my anger is like a pressure cooker. When I was a little girl, I had some gnarly tantrums. I was strong-willed and assertive. Even when I was punished, I seethed for hours. I had no choice, but to feel frustrated. I had no freedom.

As an adult, I learn to let things go more readily. I no longer have the quick temperament, well sometimes but it's more rare. I do let things go more readily, but some things you can never forget. These incidents collect like rain drops in a jar. If I am dealing with the same person doing the same disrespectful garbage day in and day out and a volatile transit hits, that's when it explodes.

I had Mars square Moon, lately. Transit Scorpio Moon hit my natal Mars exact about two days ago. Two hours before it went exact, possessed by this I let it all out and reamed someone who had it coming for two months. It was the straw that broke the camel's back and he was stunned. Currently, I have Transit Sun conjunct Natal Pluto and Transit Pluto squaring Natal Sun right now, the second which is a long-term transit.

I also have Sun septile Mars and Mars sextile Pluto (tight orb)natally. Taurus ascendant tempers this, but also makes it worse in a way. The only thing I thought of after the incident is my reaction was like a charging bull. Aries in the 12th house represses rage, but when it comes out, it comes out! It's confrontational, in your face, and takes no s***.

posted October 17, 2015 02:22 PM            

When I get angry with someone at my core it turns inward and I don't talk to the person. My anger expresses itself through a period of time here, and to be honest I think anger warps our mind when not expressed right.

I was at work a few weeks ago and having to deal with the executive housekeeper's mood swings yet again. She likes to randomly exclude people and is generally unapproachable, but I have to communicate with her as part of my job. She hung up on me before I was fi ished speaking and I nearly lost it. I slammed the phone down in front of my two managers while trying not to yell and they literally jumped and looked at each other bewildered. They said I was "scary," which must mean they don't take my venting at othertimes seriously I suppose. I get told I need to relax a lot and im a tense person.

Lots of things irritate me, like chafe at my senses, but few things anger me. Being uncooperative angers me! Not being taken seriously, being accused of lying, takers, and being provoked into reacting really angers me. It's disgusting that people think it's funny to bait others into reacting or embarrassing themselves when you don't know what that person has been through. Like, get a life. Right??

posted October 18, 2015 02:30 AM            

Squares Pluto in Sagittarius 4th house (0 orb,very tight)
Sextiles Saturn in Taurus 9th house (2 orb)
Trine Moon in Cancer 11th (3 orb)

My anger has changed throughout my life.
Before in school,I would get bullied very badly,felt humiliated and less,also my family considered me a defenseless person,who has also abused me in life,so I never really got the emotional support I needed from anyone I considered "close" my anger was very low,I was compassionate and not the type to mess around.

But as times passed (I'm 15 years old) I've changed a lot in terms of what I wanted,and it was very clear what I wanted. Respect. And Power. That has been my goals ever since then.i have seen people that were like me before,and it disgusted me.now whenever someone humiliates me,I tend to already get angry,and lash out at them.I used my intelligence to survive in this harsh world.ive had ability to manipulate,lie,cheat,and I've hated losing. When people cross me,I usually keep my anger inside,or if it offended me I'll go lashing out on em,but not enough. Though I do take calculations,and don't really put remorse when it comes to thinking and planning (mercury in Aquarius) my ways on how to get back at them. It's just a thing I have really,I've developed a lot.

So to sum it up,I get angry when

•I feel humiliated
•someone attacks someone I care about deeply
•tells me I am weak

posted October 18, 2015 02:38 AM            

I really can't stand two-faced people. I've reached my limit there. Although I do think to myself that I shouldn't react, and shouldn't let them (and anyone else who upsets me) take up that much of my time and energy... I won't necessarily let it go - meaning, I won't be okay with them for a while, if things keep going the way they have been - but I don't have to blow up.

I have been rude a few times. I also have some sort of PTSD, and have apparently had it since I was five. Well, recent years have activated it all over again, and deepened it, it seems, so if I think someone is being malicious, I'm not always as calm as I used to be. It all depends on the day, and what's actually happening - history between us, too.

posted October 18, 2015 01:02 PM            

I have sun square Mars so I can be a bit short tempered and irritable.

posted October 18, 2015 01:24 PM            

Things that make me angry are: Trying to control me, disrespecting my boundaries, trying to be spiteful, or generally imposing on my well-being.

I don't really care if people lie or cheat, or are 2-faced, but if I notice it, then I'll just remember not to trust them. I probably won't have much time for them, either, but things like that don't anger me.
I mean, I'm no saint either. But I know I don't try to control people, spite them, or disrespect them, so I do expect the same in return.

posted October 18, 2015 01:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Abc333:
I have Mars in Pisces in the third house. What grinds my gears? When someone lies to me or sugar coats things. No matter how bad it is, I want truth. Don't feed me bull because the truth always gets to me somehow or some way whether I'm looking for it or not. When people are mean or say mean things about myself or the people I care about. I get overly protective and I will defend that person if they are either not there to defend themselves or are being unjustly ridiculed.

I have sun square Mars so I can be a bit short tempered and irritable.

How I express my anger? I'll try my best to avoid you or avoid a confrontation with you. If it's impossible or I reach a breaking point I will snap like a crazy person but it takes a lot to get me there. Usually when I'm angry I wind up crying, I can't help it. It happens because it's built up over time and I feel bad for lashing out even when it's well deserved. When it comes to those who have wronged me I can have perfectly well planned out vengeful thoughts but I would and could never act them out because it's best to just let go and move on. Plus, I would feel really bad for hurting someone even if it seemed well deserved.

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posted October 18, 2015 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
My anger is a slow and steady burn that flares up into a scorching rage if I don't focus on something else. I don't enjoy conflict so I generally disappear and distract myself from the anger until I'm over whatever happened, and then I come back to the person and talk about whatever happened. Otherwise, I think I'd be way too mean, saying regretful things in the heat of the moment. I've definitely done it before, and I hate how it feels.

Things that make me angry are: Trying to control me, disrespecting my boundaries, trying to be spiteful, or generally imposing on my well-being.

I don't really care if people lie or cheat, or are 2-faced, but if I notice it, then I'll just remember not to trust them. I probably won't have much time for them, either, but things like that don't anger me.
I mean, I'm no saint either. But I know I don't try to control people, spite them, or disrespect them, so I do expect the same in return.

1st house Mars square Scorpio Pluto, Jupiter in 4th
T-squared to Lilith in Taurus
Mars trine Moon in Aries

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posted October 18, 2015 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
I'm very similar I think. We're both mars in Virgo. Though mine is not 1st like yours, it does conjunct asc. I just have a few different modifiers aspect wise. One major one is conjunct mercury (also parallel).
I answered earlier but I'm never satisfied with my descriptions unless I were to write a book.

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I heard that if a planet conjuncts the AC, you can count it as being part of the first house.

posted October 18, 2015 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by RoseLily:
This is so interesting to know how each and everyone gets angry, there's really as many types of anger as there is people

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I agree.

I personally believe that while it's fun to discuss and general patterns can be found, human emotion in combination with astrology is really VERY complex. It's so difficult for me to pin down and say, "this is how I get angry". There certainly are some typical ways in which we all do but there's also certain situations in which I might act very out of character.
I've personally found that some people just bring out different sides of me. That even goes beyond anger and includes love, sex, empathy, willingness to forgive, etc etc.

Ugh, I could talk FOREVER about these kinds of things.

posted October 18, 2015 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
I agree.

I personally believe that while it's fun to discuss and general patterns can be found, human emotion in combination with astrology is really VERY complex. It's so difficult for me to pin down and say, "this is how I get angry". There certainly are some typical ways in which we all do but there's also certain situations in which I might act very out of character.
I've personally found that some people just bring out different sides of me. That even goes beyond anger and includes love, sex, empathy, willingness to forgive, etc etc.

Ugh, I could talk FOREVER about these kinds of things.

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posted October 18, 2015 03:21 PM            

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Originally posted by RoseLily:
Totally agree. And different event won't draw out the same reactions. I usually am a the type to have this icy cold anger...
however I am very competitive, and if I play games that makes me lose too often, I can go as far as just throw the whole game away and punch a wall. That's how different my anger can be...

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