posted October 16, 2016 07:15 AM            

Lost my mother at a young age, to cancer, as well. I know a little bit of how rough this is.

((hug))

posted October 16, 2016 07:41 AM            

You are in shock.

My son died at 21.

You live in shock for a while( a long time really)

God does this.

I am here for you.

I Love you.

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posted October 16, 2016 08:25 AM            

I lost my mother, almost three months ago. I went into almost complete denial, and am still there a lot of the time. Although holding it in like that, with my cat being sick this week, the floodgates opened again yesterday.

At the funeral, do what you have to do for yourself. I texted a friend who lost her mum a year ago, and admitted that I was hiding in a separate room, and then outside. She told me that was fine. I managed to sit through the service, when I thought I wouldn't manage it.
My sister and I would take off together, as well - she and my dad were the only people I wanted to be around.

posted October 16, 2016 11:55 AM            

You have to use this as an opportunity to unite as a family and grow stronger together, don't let losing her transition to all you losing each other and distancing from each other. Don't let your tranditions go with her, keep them alive in her honor and focus on the family that is still alive and needs you.

Again sorry for your loss and may she rest in peace.

posted October 16, 2016 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by MilaBirkin:
She had Saturn in Sagittarius 8° 9'. She was born on 1957.

I don't know how to cook, how to do anything because she always did everything for me. I'm only 21 and really, she is the only one person I'm close to. I don't know what to do. I just can't.

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I just said a sincere prayer for you, Mila. I completely understand all that you must be feeling right now. Believe it or not though...you will make it through this difficult time.

And how do I know?? Because *I* am still here. Like you, my mom was born in 1957 and she passed away during her Saturn Return (2014). My mom regularly cooked for me up until about your age (21). I rarely had to clean either. Lol. When I *finally* moved out a couple of years later...she cried like a baby. She didn't want to let go of me! Ironically, I was holding my mother as she took her final breath - having to 'let go' whether I *wanted* to or not. So I can relate, honey.

(((HUGS)))

Your mom will always love you and you'll still feel her presence!

You are absolutely welcome to reach out and vent to me anytime.

posted October 16, 2016 08:45 PM            

Talk to her anyway. Don't let the thought of it seeming silly, etc, keep you from it. Use this opportunity to let people comfort you and get closer. Don't isolate too much in grieving.

posted October 16, 2016 11:05 PM            

Much love goes out to you, and light, as you go through this difficult time period. Know that I and many are here for you, to help you through this difficult time period.