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Topic: Questions for those with a 12th house venus
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headintheclouds91
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posted March 13, 2017 05:22 PM
  
Do you get surprised when it turns out that someone is attracted to you, esp someone you find attractive yourself?Did you have to sacrifice something to be with someone, like a friendship or something like that? and last, while growing up and maybe in the present day did you believe you were ugly and was it hard for you to see what made you attractive or why someone was attracted to you? IP: Logged |
bananaz
Knowflake Posts: 720
From: Orlando, FL USA
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 13, 2017 08:01 PM
Yes, yes and yes (in my teenage years) I've gained more confidence as an adultIP: Logged |
Einfühlung
Knowflake Posts: 430
From: Lily of The Valley
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 13, 2017 11:58 PM
It's a rare occurance when someone really familiar confesses liking me, so if they confessed I'd be really surprised. If it's someone I just met then not really.
I only had one relationship, and it felt sacrificial because of time, energy, and priorities in my life that I had to give up. But I think almost all relationships are like that, and it's a good sacrifice as long as everything works out. It rarely happens when there's someone who likes me as much as I like them, so when it happens it's like a dream and I want to be sure it's real so I question everything and feel a bit insecure about why they like me.IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 3049
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posted March 14, 2017 12:15 AM
Nah I'm not surprised to know, heh I may see it before they even realise it themselves. Their eyes linger a little longer, they move into my space, lol in some cases steer clear of me all together. If anything, I might be surprised when they still like me after they know that I have qualities that they don't like lol. Sacrifices... it's yes and no. To people from outside looking in, I might have given up a lot. But then to me, I didn't have any emotional attachment to those things in the first place, and their absence doesn't really have great effect on me. So is it still a sacrifice.... Meh I don't think so. I don't think I've ever felt "ugly". There was a time I didn't want to wear swimsuit because of my scars, but it was more that I didn't like to think of what happened, not because I think they look ugly. Growing up I was constantly told that my physical appearance was the only thing I got going for me. I enjoy compliments n the likes, but don't put much stock in them. My motto is "Sooner or later I'll look like a raisin" lol. But yeah, I remember being caught completely off guard the first time I heard the word "beautiful" being said with so much emotion and adoration. And it sounded so close to reverence that I was in a daze for days afterwards. It made me feel truly beautiful, and realised I never did truly feel that way before.
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headintheclouds91
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posted March 14, 2017 08:32 AM
Thanks for the replies you guys  👍🏾 IP: Logged | |
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