posted March 25, 2017 02:34 PM            

As an AquaVenus, I find our social energy is misunderstood and this gives a good illustration of it. (Other Aqua Venuses agree?)
http://themindsjournal.com/the-wisest-zodiac/

posted March 25, 2017 03:28 PM            

I don't really think this resonates and seems unflattering

maybe i'll try reading their article for aries instead
http://themindsjournal.com/aries-sign-courageous-soul/

it's not that they are inaccurate i just think i might resonate more with my first house

posted March 25, 2017 03:57 PM            

but for negative signs it seems they have some kind of investment

posted April 01, 2017 11:47 PM            

Healthy- when within the relationship, you unknowingly expect Aqua to take responsibility for your emotional state. Or you play emotional games when trying to get their attention.

Unhealthy- When they break off engagements unapologetically,expect you to be available whenever its convenient for them or go through long period of times without answering your calls nor respondibg to your messages.

The Aqua I am friends with also has Venus in Aqua squaring Pluto with Mercury, Moon and Mars trine it. He was pretty intense and my Sag nature couldn't stand it ;even feared him at some point. So he learned to tone it down a lot.

But i do understand that the Solar nature has the "detachment" most people find inaccessible. And his reasoning behind it is that he says he wants to mantain intellectual distance in order to better relate(the irony)

We are better friends in a crises(either his or mine). But there really wasn't much emotional expression between us until these recent years

His Asc in Cap forms an out of sign conjunction to my Sun. He dated a Pisces Sun with whom he fell inlove but there is a dramatic Cancer/Leo whom I would say is the love of his life.

It could be because of Dsc in Moon ruled Cancer(in his case), but I think that most Aqua fear getting attached emotionally because they often anticipate things changing and the subsequent disruption of that bond.

They don't want to seem dependent or "clingy" to others. But they may enjoy the emotional commitment on your side- perhaps even possessiveness too because it affirms to them that you care etc.

In a way it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy when you break things off suddenly or make swift changes without involving them (because you believe them indifferent to the changes)

The truth is that they are affected by them and that it DOES hurt when you suddenly break off from them. But they are slow to acknowledge this- as they have learned to silence the emotional part of themselves for so long that it becomes repressed.

posted April 02, 2017 04:42 AM            

My ex had aqua moon, and I think I learnt a lot from that experience. He was completely emotionally unavailable and was basically terrified of expressing his feelings.

I didn't understand it and was incredibly hurt by it (I have Leo moon ha) - but when I saw Star Trek with Zachary Quinto as Spock, there was a huge lightbulb moment. There's a line which goes a bit like 'you mistake my choice not to care as a reflection of my not caring, when in fact the truth is entirely opposite'.

posted April 04, 2017 02:47 PM            

At the same time though, I can seem detached if I'm bored or uninterested. In fact, detachment for me seems to be a huge sign I'm experiencing boredom. Unfortunately, my detachment is not Aquarian or I might actually have a beneficial side to the detachment I experience.

Regardless, I'd love the ability to detach from my emotions long enough to get things done. This is not always possible, because I deal with powerfully overwhelming emotions.