posted April 11, 2017 10:59 AM            

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How do you guys react to emotionally-charged situations?
I generally react by becoming very stressed or emotional.

How do you interact with others on an emotional level?
While I am generally very detached and intellectual when interacting with others, my friends get to see me display more emotion. Normally, I'll vent to them and provide a shoulder for them to lean on when they need to vent as well. I don't always have a solution or a way out of a bad situation, but I am present if a friend needs to vent about their issues.

How do you act when you really like someone and/or when you're dating them?
I'm not sure how my behavior changes when I'm dating someone. If I really like someone, I'll want to spend a lot of time with them though.

How do you express your love?
Through words mostly, but I'm also very loyal and devoted. I dedicate my life to someone entirely when I'm in love.

What are the most important things and deal breakers to you in a relationship?
Absolute loyalty. I won't necessarily leave someone for cheating on me once, but if it's a regular thing, I'm likely to be unhappy in the relationship and I'll end up breaking it off after like the 7th time.

Spend time with me. I don't want to be with someone that's never with me at all. I've had exes that would go months not being with me. That was fine when I was younger, except now I'm ready for a commitment and I need someone that will also act like I'm important to them.

Share some of my interests. I don't have to like everything my partner does and vice versa, but I'm not sure how to maintain a close relationship if we're as different as night and day. There has to be some common ground somewhere.

Have some knowledge about my mental health. I take responsibility for my health issues. However, even with antidepressants, there are still days where I wake up feeling depressed and miserable. If someone can't love me even when I'm depressed, the relationship isn't going to work and I'll just drive that person insane. Depression may not be everything about me, but it's still a very real struggle that "love" cannot erase.

Time away from my partner. I have friends and I most likely have some interests outside of the relationship. My partner can't like everything I do so it's important for me to have free time outside of the relationsip to pursue activities that my partner may not like but that I do. Basically, my partner shouldn't expect my every waking moment to be with them. There are people I know outside of any relationship and I should be free to continue interacting with my friends.

There may be more things that belong on this list, but these are the 5 I could think of off the top of my head.

Do you think your emotional needs conflict with the qualities of your Sun sign and the love style of your Venus?
Nope.

Have you ever dated or been in a long term relationship with someone who has an Aries or 1st House Moon? If so, what was the chemistry/interaction like in the long-run (since the Moon is said to represent how one behaves after the first few weeks of a relationship? Correct me if I'm wrong) and how did things differ from the initial expression/interaction of your Venus Signs at first?
Yes. My current boyfriend has his Moon in 1st house. I don't know much about this placement myself, but my boyfriend and I seem to deal with emotions in different ways. It sometimes results in us getting upset with each other as well, and while we usually make up pretty fast, I've always struggled greatly with understanding anything about him. Sometimes I have no idea how we're even still together. However, at the end of the day, I'm very happy with him and I want us to spend the rest of our lives together.

I'm not sure how our Venus signs interacted at first. He did win my heart by appealing to my Venus sign though. It's funny, because I have no idea how to explain it.

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posted April 11, 2017 12:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:

I have Libra moon in the 1st house conjunct my pluto

How do you guys react to emotionally-charged situations?

Depends on the situation and which emotion, if it is a panic type situation I usually will calm and then think of the fastest solution to handle whatever is going on vs panicking. When I am angry, I usually either get really sarcastic or get snappy at the person. I use to not have to much to say and would fight that person.

How do you interact with others on an emotional level?

Usually pretty good but tend to want to solve the problem vs other things.

How do you act when you really like someone and/or when you're dating them?

Like a guy trying to talk to a girl for a little while till I get comfortable with them. I literally get young tied and clumsy. My words come out all wrong and sometimes I just stay quiet because I know I am going to say something really dumb. Once I get beyond that stage, I am very playful and want to spend time with them, do things with them, a lot of physical activity.

How do you express your love?

Doing something for that person or spending time with them. Being affectionate. Tell them I love them.

What are the most important things and deal breakers to you in a relationship?

Someone that doesn't communicate or can hold a decent conversation. I don't care for rudeness and a lot of emotional irrational arguements, a few are fine but all the time will drive me nuts. Someone who is adventurous and wants to go out and do things, sitting in the same spot or doing the same things all the time is boredom to me. Romance is a must!!! I get turned off by guys that can't be affectionate or too afraid of public displays of affection.

Do you think your emotional needs conflict with the qualities of your Sun sign and the love style of your Venus?

Yes, my libra moon wants harmony, peace, beauty, is detached and logical. I can literally divorce my feelings. My Cancer sun is sensitive, wants to be held , loved , emotional and insecure. My Gemini venus wants to run, play, goof off , wants a partner who can keep up, runs hot and cold, need constant movement and stimulation, excitement, communication is a must!!!

Have you ever dated or been in a long term relationship with someone who has an Aries or 1st House Moon?

If so, what was the chemistry/interaction like in the long-run (since the Moon is said to represent how one behaves after the first few weeks of a relationship? Correct me if I'm wrong) and how did things differ from the initial expression/interaction of your Venus Signs at first?

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No , I've never been with an Aries moon. I've dated an Aries guy for about 3 years. I love Aries guys, they like to plan things and do things. I also dated a younger Aries sun guy, same type of attraction but he could flake out sometimes and would get emotional over some things that I never really understood then break up with me. He would quit talking to me.

posted April 12, 2017 02:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Lerena:
I'd like to begin by saying that I interpret my Moon as being in 8th house due to it being right up against - or even on - the line that divides the 7th and 8th house. Although I interpret my Moon being in 8th house, I will acknowledge that officially it's still in 7th house. I'm just explaining all this in case some of my answers sound more like an 8th house Moon, because I know I do have some traits of one even with my Moon's official house placement.

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I had a friend who would joke and say if you could see both issues or "acknowledge the other side" you are not a Scorpio/8th house person but are a Libra. That made me think of this lol.

posted April 12, 2017 02:42 AM            

How do you guys react to emotionally-charged situations?

I actually don't become stressed or emotional. I tend to become focused on the other and how they feel to the point that how they feel is more important at that moment.

How do you interact with others on an emotional level?

I tend to keep my feelings and any internal drama to myself. I really like a nice environment that is friendly and accommodating, so in general I try to treat people the way I would want to be treated. I will say that I am dependent on a few select others for emotional support. Usually when I do express my feelings its to talk it out and find out why something was done. For instance if I have a break up I have to mentally figure out what went wrong and if I did anything to cause the said behavior. I will admit that I suffer from emotional indecisiveness for just about everything if it doesn't affect me emotionally. When I am directly affected or something has hurt me is when my Moon Square Pluto appears and I can be inflexible. After I calm down I go back to seeing all the sides of a situation. For instance a Virgo man hurt me greatly by treating me quite badly (he had a Libra Venus and Taurus Moon to counterpart my Taurus Venus and Moon in 7th) and I lost it and told him everything that I ever wanted to say. I have Mercury Square Pluto, and felt justified for what I did and that I would never forgive him. As SOON as the anger and hurt subsided I realized what I did and began to look at the situation from his perspective. Another thing I will admit is I NEED relationships (doesn't have to be romantic or sexual). I feel complete without them. I hate admitting that I've come to accept it.

How do you act when you really like someone and/or when you're dating them? How do you express your love?

In the beginning phase the key action for me is being friendly, and wanting to do things with them. Not physically per se...but outings or becoming partners in some capacity. When I get into the actual relationship I like spending a lot of time together just doing things. I also like being affectionate and using pet names and the like. I would say the way I express love is through physical (as in being there or in contact) means. I also will say this changes based on who I am with. I love making others happy so I tend to change how I express love based on what I observe the other person to like.

What are the most important things and deal breakers to you in a relationship?

In general I like a partner in crime to do things with so my ideal relationship is my best friend (Venus in 11th) who is also my partner (Moon in 7th) that I feel intensely for (Moon Square Pluto), and will provide me emotional (Can Sun) security (Taurus Venus). I have a hard time deciding on what an absolute deal breaker would be, because there would be so many factors that would need to be thought about (is it obvious I'm a tad bit indecisive emotionally). I think a big one is respect. I will admit that in general I don't like being alone, so I have (especially when I was younger) been known to stay in a relationship and not leave until I met someone else I wanted to be with.

Do you think your emotional needs conflict with the qualities of your Sun sign and the love style of your Venus?

To an extent. I actually think the worst thing about me isn't my Moon needs and the like but is my Mercury, Sun, Mars and Asc. It's in Leo, with me being a Cancer Sun/Asc/Mars all Conjunct in the 1st house. I come off way much more out there than I actually am.

Have you ever dated or been in a long term relationship with someone who has an Aries or 1st House Moon? If so, what was the chemistry/interaction like in the long-run (since the Moon is said to represent how one behaves after the first few weeks of a relationship? Correct me if I'm wrong) and how did things differ from the initial expression/interaction of your Venus Signs at first?

I have actually. It was a good relationship and he was quite sweet, but I do like someone to dote on my needs once in a while, and he was quite selfish about what I wanted. Basically he focused on his own needs first all the time. He was different emotionally verses his Venus in Cap. His Cap Venus attracted me but his Moon was just too much to get over. I am a firm believer that a person can have uncomplimentary or incompatible Venus signs or elements but NOT Moon signs. Esp if it is a Man...you don't need to have his Venus (or even be heavy in his Venus element or sign) but you NEED to have his Moon sign/house/or element.

Sorry for the long reply lol :-)

As a side here is a direct quote from The South Florida Astrologer on the 7th house/Libra Moon that I believe is super accurate (if not super superficial).

posted April 12, 2017 05:07 AM            

Drives me a little nuts, because I really need to keep my emotional balance. I would say I definitely go through "hermit phases" where I only surround myself by the same one or two people I consider family - and always people who I trust not to get too unstable or crazy-making. But I also love people and need social interaction to feel like I am "REAL" in this world, so like I said - I ebb and flow. I go from being a social butterfly for a few weeks to suddenly escaping it all.

So you asked about a bajillion questions in your post here (haha), but I'll try to answer some:

1. How do you handle Emotionally Charged situations?
Usually by first attempting to diffuse them as much as possible. If not possible, and the situation is somewhat exploding, I nope out of there. I withdraw, retreat or literally exit the scene. I feel a very strong nausea, and that kind of "GET ME OUT OF HERE" tightness in the chest when ish is going nuts. I can't witness it, I absorb it and if bad enough, it will take me days to recover.

2. How do you interact with others on an emotional level? I mean, this is way too complicated, but I guess in my normal/healthy relationships I interact by being extremely open, and extremely aware of how they are. I can feel when my SO changes moods, and usually that is helpful because I can support him or help change the tide. I'm a peace-maker. I do not like conflict (most librans don't), and so I approach most people in a nurturing/ open way.

3. How do you act when you really like someone and/or are dating them? This, to me, is more of a Venus/Mars kinda question (I am a Pisces both), but from a lunar standpoint, I usually will try to be near that person, but will be much more quiet with them until we establish that we are dating/together. How it goes after that completely depends on the dynamic of the couple we form. In my current, I am very nurturing (as said), like to take care of him and do things around the house, and form a very solid partner. Super loyal/ committed. I can't imagine cheating, even in bad relationships. Very bad at lying or even slightly fudging the truth - sometimes my honesty has come across as hurtful. But I would rather be that than be fake.

4. How do you express your love? I take care of him. I sing his praises. I am 100% his partner.

5. Important things/ Deal Breakers in a relationship: Someone who is ready for children is big. Being honest is huge - I have definitely stayed in relationships where there was maybe a slip of infidelity, but will terminate it immediately when I'm lied to about it. Kindness is big.

6. Emotional Needs conflicting with Sun sign and Venus: Maaaaybe? I do think my emotional self craves more balance, and my VEnus/ Mars crave a huge amount of passion and emotion sometimes. This can be solved in other, more fun ways though .

posted April 12, 2017 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
I am a Libra Moon in the 8th house and boy is that an intense placement.

Drives me a little nuts, because I really need to keep my emotional balance. I would say I definitely go through "hermit phases" where I only surround myself by the same one or two people I consider family - and always people who I trust not to get too unstable or crazy-making. But I also love people and need social interaction to feel like I am "REAL" in this world, so like I said - I ebb and flow. I go from being a social butterfly for a few weeks to suddenly escaping it all.

So you asked about a bajillion questions in your post here (haha), but I'll try to answer some:

1. How do you handle Emotionally Charged situations?
Usually by first attempting to diffuse them as much as possible. If not possible, and the situation is somewhat exploding, I nope out of there. I withdraw, retreat or literally exit the scene. I feel a very strong nausea, and that kind of "GET ME OUT OF HERE" tightness in the chest when ish is going nuts. I can't witness it, I absorb it and if bad enough, it will take me days to recover.

2. How do you interact with others on an emotional level? I mean, this is way too complicated, but I guess in my normal/healthy relationships I interact by being extremely open, and extremely aware of how they are. I can feel when my SO changes moods, and usually that is helpful because I can support him or help change the tide. I'm a peace-maker. I do not like conflict (most librans don't), and so I approach most people in a nurturing/ open way.

3. How do you act when you really like someone and/or are dating them? This, to me, is more of a Venus/Mars kinda question (I am a Pisces both), but from a lunar standpoint, I usually will try to be near that person, but will be much more quiet with them until we establish that we are dating/together. How it goes after that completely depends on the dynamic of the couple we form. In my current, I am very nurturing (as said), like to take care of him and do things around the house, and form a very solid partner. Super loyal/ committed. I can't imagine cheating, even in bad relationships. Very bad at lying or even slightly fudging the truth - sometimes my honesty has come across as hurtful. But I would rather be that than be fake.

4. How do you express your love? I take care of him. I sing his praises. I am 100% his partner.

5. Important things/ Deal Breakers in a relationship: Someone who is ready for children is big. Being honest is huge - I have definitely stayed in relationships where there was maybe a slip of infidelity, but will terminate it immediately when I'm lied to about it. Kindness is big.

6. Emotional Needs conflicting with Sun sign and Venus: Maaaaybe? I do think my emotional self craves more balance, and my VEnus/ Mars crave a huge amount of passion and emotion sometimes. This can be solved in other, more fun ways though .

Hope this helped!!

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It did help, thank you! Out of curiousity, what's your Sun Sign and what aspects do your Libra Moon & Pisces Venus make to your other planets and/or Ascendant?!

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Leo Sun/Mercury
Sagittarius Moon
Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising

posted April 13, 2017 04:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
It did help, thank you! Out of curiousity, what's your Sun Sign and what aspects do your Libra Moon & Pisces Venus make to your other planets and/or Ascendant?!

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Sun Sign is Capricorn, (in 12th)

Libra Moon: Squares my mercury in the 11th (maybe accounting for blunt honesty here? Not sure)

Widely trines Jupiter, AC and MC, and tightly trines chiron.

Venus in Pisces, 1st house: Conjunts Mars
Semi-squares Jupiter
Squares Uranus (I not a cheater tho)
Trines Pluto
Squares my MC
No real aspects to my AC.

My AC really doesn't have a ton of contacts going on to my other planets, if I'm honest. It has the square to moon and some sesquidrates or whateverrrrr they are called.

posted April 13, 2017 09:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:

Venus in Pisces, 1st house: Conjunts Mars
Semi-squares Jupiter
Squares Uranus (I not a cheater tho)
Trines Pluto
Squares my MC
No real aspects to my AC.

My AC really doesn't have a ton of contacts going on to my other planets, if I'm honest. It has the square to moon and some sesquidrates or whateverrrrr they are called.

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posted April 13, 2017 09:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Haha are you a Pisces Rising?!

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Lol noooo Aquarius Rising. Which is highly fitting for me, and I actually adore given the intense stuff in my chart. It turns me into the one giggling at a typo in the funeral program instead of bawling in the corner.