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Topic: If you could delete/exchange a placement or aspect in your chart, which would it be?
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gemstone Knowflake Posts: 62 From: hollywood forever Registered: Nov 2013
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posted February 28, 2017 10:38 AM
Which placement or aspect in your natal chart has caused you the most trouble or difficulty in life and why? If you could, what would you like to replace it with? (for example, switch sun opp saturn for sun trine jupiter). Can be more than one placement if you wish.IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Moderator Posts: 2789 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted February 28, 2017 11:38 AM
Moon in Capricorn. And I have done it. I have let the universe know (after my lessons and karma were completed) that it no longer served me. We changed it. However, it does take time to learn a new mode of being, of developing a different personality. My aim has been to develop the qualities of Moon in Libra, far more oriented to fairness and responsiveness to others than Capricorn ever allowed me. ------------------ The Declinations Guy Rising Sign Descriptions Energy Healing by request IP: Logged |
elixir Knowflake Posts: 2417 From: United States Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 28, 2017 11:44 AM
Chiron combust sun. My other two would be Saturn opposite sun or moon in 12th.IP: Logged |
Ari-Sco Knowflake Posts: 123 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted February 28, 2017 12:17 PM
UGH.. take the scorpio moon awayalso saturn in the 3rd house IP: Logged |
saadsarah8 Knowflake Posts: 170 From: Ottawa, Canada Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 28, 2017 12:30 PM
moon in the 8th house. too damn intense.. the gut-wrenching intense feelings, the major obsession with love interests, the social anxiety, the perpetual sense of fear and destruction, the heartbreaking depression that so often creeps up on me. Yeaaah I could do without. If someone could list the positives of having an 8th house moon, that would be great!! IP: Logged |
meyray Knowflake Posts: 807 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted February 28, 2017 12:37 PM
Mercury square Neptune - I don't even want a refund, just get it away!!I would trade Venus in Scorpio for Libra or Sagittarius. (I feel like Libra would suit me more) There are other things that are annoying but I think I could deal with them. IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Moderator Posts: 1940 From: Plutanus Registered: Jul 2015
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posted February 28, 2017 12:40 PM
Some aspects cause me great stress, such as Mercury-Neptune square Saturn. Those are stressful. However, each and every aspect makes up a part of me; it's who I am as an individual. If I took a part of it away, I would no longer be myself. ------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com IP: Logged |
sis Knowflake Posts: 539 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted February 28, 2017 03:44 PM
Saturn in the 7th house. Because its opposing my asc, mercury, venus. I would put it in the 5h house then it would trine my sun,asc,mercury and venus, sextiling my jupiter.. no harsh saturn aspects hurrayy !o wait a minute, Pluto in the 10th squaring my 1st house stellium.. Maybe it's wiser to change Pluto's placement. Saturn Pluto together trining my 1st hs stellium - no harsh Pluto, no harsh Saturn aspects ! o yeah this must be heaven IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: USA Today Registered: Aug 2015
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posted February 28, 2017 07:45 PM
Honestly my Aquarius venus. It squares the Pluto of every person in my generation, and it has made all my relationships hard because of the synastry of Venus square Pluto. It also makes a lot of bad aspects of synastry with my mom and I, and without it I feel like we would have had a better relationship.IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1971 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted February 28, 2017 09:36 PM
Nada. I'm perfect. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 4330 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted March 01, 2017 01:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kannon McAfee: Moon in Capricorn. And I have done it. I have let the universe know (after my lessons and karma were completed) that it no longer served me. We changed it. However, it does take time to learn a new mode of being, of developing a different personality. My aim has been to develop the qualities of Moon in Libra, far more oriented to fairness and responsiveness to others than Capricorn ever allowed me.
May I ask why you didn't like your Capricorn Moon?
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Stellia Knowflake Posts: 334 From: Yorks, UK Registered: Jan 2017
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posted March 01, 2017 04:11 AM
I'd have serious words with my venus square saturn (in 8H).I wouldn't want to delete it forever, because it's taught me so much and continues to do so. But if I could have a holiday for a few years so I could finally experience a true love relationship without the trauma of overthinking, doubting everything, and knowing what it feels like to have someone say you're beautiful/i love you without automatically negating it... if I could feel that then I could handle the energy (even) better IP: Logged |
Cappi112 Knowflake Posts: 702 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: May 2015
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posted March 01, 2017 05:25 AM
I'm pretty annoyed by my Sun and Jupiter in the 12th House. Also, Saturn in the 9th right near the MC. I feel like these seriously hold me back. Inside me there is a CEO, Princess, Famous Actress and Leader (Venus and Mars conjunct in my 1st house, in Pisces, Capricorn Sun and Jupiter, 10th House Ruled by Jupiter, etc.), but my outer person is always doubting, getting overlooked, and feeling highly misunderstood in her career.IP: Logged |
Cappi112 Knowflake Posts: 702 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: May 2015
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posted March 01, 2017 05:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by saadsarah8: moon in the 8th house. too damn intense.. the gut-wrenching intense feelings, the major obsession with love interests, the social anxiety, the perpetual sense of fear and destruction, the heartbreaking depression that so often creeps up on me. Yeaaah I could do without. If someone could list the positives of having an 8th house moon, that would be great!!
Wow didn't think of this one. Yeah, that too! I have Libra Moon in the 8th. So, not only do I have these intense feelings (and a life filled with here-and-there panic attacks), but my Libra craves balance. Uh..... Okay but on the plus side, I am just now stepping into a time where I feel some psychic abilities creeping in and when I'm doing well, it's AMAZING. I think 8th house moons adapt to themselves over their lifespans. So, I sense I'll be a calmer, happier person when I'm in my 60s. I could be nuts. But yeah, that's what I notice. I don't forget the bouts of depression after I come out of them, but I look back on them whenever they creep up and go "Oh, you. I remember you." That tends to make them less daunting. IP: Logged |
Beautiful_Light Moderator Posts: 782 From: Atlantis Registered: Nov 2016
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posted March 01, 2017 01:59 PM
I would get rid of Saturn on 5th house cusp and replace it with Mars trine Venus in my natal chart (already have it in 9th harmonic). Also, Sun square Moon for Sun trine Moon. Yeah, I like trines IP: Logged |
Valmu83 Knowflake Posts: 1073 From: Europe Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 02, 2017 03:07 AM
Venus square Saturn definitely Also Venus rx in 12 house cusp. Anything that has frozen my love life to nonexistent. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 1566 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted March 02, 2017 03:28 AM
I wouldn't want these aspects gone forever, but if I could experience for a short time what it was like to not have my male planets in aspect to pluto, it would be nice I think! taking a breather from controlling men all over my life for a while! IP: Logged |
moongaze Knowflake Posts: 168 From: Registered: Sep 2016
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posted March 02, 2017 04:17 AM
Mercury in Cancer in a heart beat. I would replace it with a Mercury in Gemini, which I think is one of the best Mercury placements.Also to bump my Pisces Moon from the 12th to the 11th or the 1st house. And to dismantle my Grand Water Trine so I can be less lazy. And I'd add a fire placement somewhere because I only have it in my Ascendant. I'd change my Virgo Jupiter into Leo. That would be nice. Or hell, even my Cancer Sun into Leo. I really need less water. Those were a lot of changes. Oops.
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Radium Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted March 02, 2017 07:54 AM
Venus-Uranus conjunction in Cap Does not mesh wellOr my Moon square ASC IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 777 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted March 04, 2017 11:34 PM
Mars in 12th.I have problem expressing anger or being aggressive, considering I have an Aries moon. I have a lot of fire inside but it's hard to let it out especially when I'm dealing with bullies, bad authority figures, etc. It doesn't mean I don't fight but often it's not coming right away. I think this placement attracts people who have the same pattern (bully, etc) to me. It takes a lot to make me angry, once I get there it usually because my mercury never forgets how many times it gets repeated. It is also hard to make you want to get what you want, the drive seems floating. - Mars in 1st or 10th probably would be better than the 12th. Venus in pisces
Too much of forgiving (never hold grudge or anger). I don't know if it also comes from my jupiter conjunct moon, but, in love/relationship, I am too quick to forgive that it hurts me so bad because I end up being unappreciated and they repeat the cycle. It's not only intellectually forgiving like Libra (most of the time using mind to see both side and decide with mind), but it is also emotionally forgiving (using mind and HEART to see ALL sides and decide with feelings). I tend to let myself dying rather than the other is dying. It sucks if you have to sacrifice to wrong people too who are not respecting you but at the same time it feels like it is the destiny of this placement, the forgiveness has no boundaries. -- since venus can not be too much far from the sun, I would love venus in aquarius or in capricorn. This two placements I have a hard time to embrace and still learning to embrace them. Sometimes I feel they are good in me, sometimes there's a war inside of me.
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Empty Spaces Knowflake Posts: 1741 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted March 05, 2017 12:11 AM
I would like to have some fire on my chart.Hum..let me think about the rest. I would give away my sun-neptune conjunction.It's not that I don't like this aspect but it gives me too much trouble.I mean ruins my sun sign and makes me daydream 24/7. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3053 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 05, 2017 01:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: Some aspects cause me great stress, such as Mercury-Neptune square Saturn. Those are stressful. Why does these aspect gives you stress? I have the same, so I'm curious Cause I know they are very hard....
I would exchange my cap uranus with a sag uranus if I could instead... then it would also make some other nicer aspect to the rest of my chart, instead of being the huge focus area of all my t-squares.... IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Moderator Posts: 1940 From: Plutanus Registered: Jul 2015
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posted March 05, 2017 01:35 PM
@next to neptune, Mercury square Saturn makes me feel like I am stupid often and Neptune square Saturn makes me fearful of things without a solid foundation. ------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com IP: Logged |
Kibriana Knowflake Posts: 319 From: Zagreb, Croatia Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 05, 2017 02:27 PM
I'd completely remove Neptune from my chart. There, all my life's problems solved IP: Logged |
Libracorn Knowflake Posts: 357 From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 05, 2017 02:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kibriana: I'd completely remove Neptune from my chart. There, all my life's problems solved
LOLOLOLOLOL Same, I have nothing but squares to Neptune. Btw, I would get rid of Sun Square Ascendant, it's terrible. See me for who I really am, not what I project. I am a Libra Sun/Libra Moon... I want to express that, I have a hard time doing so with it squaring my Capricorn Rising. IP: Logged |