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Topic: If you change what happens with synastry?
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FatedCinderella
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posted January 31, 2018 08:43 PM
  
Hi guys what do you think?
I'm posting here because it is related to both synastry and natal chart.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted January 31, 2018 08:58 PM
Like change in what ways?IP: Logged |
FatedCinderella
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posted January 31, 2018 09:10 PM
Sorry I mean't change who they are or something like that.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted January 31, 2018 09:45 PM
I'm not sure about what happens to synastry. But speaking from personal experience, the relationship ends usually. I've found that it's very rare to find someone who will accept you even after you've gone through a drastic change as a person because most usually have certain "types" I've found, and the moment I change I no longer fit into their "type".IP: Logged |
FatedCinderella
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posted January 31, 2018 10:10 PM
It makes sense.I heard when someone else starts to vibrate on a higher frequency usually the one who has a lower one who decides to break up.It is weird but they say it is like that.That's not always the case but I just wanted to bring this subject.Sometimes the person changes for worse lol What I wonder is.You change but your natal still the same so how things are going to work on synastry?It is not visible so you may not see the real effect of the relationship through the chart? IP: Logged |
Selenite
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 31, 2018 11:34 PM
I think the negative potentials of the aspects start to manifest more, for example neptune aspects manifest as disappointments, pluto aspects become control issues, saturn aspects feel burdensome, squares become more exhausting than stimulating - if youre truly not right for each other in the end. IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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Registered: May 2015
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posted January 31, 2018 11:52 PM
I think a lot of this is due to the progressed chart of a person. The natal is still there and you are still that but when your Sun( mine is in Cancer) progresses ( now in Leo) I am still a Cancer but also with the qualities of a Leo due to the circumstance brought on by that progression.I do think there are people who are set in ones life, spouse, friends etc. They just become more or less at certain times of your progressions ( kicked off by your progressed moon) as to who or what is around you at that time. My progressed moon is in Pisces and I have Pisces around me and people with Pisces placements in their natal to learn whatever lessons are brought on by those progressions and transits such as Saturn and Jupiter. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted January 31, 2018 11:58 PM
@Selenite  What has been said by others is also quite profound guys . Wow. I could have you all over for a chill session to pick your amazing insights. I was going to say relationships are about momentum ime. When you first meet and the chemistry is off the hook, the momentum is at its peak. And usually most couples struggle to keep it there. Why its so high and "wobble free" (as Abraham Hicks would put it) is because you only focus on the positive of the other. And are filled with appreciation. When the disc is that high,jt is hard to see any faults the other may have. But when the disc slows down or the momentum starts to decelerate . The faults become easier to see, the appreciation becomes less so and it seems to you that the other person has "changed" or is not whom you initially thought they were. The key to staying in love is to keep at it. Love is concentration. You have to keep on appreciating, keep on seeing the positive and keep on focusing on only that. Synastry can only give you what you focus on. If you focus on how inhibiting your relationship is, Saturn contacts will feel confining instead of bonding. Mars contacts will feel bullying instead of passionate etc. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted February 01, 2018 10:28 AM
Amazing question It is a fact that not matter how hard you try to be YOURSELF in the first stages of your life (childhood/adolescence) many traits of your personality are created by the influence of your parents,friends and others. (society overall) Your environment. *Not the mention the twisted minds that are created due to abuse and negligence of parents. Not even the most mature kids have the ability to filter what is coming to them.You do something so much that becomes a habit and it becomes YOU.At some point it becomes a burden and starts to bother that's when I believe existencial crises happens. Natal chart is a blueprint.(Stagnation)
Synastry is a combination of charts of two people who are in constant movement.Or who can be in movement at any minute. I wonder:
Do you think the natal chart is "who you are" = who you became due to the environment. Or the natal is who you are in essence.Your heart? If is not YOU 100% probably someday you will comeback to who you are or close to that but your chart ain't gonna change with you. I believe the natal from a child who grew up with no stress and freedom of expression is:
70% essence
30% product of environment People who grow up through abuse and pain.Controlling parents.Emotional blackmail and so on...The list is giant.. Most likely 30% essence
70% product of environment People change.Usually through pain.For the better or worse.
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Kannon McAfee
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posted February 01, 2018 03:30 PM
Your synastry with someone else is always the same, no matter how much you grow and develop, since all birth-based astrological factors are just starting places of default. However, if you grow in a different direction than the other person, and develop ideals that they are not with or don't understand, then the relationship dynamic may change. I have experienced this. A person who was your best friend in adolescence may not be in adulthood, or past a certain point in your own growth. The tendency is that you simply drift away from each other. ------------------
Soul Stars Astrology - by the declinations guy
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