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Topic: I am being annoyed by being a Taurus!
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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted May 27, 2018 10:50 AM
  
the man I am seeing has Scorpio rising, and lately when I'm with him I get the feeling that I am imperfect and basically plain annoyinghe's a very deep person, whereas with him I tend to be this overly physical person I feel stupid when I'm with him it doesn't help that he has aquarius sun and libra moon!
How do you think I can maintain my individuality and still make this relationship work without revealing too much of my superficial venusian nature?
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hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
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posted May 27, 2018 11:44 AM
I like that Taurus are touchy and physical but I will admit the clients I find the most difficult to connect with are Taurus, you guys are not talkative at all or good at expressing your emotions, I feel Taurus themselves don't understand well their emotions and is part of the reason why it's hard to express them. They do seem simple to me as a scorpio riser. I had a Taurus lover too once and same problem, not much communication and seemed to simple to me. There is something about Taurus that feels to me like we speak different languages or they come from another planet that makes it hard for me to connect at a deeper level with them. I was thinking about this Friday, trying to figure out how come and then thought, it's probably bc they are on my DC.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 27, 2018 11:47 AM
I will say though as a scorpio riser the sexual side of Taurus I like and understand so definitely communicate with him through touch, passion and sex, now that scorpio riser gets and likes about Taurus. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted May 27, 2018 11:58 AM
Thanks hypatia238! IP: Logged |
capricorncheriscty
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posted May 27, 2018 11:59 AM
Earth signs typically have a lot to say but don't really feel the need to say it. If you as an Earth sign or someone else as an Earth sign feel that there is a problem, you are probably just overthinking as this is what we earth signs tend to do. It is Mission Impossible for us, everything must be exactly to a T and if it is not we start overthinking and thinking and thinking and thinking until we figure it out.Most earth signs will not come to you with their problems. They think before they speak. And when they do speak, they rarely do it for long. An earth sign needs to think and think to solve their worries and issues and problems and by the time they are finally ready to come and speak to you about it, they have already pretty much solved the issue in their head due to their overthinking, so there is no reason for them to give a long and worn out explanation of their feelings. They don't mean harm by it, they just don't see the point. Why ramble on about a situation they've already solved themselves? Taurus, as all other earth signs, understand their emotions quite clearly we simply just feel no need to constantly voice them as we have already voiced them to ourselves in our heads. Water signs may find frustration in this because water signs are the exact opposite. When they feel an emotion or a problem or an issue, they must pour it out someway or another. If they don't, they will literally suffocate. They don't understand the way earth signs think everything in their head and then carefully let it come out once they've finally gotten the perfect string of words together. Water and Fire signs let things happen as they happen. Earth and Air signs must think clearly and precisely before they dare let anything happen. As an Earth sign pairing with a Water sign, you need to express this way of being to your Water sign partner so that they do not take your behavior as you being cruel or poorly intended towards them. And in turn, they must understand that you are not going to be able to understand their constant need for expression as much as they. Being ruled by Venus and the earth, you are naturally going to be more physical. Water settles into wells because water runs DEEP. Earth IS deep but because we are physically molded into actual earth. Water and Earth signs get along well because we both know we are deep creatures with lots of thought to us, but the problem comes in when we don't share the same way of processing our thoughts. Don't hide yourself. It's better to show your Venusian nature because water signs will understand this naturally. His venusian moon will also understand this, though there may be some minor conflict due to the inconjunction. Scorpios run deep and Taurus runs deep, as all water and earth signs do. You can each save your individuality by just learning to bare the necessary words out on the table when it calls for it. As opposite signs, you can teach other something. Perhaps teach Scorpio to not be so intrusive and to let you work things out gradually, and perhaps the Scorpio can teach you that it is okay to not overthink everything like whether or not they find you annoying or not. They probably don't! IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted May 27, 2018 12:06 PM
Wow capricorncheriscty,What you wrote was really beautiful..it took my breath away... I feel like wanting to frame your response and hang it on the wall so I would always remember that I also learned a lot I didn't know before your response.. Just fantastic.. Thank you again for all your time and help  IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
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posted May 27, 2018 12:22 PM
I am sorry capricorns and virgo clients are very elaborate at identifying their emotions and expressing them. Taurus has a confused look in their face often and genuinely have a hard time with this and is why they seek out counseling is my GUESS bc they feel a bit lost. Obviously not all Taurus have difficulty expressing or identifying their emotions but I do see this more with this sign and they are totally different from virgos and capricorns, just bc we are all earth signs does not mean we are super similar.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
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posted May 27, 2018 12:32 PM
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