posted February 21, 2019 04:28 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Would everyone's Jupiter who is the same age as me make aspects to my personal planets?

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posted February 21, 2019 08:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
The degrees need to be close enough though. So it's not technically everyone in that year, but everyone within a certain time frame of a given year. Assuming your own Jupiter is also making contacts to your personal planets that is... Plus it depends how strong Jupiter is in their own chart for you to potentially feel the effect. And if you like the 'style' Jupiter they're emanating. Like a Mars/ Jupiter might be pretentious while a Mercury/ Jupiter probably chatty. So if they impose their Mars/ Jupiter on your Mercury as an example, it'll now depend how much you like being in that chatty state for one. Two, if you like chatting with them at all. Like if their 'Mercury' state fits yours. Like me as an example, I'd probably find someone boring with a 6th house Mercury simply cuz I'm probably not interested in talking about health and fitness all the time (that's different than a Mercury Virgo BTW). So it's not necessarily 'how' they talk which you might find attractive given their sign, but rather if you find them entertaining enough which is rather the house position and makeup.

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posted February 21, 2019 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I get it like this person says they are macabre. I have Mercury in the 8th house so they may like talking with me about 8th house matters. But what about where their Mercury falls in your chart?

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Interesting. It's cool actually how you have it in the eighth and he's that sorta nature. Does his Jupiter aspect your Mercury? And has that part already manifested, where he likes to talk these sorts of stuff with you?

(this one guy has his Venus conjunct my Mercury which sits in my eleventh... he has a Uranian perspective on stuff which I found intriguing... he has his Mercury in Aquarius so it makes sense... and yeah I loved chatting with him)

I'm thinking about Mercury overlays... this same guys' Mercury sits in my ninth... I don't think we discussed any ninth house matters... actually I do remember now, religion was a topic between us... and true it had an Aquarian twist so it didn't feel like religion but rather as some scientific subject.

It probably bounces both ways though. Like the way you feel about his Mercury in your house overlay might be a different experience he has with overlays to his chart.

posted February 21, 2019 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Interesting. It's cool actually how you have it in the eighth and he's that sorta nature. Does his Jupiter aspect your Mercury? And has that part already manifested, where he likes to talk these sorts of stuff with you?

(this one guy has his Venus conjunct my Mercury which sits in my eleventh... he has a Uranian perspective on stuff which I found intriguing... he has his Mercury in Aquarius so it makes sense... and yeah I loved chatting with him)

I'm thinking about Mercury overlays... this same guys' Mercury sits in my ninth... I don't think we discussed any ninth house matters... actually I do remember now, religion was a topic between us... and true it had an Aquarian twist so it didn't feel like religion but rather as some scientific subject.

It probably bounces both ways though. Like the way you feel about his Mercury in your house overlay might be a different experience he has with overlays to his chart.

And it obviously also depends how strong he relates to his Mercury.

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posted February 21, 2019 04:12 PM            

The fact that he has Mercury in the first I think it may even be an attraction point that your Mars conjunct it. It's that sort of thing where a person makes you feel confident and you feel better in their presence... you like them rather due to the rapport vs them as a being. So he may feel really good in your presence hence like being around you.

And I think the Mercury square, it depends what Mercury you bring to the table. And how he relates to that sign in general. Like if your Mercury conjuncts any of his other personal planets, his entire life he's used to the battle between them so isn't really bothered by it.

Like my ex has his Mercury in Capricorn squaring mine in Aries. I hated it. Especially his Mercury was conjunct Saturn. I felt that we never were able to agree on anything. That being said, I don't really have Cap placements except the outer planets. And my North Node which probably makes me feel uncomfortable with that energy in general.

posted February 21, 2019 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
I think you'd feel if the square had any real effect.

The fact that he has Mercury in the first I think it may even be an attraction point that your Mars conjunct it. It's that sort of thing where a person makes you feel confident and you feel better in their presence... you like them rather due to the rapport vs them as a being. So he may feel really good in your presence hence like being around you.

And I think the Mercury square, it depends what Mercury you bring to the table. And how he relates to that sign in general. Like if your Mercury conjuncts any of his other personal planets, his entire life he's used to the battle between them so isn't really bothered by it.

Like my ex has his Mercury in Capricorn squaring mine in Aries. I hated it. Especially his Mercury was conjunct Saturn. I felt that we never were able to agree on anything. That being said, I don't really have Cap placements except the outer planets. And my North Node which probably makes me feel uncomfortable with that energy in general.

On that note, I get along fine with Mercury in Cancer. I have Cancer placements myself so know how to deal with them sort of. It feels pretty natural to me.

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My Mercury is in Aries and his Mercury is in Cancer. He doesn't have any Aries placements. The only placement I have in water is my Venus. It's interesting that you say my Mars being conjunct his Mercury makes him feel confident I never thought about it that way lol that does make sense though.

posted February 21, 2019 05:17 PM            

BTW the reason I say it would make him confident... given that his first house Mercury would probably like to talk about himself and your Mars coming in there and kinda pushing that energy to the max. It would pump his ego up. But the layout is different than I thought.

posted February 21, 2019 05:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Oh it seems like it's his Mars that conjuncts his Mercury? Your Mars seems to be unaspected... (thought you said your Mars conjuncts his Mercury, probably a typo I guess)

BTW the reason I say it would make him confident... given that his first house Mercury would probably like to talk about himself and your Mars coming in there and kinda pushing that energy to the max. It would pump his ego up. But the layout is different than I thought.

Wanna post the charts with the degrees part at the bottom?

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posted February 21, 2019 06:50 PM            

I think Sun to Mercury can feel similar... but Mars is someone's drive while Sun is the stuff people are into.

So say someone's into art... it may feel like a natural thing to discuss but nothing passionate about it. Mars will be more like 'omg you do that too!'. It'll bring about a passionate response.

But think of Sun as a thing that shines. So it'll bring light to Mercury's perspective and perhaps make them see things in a new light, literally.

Natally you have a Mercury/ Jupiter conjunction which will give you an expanded mindset. I think the square can be looked at several ways. But it's forceful no less. So you'll activate his Mercury Mars conjunction. And given that it's in his first, it's part of his personality naturally.

And how he relates to that activation?

posted February 21, 2019 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I made it to where the bottom is showing.

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posted February 21, 2019 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Oh I guess you don't have his time of birth. (It's different than the first chart you posted)

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posted February 21, 2019 07:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Yes, post your natals please.

I think Sun to Mercury can feel similar... but Mars is someone's drive while Sun is the stuff people are into.

So say someone's into art... it may feel like a natural thing to discuss but nothing passionate about it. Mars will be more like 'omg you do that too!'. It'll bring about a passionate response.

But think of Sun as a thing that shines. So it'll bring light to Mercury's perspective and perhaps make them see things in a new light, literally.

Natally you have a Mercury/ Jupiter conjunction which will give you an expanded mindset. I think the square can be looked at several ways. But it's forceful no less. So you'll activate his Mercury Mars conjunction. And given that it's in his first, it's part of his personality naturally.

And how he relates to that activation?

First his third house (naturally Mercury) is ruled by Sun and is in Gemini, a placement that naturally loves to dip their feet into everything. And I don't know the degrees precisely, but it seems like Jupiter sextiles his Sun too? From Aries... he may actually be really feeling your Mercury/ Jupiter square thinking that you force him to expand his own knowledge. And your perspective is helping him towards it.

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Ok these are the natals and the correct synastry chart with the right birth times.

posted February 21, 2019 11:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Yeah honestly I wouldn't be too concerned with that square. (unless are you feeling something else?)

BTW curious how you feel about your unaspected Mars? (I realize that it's at his Sun/Venus midpoint - not sure how to precisely interpret it though but it's worth looking into)

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posted February 22, 2019 02:29 AM            

The reason I'm saying it is cuz my Mercury squares my Mars natally... People tend to think that I blow up easily, when to me it just feels like I'm being pretty mediocre. And I mean that seriously.

posted February 22, 2019 08:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
I honestly still wouldn't be concerned about the square... I don't think the planets in aspect are that harsh to aggravate him.

The reason I'm saying it is cuz my Mercury squares my Mars natally... People tend to think that I blow up easily, when to me it just feels like I'm being pretty mediocre. And I mean that seriously.

But a Mars square to my Mars/Mercury is really frustrating that I have to say... But I'm really curious if he actually gets frustrated by you or he's just being himself. Even if triggered. Cuz it's probably also his Jupiter square at play there. But I wouldn't necessarily consider it a bad relationship due to it. It's where you learn.

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posted February 22, 2019 09:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Your Mars isn't squaring his Mars/Mercury though. It's your Jupiter/Mercury squaring his Mars/Mercury.

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