posted March 11, 2019 11:31 PM            

i have transit saturn on my ic (little loose right now 3 degrees) squaring my venus (2 degree orb now was exact a few weeks ago, rules my 1st and 8th house), moon (1 degree now was exact not too long ago) and ascendant (exact) and loosely conjunct my mars (6 degrees now, hit my mars neptune conjunction a while back) about to square my nodes (that'll be exact in 4 degrees) and so far i'm pretty grateful for it in a lot of ways

posted March 14, 2019 01:17 PM            

Even if someone experienced predicts accurately what will happen that day, you still won't be able to avoid it. The energy will manifest in one way or another if it's meant to.

Relax. Usually Saturn puts obstacles to slow us down or make us work harder.

When I had this aspect Transit Saturn was in my 5th H (a romance related house too) conjunct my Pluto, then square my Venus and Mars. I was disappointed by someone romantically. It had started when T. Saturn entered my 5th H giving high hopes and it ended several months later when the squares occured. I have to say that there were many external obstacles preventing it (it's almost always like that for me but that was one of the worst cases).

I have Pluto square Venus natally so I think your fear about betrayal is due to your progressed Venus opposite Pluto you mentioned and transit Saturn makes you more cautious and suspicious of others (7th H). Your break up (and betrayal) is fresh in my opinion.

posted March 14, 2019 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
I agree with Dumuzi.

Even if someone experienced predicts accurately what will happen that day, you still won't be able to avoid it. The energy will manifest in one way or another if it's meant to.

Relax. Usually Saturn puts obstacles to slow us down or make us work harder.

When I had this aspect Transit Saturn was in my 5th H (a romance related house too) conjunct my Pluto, then square my Venus and Mars. I was disappointed by someone romantically. It had started when T. Saturn entered my 5th H giving high hopes and it ended several months later when the squares occured. I have to say that there were many external obstacles preventing it (it's almost always like that for me but that was one of the worst cases).

I have Pluto square Venus natally so I think your fear about betrayal is due to your progressed Venus opposite Pluto you mentioned and transit Saturn makes you more cautious and suspicious of others (7th H). Your break up (and betrayal) is fresh in my opinion.

Maybe the T.Saturn square your Venus is somehow related to what happened in December with you ex.
Or it may be a new opportunity and it may even be related to that meeting. Who knows?

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posted March 14, 2019 01:59 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I've just been having the absolute worst few years regarding romantic and platonic relationships. I've had more betrayals, lies and humuliatingg events to last a lifetime. I'm just so cautious about people I interact with now. I just assume everyone is going to hurt me and I always assume the worst. When transit Saturn went over my 7th house Capricorn moon in December I felt it's aftermath two months later when my bf broke up with me over the phone and blocked me and then lied about the reason for the breakup. Progressed Venus is also in opposition to progressed Pluto right now as well, so I'm just on high alert for people who will screw me over knowingly or unknowingly... I wanted to do this meetup because transit Uranus is conjunct my Sun which is conjunct my 11th house cusp, so I thought it'd be a better time than any to meet new people and shake up my friend circle, but I know Uranus can bring in some crazy characters...

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yeah i've been through some **** too over the years

but with this transit when it started i really re-evaluated how i felt about my fwbs (uninterested) and haven't seen him in a while, the biggest thing with the transit for me has been in regards to substance abuse though in all honesty

i've been sober since this **** started pretty much, which is extremely unusual for me since before that i think my longest span of sobriety was probably 4 or 5 days straight and that was unusual

it was like a break up for me lol and there was definite mourning and it was easy for a bit but now i'm starting to feel a little depressed about the lack of it in my life and my fiancee and i definitely aren't on the same page currently with that so it's pretty **** right now because it's a bit like forced sobriety to not have to hear her

but that's been more of a thing than it being about my relationship with people at this point, well except really re-evaluating bits of my childhood and seeing the level of ****** and just how bad being around my "family" (i use the term loosely i usually just refer to most of them as "those people") in any capacity is for me

so just frivolous relationships, drugs, and those people have been a running theme at this point, and well... myself feelings etc

saturn doesn't have to be all bad, and sometimes betrayal and negative **** can help you re-evaluate the way you put yourself out there and problem areas in your life and relationships

posted March 14, 2019 02:46 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Well my ex and I only dated for a super short month and a half lol (Jan to Feb 25th). The Dec exact square happened before we met, but perhaps it was setting the scene for the breakup in February somehow. Even though we didn't date long I still was hurt by the breakup :/

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It's ok, you probably liked him a lot or you just believed that this would lead to a something good.

Theoritically Saturn is supposed to teach you smth. Practically I don't agree with that because it didn't happen for me.

posted March 14, 2019 06:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

yeah i've been through some **** too over the years

but with this transit when it started i really re-evaluated how i felt about my fwbs (uninterested) and haven't seen him in a while, the biggest thing with the transit for me has been in regards to substance abuse though in all honesty

i've been sober since this **** started pretty much, which is extremely unusual for me since before that i think my longest span of sobriety was probably 4 or 5 days straight and that was unusual

it was like a break up for me lol and there was definite mourning and it was easy for a bit but now i'm starting to feel a little depressed about the lack of it in my life and my fiancee and i definitely aren't on the same page currently with that so it's pretty **** right now because it's a bit like forced sobriety to not have to hear her

but that's been more of a thing than it being about my relationship with people at this point, well except really re-evaluating bits of my childhood and seeing the level of ****** and just how bad being around my "family" (i use the term loosely i usually just refer to most of them as "those people") in any capacity is for me

so just frivolous relationships, drugs, and those people have been a running theme at this point, and well... myself feelings etc

saturn doesn't have to be all bad, and sometimes betrayal and negative **** can help you re-evaluate the way you put yourself out there and problem areas in your life and relationships

i hope it goes well for you, but even if it doesn't maybe it'll help you get a clearer picture of life in general

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posted March 14, 2019 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
It's ok, you probably liked him a lot or you just believed that this would lead to a something good.

Theoritically Saturn is supposed to teach you smth. Practically I don't agree with that because it didn't happen for me.

I wouldn't worry though for that meeting.

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posted March 14, 2019 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Well I am proud of you for staying sober. That's a huge accomplishment. I understand because I too dealt with that, but with prescription drugs (Adderall) and was not given it for a year by my psychiatrist until he decided I was mentally healthy to go back on it again. It's not easy to get over a substance abuse problem, but the fact that you acknowledged you had a problem and have actively taken steps to correct it shows you're on the track to long-term sobriety.

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thanks though i'm sort of getting sick of this already

this past 2 years i was more my version of sober which was drinking often and smoking weed every day, and psychedelics sometimes but no pills (except the couple times i don't really count) which has been my life for a while now

i started with pills (pain killers and benzos) when i was 15 and it was infrequent just went from there, drinking at 13 and if you count dumb **** like drinking cough syrup and whatnot i was a bit younger

under 10 but again very infrequent

my saturn return was heroin addiction, and now this

i can kind of get a good idea of the theme this is having with my life based on that and the current situation

it was alright at first, when being completely sober felt like a new altered state of mind but now i'm getting sick of it lol

adderall had no recreational value for me when i tried it, it just made it so i didn't have songs stuck in my head any more and could focus a little better on things without getting side tracked

it's cool that you've gotten to a better place with that though, drugs can be a ***** yeah

it's hard to predict what a saturn transit might be for someone else, but if you look at the themes saturn's brought up in your own life you can get an idea of where it's probably headed

since it's been your love life more than anything it's probably best to focus more on you right now and what you want

that guy sounds like an idiot btw, not only for not standing up to his parents for judging you over something stupid but also for letting them decide who he's with

i'm sure you could do better and find someone with more of a spine who respects the fact that you care enough about bettering yourself to continue to grow and learn and pursue things that matter to you

posted March 15, 2019 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Yeah I did. My parents actually said that he seemed like husband material and they'd NEVER said that about ANY of my previous bfs before. He had us all fooled though. He said he'd never break up with me over the phone and just two days prior to the breakup he said he wasn't going to break up with at all after I talked to him about how I felt that he was acting distant. We talked it out two days before rhe breakup and he assured that he was fine and the fact that I talked it out with him showwd him that I was "good for him and the right girl to be withl
". Then two days later his c*nt a** goes and breaks up with me because apparently his parent didn't like that a 26-year-old woman like me was still in college despite the fact that his brother has been dating a girl who isn't even in college and has never gone and who they apparently dislike. His parents loved me. His mom asked me to bake with her and they even cooked for me and bought me things! He used them as an excusw to break up with me. I bet he met another girl who he thought was better and then dumped me for her. What an a** to dump me because someone seemingly more professional came along. I guess all those sweet things he said were lies!

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Well I can see what Saturn wants to teach your Martian Venus. Don't rush and don't believe men untill both their actions prove their words to be sincere.. And to achive that you need time too.. Not just a momth or two.

Majority of men being liars and cheaters is no news. I know it's not fair and all that, but it doesn't change the ugly reality.

That lame excuse of his though..
You should go to his mom asking her in front of him "what did I do to you? You son left me because you asked him to do it even though I'm pregnant" Enjoy for a few moments him losing his sh*t and then say "bahahaha I was kidding.. your son doesn't have the balls required to break up with me like a real man let alone to get me pregnant".

posted March 16, 2019 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Well I can see what Saturn wants to teach your Martian Venus. Don't rush and don't believe men untill both their actions prove their words to be sincere.. And to achive that you need time too.. Not just a momth or two.

Majority of men being liars and cheaters is no news. I know it's not fair and all that, but it doesn't change the ugly reality.

That lame excuse of his though..
You should go to his mom asking her in front of him "what did I do to you? You son left me because you asked him to do it even though I'm pregnant" Enjoy for a few moments him losing his sh*t and then say "bahahaha I was kidding.. your son doesn't have the balls required to break up with me like a real man let alone to get me pregnant".

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posted March 17, 2019 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Haha I think karma will get him in the end though. You can't be that much of an a** and not have karma catch up to you sooner or later.

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I wish that thing about Karma was true.. But it seems to me it doesn't work at all.

posted March 18, 2019 11:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
I wish that thing about Karma was true.. But it seems to me it doesn't work at all.

How did the meeting go??

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posted March 18, 2019 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
The meetup went well actually. Only guys went, but they were all cute and I didn't feel like the odd one out being the only female. Nothing related to Saturn squaring Venus happened yesterday oddly enough...

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posted March 18, 2019 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
glad it went well, told you that you were worrying too much and that it's not all horrible

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posted March 18, 2019 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I know haha. I have a tendency to worry about things I can't control, or rather, I have a tendency to worry about EVERYTHING .

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posted March 18, 2019 08:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
have you tried mindfulnessand meditation? this is a long transit for you to spend it all worrying lol

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posted March 18, 2019 08:50 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I used to be really into yoga and I've thought about getting back into it (not the fast yoga, the slow kind that's more so for meditation and not exercise). I have Mercury in Aries so my mind is always racing a millions miles per minute lol.

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you should, if it helped you once it will again and now is probably a good time for you to slow down relax and work on things that improve you

but even aside from yoga it helps to work on mindfulness, being more immersed in your surroundings and every moment fully with all of your senses outside of stress and feelings and concern about the future or the past

gives you a deeper appreciation of things you probably don't realize you take forgranted too, there's a difference between looking at the stars and really being present when you do you know?

learning how to turn off some of the conatant chatter or at least let go of it is always nice too

helps with all the worrying

like this weekend, you suffered so much more worrying about how saturn on your venus would behave than you did having a good time when it actually happened

posted March 18, 2019 10:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
you should, if it helped you once it will again and now is probably a good time for you to slow down relax and work on things that improve you

but even aside from yoga it helps to work on mindfulness, being more immersed in your surroundings and every moment fully with all of your senses outside of stress and feelings and concern about the future or the past

gives you a deeper appreciation of things you probably don't realize you take forgranted too, there's a difference between looking at the stars and really being present when you do you know?

learning how to turn off some of the conatant chatter or at least let go of it is always nice too

helps with all the worrying

like this weekend, you suffered so much more worrying about how saturn on your venus would behave than you did having a good time when it actually happened

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posted March 22, 2019 03:30 PM            

What I noticed so far:

Since I recently became a mommy I can’t be as spontaneous as I’d like to be. I need to plan everything. But I don’t mind much right now. I also became more cautious in my decisions.
The father of my child left me during his Saturn return in 7th house (square his natal Venus) last year.
During my Saturn square transit I’m finally able to see him and our past relationship less emotional. I’m not in love with him anymore.