posted March 02, 2017 03:02 PM            

I also find that sometimes I come across too aggressive and blunt with my comments and jokes and stuff for girls. I blame Aries Mars/Venus trine Sag Asc for this lol! Guys can handle my jokes better and I handle their jokes alright.

posted March 03, 2017 01:58 PM            

She has a strong entrepreneurial spirit.And this could be because Aries energy is echoed a lot in her chart.

She gets on with guys fine. Many of her so-called male friends actually crush on her. But I don't think she sees them in that way.

She positively loathes the "dumb, ditzy" girly types. And is very hard on females who are all too willing to be the "submissive" or play the "wifey" who stands ready to serve the hubby.

Most females don't warm up to her as she seems to be too direct and opinionated.

I think its a position that is to be cherished in a females chart-as it challenges the male-privileged status quo-as does the moon in Aries.And this is ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY

Many times I think that other females have some difficulty getting along with these females because they are so direct and dare to be themselves; like it or not.

Women may be taught at an early age to "apologize" for this existence,be submissive ,long suffering and put themselves last. These women find that pill hard to swallow.

As such, the male privilege enablers(mostly women too mind you) will try and keep these females "in check" by degrading them and questioning their attractiveness or femininity in magazines,talk shows or movies in subtle ways/overt way i.e a "real woman" wears make-up,knows how to walk in heels, is a great cook,wants children,knows how to keep a man etc.

How many times has an Aries Moon/Venus woman been told to "stop acting like a boy" or perhaps been teased for being a lesbian etc.

Mothers who have such daughters and are ignorant of the strength of their spirit and will often try and "break" them so that they can align to the roles that women are given.

So when these ladies rebel against such conformity-even from their mothers,aunts, sisters etc. who are hell bent on making them "right", those relationships suffer.

But these Aries females need not blame themselves for listening to their inner voice and impulses to be who they are. That is true beauty. The self-acceptance and expression of who you are!!

There is a thread I want to write about the spiritual undertones of having Aries positions-especially for women.

To share my thoughts on what I believe to be such a dynamic and invigorating energy that is so misunderstood as to be "violent", "selfish" and foolhardy. And this is not its intent.

posted March 26, 2017 08:36 PM            

Why talk about somebody behind their back when you can say it to them and get a reaction?

I've noticed that I get along best with Cardinal female types, if any. Capricorn and Aries women are the ones I usually end up having great friendships with. I just mesh with Aries and I just have this deep seated respect for Cappy ladies. It's usually how I identify them before I even know their birthday. I'm not sure what about them illicits this from me. Maybe my 10H Moon.

posted March 27, 2017 01:06 AM            

From what I've seen, they don't necessarily get along better with men. It's more like they get along better with people who aren't on the far ends of the scale - extremely "girly" or macho.

posted March 31, 2017 12:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
What happened to make you lose her friendship?

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posted September 04, 2019 10:27 PM            

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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
What about a Venus Aries with a Cancer Mars? Would she be as direct as all the others above described?

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Great question! I’d like to know too!

posted September 05, 2019 12:34 PM            

I can be quite assertive and direct, despite my Virgo AC appearance. I also work in IT with a more technical role.

If you ask me, I'd say men can be gossipy and petty too. :P I had a superior bringing an old disagreement on topic during evaluation when I already agreed with him and acknowledged he was right. Then saw other colleagues gossiping heartlessly. Oh and both sexes can sexually objectify.