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Topic: Boring personality ?
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ana_bee Knowflake Posts: 400 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 12, 2019 04:48 AM
I know a person who has a lo of their planets in Virgo, with that I mean Mercury, Venus, Mars , they don’t conjunct. Their sun is in Leo opposite Moon in Aqua. Both luminaries form no aspects to other planets except the opposition to each other and a Moon square Pluto, that’s it. Would the lack of aspects to personal planets and the placement of three major planets in the same sign, imply that this person is less versatile in their expression and rather one-sided, with not much going on in their inner life? As I write this it sounds mean, but I don’t mean it that way. I’m asking out of interest.
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SoulOfABird Knowflake Posts: 966 From: California Registered: Sep 2017
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posted November 12, 2019 05:26 AM
Hmm that's interesting.. I wouldn't think so. Especially with moon square Pluto I doubt they are far from boring. They probably have a lot of problems. I think moon square Pluto is a difficult placement. Plus I believe I've heard unaspected planets make that planet stronger. Having Leo sun and Aqua moon, even if they don't aspect, I think they'd like to have a good time and could be fun to be around. But it seems rather rare to have so many planets unaspected, it might even make for an interesting person.Honestly I think what would indicate a boring personality is probably 12th house placements because they don't open up to people. So around people others don't get the opportunity to get close to them, plus they are shy and introverted so in social situations they are rather bland to be around. Speaking as a 12th house person myself lol
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Astra Knowflake Posts: 1069 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 12, 2019 06:06 AM
I definitely wouldn't say this person is boring! Having unaspected planets means the energy of those planets is very pure. Since you claim to know this person, you should know whether they have a boring personality, right?Be careful of not getting on their bad side though since they have that moon square pluto aspect. I have this aspect and it is incredibly useful and advantageous to have because you can quickly extract information from others that they normally would not tell. You don't need to tell them your secrets; they will find out if they have the desire to do so. It gives a strong investigative mind. It can also make the person very bloodthirsty for revenge. Either become their friend, or keep your distance, but never become their enemy or you will be screwed.
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 8045 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 12, 2019 07:00 AM
What do you mean by "boring"? Do you mean unresponsive, conservative or closed off to you?If yes is the answer to the above questions, then for me its Saturn.This especially when on Moon/Asc or on the Sun/Moon,Moon/Asc or Sun/Asc midpoint .As this can certainly have someone seem so uapproachable.Not to mention tense & forbidding. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2377 From: Into the wormhole on Saturn's ring Registered: Jul 2016
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posted November 12, 2019 07:51 AM
most often, sun/moon in the 7th, or/and AC in libra* notice I didn't say sun or moon in libra. IP: Logged |
Dons2angelss Knowflake Posts: 622 From: Virginia, US Registered: Jan 2019
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posted November 12, 2019 07:57 AM
My son has a virgo moon conjunct Saturn with a libra ascendant and he comes off like a stick in the mud. I think for people like him, everything is happening right under the surface and they're much more private with their personal feelings so it may be that this person is just extremely picky with who they share what with causing them to come off as boring to some. IP: Logged |
AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 782 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 12, 2019 12:46 PM
I can be pretty boring to others. I have Virgo AC square Saturn at the end of Scorpio and conjunct IC from the 3rd house. I also have Aries stellium of personal planets and most of the elements trine Uranus.It’s just I’m very introverted and don’t open up easily. My crazy Aries side is reserved to a few. I do start to open up more recently, being more confident and desiring to connect to others. But introvert activities are not boring. Reading, dreaming, fantasies, gaming, reflecting... To some this is boring, to others the loud, party and social activities can be boring. I personally find a more intimate one on one interaction much more interesting. IP: Logged |
ana_bee Knowflake Posts: 400 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 12, 2019 04:31 PM
I don’t mean introverted. Actually I find most introverts to be rather interesting because there’s a lot to discover. These people usually have a colorful inner life. What I meant was someone who’s rather one-sided in their interests and overall expression. A person that doesn’t leave much room to discover more. A person that isn’t much creative, someone who’s just there, whose view of the world is rather one-dimensional. IP: Logged |
Moonbeth Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted November 13, 2019 06:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by ana_bee: I don’t mean introverted. Actually I find most introverts to be rather interesting because there’s a lot to discover. These people usually have a colorful inner life. What I meant was someone who’s rather one-sided in their interests and overall expression. A person that doesn’t leave much room to discover more. A person that isn’t much creative, someone who’s just there, whose view of the world is rather one-dimensional.
I agree with the others. Sun/Moon opposition, especially flamboyant Leo and eccentric Aquarius doesn't spell boring or watered down or passive the way you describe. As someone with Moon square Pluto, it makes one way too sensitive to just take life lying down, NOT how we roll lol And as a Virgo, I'd say regardless of how many unaspected planets in the sign, we are a mutable sign, and Mercurians, our curiosity is endless and our devotion to others way too strong for us to not get to know them and observe them enough for it to rub on us somehow. Unless there was a sign that captured what you described as "boring" and all the planets were there with aspects preventing them to shine, hindering them, I don't think what you describe is astrologically possible. Every chart has its colours and potentials, I'd say boring (and also dangerous, toxic..) people are actually those who prevent their chart from expressing itself, not those whose charts just play out. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 119450 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 19, 2019 05:24 PM
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anska5 Knowflake Posts: 88 From: Registered: Jun 2018
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posted November 19, 2019 06:41 PM
what seems like a boring personality to one person might be the opposite to the next. I think it's more a matter of perception i.e. synastry than necessarily something inherent in the natal chart. I remember a venus in aquarius acquaintant who seemed to feel some friendship connection with me. Because she was friends with a very good friend of mine and clearly was a nice person, I did make an effort with her. We went out a few times, but I have to say these evenings were some of the most boring times I've ever spent in the company of another human being. BUT she has a very large circle of friends, so objectively speaking, she isn't boring to a lot of people...but to me, definitely. So yes, feel this is more about synastry than anything else. IP: Logged |
GalacticCoreExplosion Knowflake Posts: 534 From: Somewhere Registered: Sep 2019
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posted November 19, 2019 07:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by ana_bee: I don’t mean introverted. Actually I find most introverts to be rather interesting because there’s a lot to discover. These people usually have a colorful inner life. What I meant was someone who’s rather one-sided in their interests and overall expression. A person that doesn’t leave much room to discover more. A person that isn’t much creative, someone who’s just there, whose view of the world is rather one-dimensional.
This sounds like also shallow and spiritually immature. That's a whole chart kind of thing mixed with a freewill kind of thing. But very generally speaking, if there is only an emphasis on the slower vibratory symbols, particularly planetary wise and to a much lesser extent sign wise, then the chances are increased that we're dealing with an immature Soul, unless they have used their freewill to change themselves/their chart. Slowest vibratory planets in order of slowest to slightly less so: Saturn, Mars, Moon, and Mercury (Mercury is borderline mid vibratory, being primarily of the 3rd center). Pluto can be found in either the slow vibratory or fast vibratory categories, rarely ever in the middle or mean. Fastest vibratory planets in order of fastest to slightly less so: Arcturus, Sun, Jupiter, and Neptune. (Mid vibratory: Uranus and Venus. Uranus though is odd in that it often indicates a strange mix of both very fast vibratory in combination with slow vibratory, but not as a balance or blend, but as a stark contrast. For an aura example, having both a lot of red and yet a lot of indigo blue at the same time would be a Uranian type expression of attunement). Signs slowest vibratory to slightly less so (much less important in this) Mid to late Aries (early Aries cusping Pisces is more mid vibratory), Taurus, Gemini, and Cancer. Signs fastest vibratory to slightly less so (much less important in this: early to mid Pisces, Aquarius, Capricorn, and Sagittarius. So if a chart had all emphasis on the 1st group (especially), and/or the 4th group with little to none of the 2nd and 3rd group emphasis, then chances increase that they are less mature Souls and will tend to be more one dimensional, more shallow, more materialistic, etc. PROVIDED they have not used freewill to change themselves/their chart (but it's fairly rare that a Soul grows A LOT within a given life). Converse is true, if a chart has all or most of the emphasis on the 2nd and 5th, chances are increased that we are dealing with an "older soul" provided they haven't used the spiritual will to go really off track in this life. Sometimes happens, but it somewhat rare. This is not a judgement towards less mature Souls. We've all been there at some point, and most of us eventually end up at the same point, and funny enough, most of us end up from whence we began, the core of Source. It's not a race and we are not judged or condemned if we take a little longer than some others. The Source and those in conscious union with same are just happy when we choose to come back. That is one thing that my retrieval remembrances and experiences have taught me. I've been in some very, very lacking in light and very slow vibratory levels of consciousness, and when I was helping Souls move out of there, I felt total acceptance and love for them--there was never a thought or feeling, "well you've been so ****** , so selfish, and have so debased yourself, that you deserve to be in this self made hell of yours". It was much more like, "you've opened up to the idea/desire for change, awesome, let's help you out and get you back on track fellow traveler! Let's go start making more positive choices this time around." IP: Logged |
AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 782 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 20, 2019 05:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Moonbeth: I agree with the others. Sun/Moon opposition, especially flamboyant Leo and eccentric Aquarius doesn't spell boring or watered down or passive the way you describe. As someone with Moon square Pluto, it makes one way too sensitive to just take life lying down, NOT how we roll lol And as a Virgo, I'd say regardless of how many unaspected planets in the sign, we are a mutable sign, and Mercurians, our curiosity is endless and our devotion to others way too strong for us to not get to know them and observe them enough for it to rub on us somehow. Unless there was a sign that captured what you described as "boring" and all the planets were there with aspects preventing them to shine, hindering them, I don't think what you describe is astrologically possible. Every chart has its colours and potentials, I'd say boring (and also dangerous, toxic..) people are actually those who prevent their chart from expressing itself, not those whose charts just play out.
This makes lots of sense. When we are blocked, people are not seeing our real selves nor anything much which appears boring. For a long time I hardly express myself to otbers, a good amount of time I also felt apathetic. Now I'm learning to open up more and expressing myself out. Sharing things, which leads to bonding with others. I've been used to being perceived as boring, however whenever I let my artistic side out others did seem interested in knowing more. People who are themselves, as I noticed about them, really seem colorful whether they are introvert or extrovert or of different personalities. IP: Logged |
Moonbeth Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted November 23, 2019 03:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by AriesLilith: This makes lots of sense. When we are blocked, people are not seeing our real selves nor anything much which appears boring. For a long time I hardly express myself to otbers, a good amount of time I also felt apathetic. Now I'm learning to open up more and expressing myself out. Sharing things, which leads to bonding with others. I've been used to being perceived as boring, however whenever I let my artistic side out others did seem interested in knowing more.People who are themselves, as I noticed about them, really seem colorful whether they are introvert or extrovert or of different personalities.
Boring, interesting, colourful... anything that is subjective like that is not a permanent trait, only a shifting perception based on how you and others too feel at a given time, I think 😊
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Belba Knowflake Posts: 594 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 23, 2019 06:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by anska5: what seems like a boring personality to one person might be the opposite to the next. I think it's more a matter of perception i.e. synastry than necessarily something inherent in the natal chart. I remember a venus in aquarius acquaintant who seemed to feel some friendship connection with me. Because she was friends with a very good friend of mine and clearly was a nice person, I did make an effort with her. We went out a few times, but I have to say these evenings were some of the most boring times I've ever spent in the company of another human being. BUT she has a very large circle of friends, so objectively speaking, she isn't boring to a lot of people...but to me, definitely. So yes, feel this is more about synastry than anything else.
Couldn't agree more
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 119450 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 28, 2019 09:05 AM
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