posted August 02, 2020 01:44 AM            

There is this Taurus guy friend of mine whose intentions I'm trying to figure out. We me through the site Meetup.com back in February at a Valentine's Day event I organized, where a group of like 12 of us went to this Urban Air Adventure Park place and did some rock climbing, ropes course, trampolines, etc. I can't say I noticed any more than he was really nice (he's about 3.5 years younger than me, we're both over 30). I had a great time, so I put a post on the group event page that if anyone wanted to do the Urban Air place again, to message me their number (through the website). I didn't hear from him, but did see him within a week at another Meetup event, where he made a point to give me his number in person (in reference to the post I hade made on the group page). I then saw him again at another Meetup event shortly thereafter, but we just said hi in passing.
Then the pandemic hit....

So, I had texted a number of my newer Meetup friends and suggested virtual Meetups via video chat. He was one of the ones that replied with interest, so I added him to the group text I started. There ended up being about 9 of us in the group text, and we "met" an average of once or twice a week for game nights through the March-late May timeline. Then, as everything started to lift where I am (MI), I organized a small get-together at my house for whomever was comfortable. He showed, first to arrive (he's super punctual), and has also attended two other gatherings I've had. He invited our group over to his house a couple weeks ago, and it was really fun, I had my first ever Tequila shots (only two, LOL), and four of us stayed til like 1:30am just talking (and thank God I sobered up too). He had mentioned to the group when we all arrived that anyone who felt like they drank too much was welcome to stay over, but I would *never* have stayed over the house of someone I didn't know well, no matter my state of inebriation.

He attended a game night I hosted outdoors, and we've texted back and forth a bit, plus he attended a brunch organized by another friend last weekend, and I saw him again at another outdoor game night I hosted this past Friday (this time I directly invited him, last time it was just up on the Meetup group). When I set up another outdoor game night for this coming Friday on our Meetup group, he RSVPed in like 60 seconds, then we texted about it for a bit, after I texted him that he was clearly on board for another few night, with a smiley face.

He seems a little nervous around me, but did offer to walk me to my car after the the first outdoor game night, and we talked the whole way, plus another ten minutes outside my car.

I do know his chart because he gave me the info, and I actually did a quick analysis of it for him on one of our group video chats.

posted August 02, 2020 08:52 PM            

Based on your story, run away and never see him again. Save yourself the heartbreak, lol.