posted October 14, 2020 12:17 AM            

I wondering can I stop these progression and solar arcs that are normally love related to be always about artic creations? It is the main reason I stopped doing art as it broke my heart.

I’m already feeling suspicious about these influences and I don’t want to “waste them” to do art. I know this view might be difficult to understand but I’m feeling very hurt about this. For example when I had SA Sun to Venus I got in art school and first 3 months were like honeymoon I have to say. But I feel it was wasted to art and I don’t think I never applied if I knew astrology then.

posted October 14, 2020 04:27 PM            

But it sounds like you'd be better off to forget about the astrological factors, at least for now. Be more direct in your approach to your situation by way of your own body. If you're exhausted, do what it takes to get your energy level up. That might involve an herbal energy tonic like Licorice, or a homeopathic like Kali phos. Balancing your energy with acupuncture or use of a biocircuit could be more helpful than anything. Don't stop trying until you find something that works. Once you get your body in better balance you'll be in better position to consider things of a more psychological or abstract nature.

posted October 24, 2020 02:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
You decide how to respond to the astrological factors. They only represent windows of opportunity.

But it sounds like you'd be better off to forget about the astrological factors, at least for now. Be more direct in your approach to your situation by way of your own body. If you're exhausted, do what it takes to get your energy level up. That might involve an herbal energy tonic like Licorice, or a homeopathic like Kali phos. Balancing your energy with acupuncture or use of a biocircuit could be more helpful than anything. Don't stop trying until you find something that works. Once you get your body in better balance you'll be in better position to consider things of a more psychological or abstract nature.

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Hmm..I don’t see how it’s window of opportunity if for example you are approached by people you are not attracted to at all but are at the same time rejected by one you like.

But maybe I should not check astrological factors anymore as there is only hard and difficult progressions etc ahead and all “good” ones are not good for me for some reason. So it’s making me more and more depressed and feeling I’m without hope.

posted October 24, 2020 09:58 AM            

matter of probability if x is the default but y and z are available you could shift things in that direction

some of this is a matter of how tightly you believe you're bound by fate, and the rest is a matter of manifestation

divination is considered to be the most likely outcome if all remains on course and nothing out of the ordinary is done to alter it, by this logic a transit and chart would have a default way of playing out

but no transit or alignment of planets has a single default outcome and this is where will/manifestation can come into play

you use what is and can be to create the desired outcome but are bound to what's already there and have to work within it to some degree without going too far against the grain

posted October 24, 2020 10:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Valmu83:
Hmm..I don’t see how it’s window of opportunity if for example you are approached by people you are not attracted to at all but are at the same time rejected by one you like.

But maybe I should not check astrological factors anymore as there is only hard and difficult progressions etc ahead and all “good” ones are not good for me for some reason. So it’s making me more and more depressed and feeling I’m without hope.

Herbal tonics sounds good, I should do that

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i imagine he means window of opportunity in the sense that when certain transits come up they're filled with the potential to create what occurs in them based on what can exist

posted October 24, 2020 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Valmu83:
Hmm..I don’t see how it’s window of opportunity if for example you are approached by people you are not attracted to at all but are at the same time rejected by one you like.

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I would say that's not a function of astrology, but of your beliefs and feelings about yourself. You can change the dynamic of attraction around yourself. I know because I did it. Yes, I could point to things in my natal chart that represent low self-esteem, unrequited love -- but nothing in the natal chart is intended to simply persist as implacable fate.

I got tired of falling in love with women who were not available or interested in me. I got tired of being overlooked as if I were invisible to women. I changed the pattern on a spiritual/consciousness level. #1 - it took a decision to change by recognizing I'm in charge of my life; I used a number of tools, maybe none of them are appropriate for you, but it was a mixture of hypnosis, changing my physical appearance (growing a beard for the first time in my life in my mid-30s). Don't wait as long as I did to take charge and make changes. The results will take time and the benefits won't happen all at once. I did this at 37 and met my wife before I was 39, was married by 41.

posted October 24, 2020 05:43 PM            

Note the tenses in this description of how to pray.

Praying - or Cosmic Ordering - is just a mechanism for overwriting the conditioned beliefs that reside in our subconscious mind.

posted October 25, 2020 12:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Graham:

"Whatsoever things you desire ... When you pray ... believe that you have them ... and you shall have them."

Note the tenses in this description of [b]how to pray.

Praying - or Cosmic Ordering - is just a mechanism for overwriting the conditioned beliefs that reside in our subconscious mind.

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Matthew 17:20, Jesus said, “Because you have so little faith. Truly I tell you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.

the bible is a very good grimoire

posted October 25, 2020 02:05 AM            

Psalms 1: safe pregnancy
Psalms 2: destroy enemy conspiracies
Psalms 3: relieve headaches (especially migraines) and back pain
Psalms 4: change luck from bad to good
Psalms 5: find favor with authority figures
Psalms 6: heal diseases or ailments of the eye
Psalms 7: use to win a court case
Psalms 8: ensure business success
Psalms 9: win a court case, punish an enemy, or restore health to a male child
Psalms 10: cleansing and protection from restles, intranquil or unclean spirits" ... http://folkwitch.wordpress.com/2014/10/16/the-bible-as-grimoire/
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"Dorothy was right....there's no place like home. It's a bit like growing up wishing your scarf was store bought instead of hand knit......then realizing that what you had was something special all along." ... http://folkwitch.wordpress.com/2014/10/16/the-bible-as-grimoire/

posted October 25, 2020 03:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Graham:

"Whatsoever things you desire ... When you pray ... believe that you have them ... and you shall have them."

Note the tenses in this description of [b]how to pray.

Praying - or Cosmic Ordering - is just a mechanism for overwriting the conditioned beliefs that reside in our subconscious mind.

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posted October 25, 2020 04:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
I would say that's not a function of astrology, but of your beliefs and feelings about yourself. You can change the dynamic of attraction around yourself. I know because I did it. Yes, I could point to things in my natal chart that represent low self-esteem, unrequited love -- but nothing in the natal chart is intended to simply persist as implacable fate.

I got tired of falling in love with women who were not available or interested in me. I got tired of being overlooked as if I were invisible to women. I changed the pattern on a spiritual/consciousness level. #1 - it took a [b]decision to change by recognizing I'm in charge of my life; I used a number of tools, maybe none of them are appropriate for you, but it was a mixture of hypnosis, changing my physical appearance (growing a beard for the first time in my life in my mid-30s). Don't wait as long as I did to take charge and make changes. The results will take time and the benefits won't happen all at once. I did this at 37 and met my wife before I was 39, was married by 41.

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It’s great you were successful to change the direction of your life. I’m actually now 37. But I went to therapy when I was 32 and it lasted 3 years. It helped a lot but didn’t change that apparently I fall in love with people who are emotionally unavailable. Also my coping mechanism is unfortunate being completely passive, so I can suffer and cry years after someone who rejected me. I went back to therapy last May. This time it’s schema therapy and I have tried hypnotherapy also between these two therapies. I think I was at hypnotherapy 4-5 times. But I didn’t see great progress. Schema therapy feels good and had give me more understanding about what’s going on with me. ..Why I behave like this.

But as I’m already 37, I feel I don’t have enough time anymore to solve this, meet some one good and have a family of my own. It makes me so hopeless,I feel I don’t have strength to overcome this anymore. Currently I’m desperate in love with someone who has rejected me already twice. Also this is unbelievable to me. How this can be again like this? It’s difficult as we are co-workers and we have fun with each other and he also says we get along exceptionally well. But maybe i too should change my appearance and been more slim. I should be enough without doing that.

Anyway progressions and transits won’t bring anything good to my life love wise, it’s mostly art related. So after realising that I stopped doing art. But it didn’t help.

posted October 25, 2020 04:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i imagine he means window of opportunity in the sense that when certain transits come up they're filled with the potential to create what occurs in them based on what can exist

this isn't inaccurate but he also isn't wrong to say that balancing yourself first is optimal

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posted October 25, 2020 08:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Valmu83:
I realise I should concentrate balancing myself. But maybe because I did that time after time ..after every time I collapsed and anything didn’t change. I’m been still rejected time after time ... my distress is chronic. That’s the best way I can describe it. I don’t have trust anymore inside me. How I can gain that back? When I had trust in life and trust in future ..everything was the same. Maybe I felt better but the cycle was still the same.

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trust can be a hard thing especially when you've been through **** , i get it

i had a very abusive childhood myself and i've been through a lot of **** aside from that and it does make it hard to trust where another person is coming from, but you have to accept that each new person is an individual who deserves a clean slate

maybe you'll get hurt, maybe you won't, but it isn't about how it affects you to be honest it's about not making other people pay for the things someone else has done

you should pick art back up, that's not something to throw away especially since throwing it away didn't help

not everyone will care about your weight, but if it hinders how you feel about yourself then sure work on it (or for health reasons)

you need things that make you feel good about you before you worry about other people

i generally believe in fate and i think people come into our lives that we're connected to for a reason when they're meant to even if it isn't the timing we'd prefer

manifesting and taking advantage of things is in a large part about the internal affecting the external

as above so below as within so without

@Graham

i own bibles largely for that reason and for the old testament, on top of a bit of nostalgia being raised catholic (have a good deal of religious texts actually along with grimoires)

posted October 25, 2020 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Valmu83:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Graham:
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"Whatsoever things you desire ... When you pray ... believe that you have them ... and you shall have them."

Note the tenses in this description of [b]how to pray.

Praying - or Cosmic Ordering - is just a mechanism for overwriting the conditioned beliefs that reside in our subconscious mind.

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Also I’m from Christian family but god was for me like a third parent who didn’t care about my pain and didn’t give me any help or relieve. I was bullied at school and my father was violent at home. Much happened after childhood but praying made me eventually so depressed (When i was maybe around 27) I decided to stop it and
my life quality immediately changed better. As I was not anymore desperately asking help from god. And being left out time after time. [/B][/QUOTE]

The key to praying is in recognising that God is the Soul within the physical body which houses the Ego. Hence, the Ego is communicating with the Soul ... and, hopefully, agreeing to follow the latter's natally charted intentions (ie. to comply with the will of God)