posted March 30, 2021 05:41 PM            

just say something next time you see him, worst that will happen is he says no and you'll probably still be cool with each other

>The age difference is a big issues for me, I don't want him to miss any chance to meet someone suitable for him, and I want to somehow tell him that.

you're asking him on a date, not proposing, it's not a very serious thing and one date with you doesn't mean he'll miss out on anything necessarily assuming it's not meant to be anything

people can't actually miss out on anything that's for them anyway, but even aside from that if things were to progress it'd be what he wanted (unless you're keeping him chained up somewhere) so he wouldn't be missing out (only as much as anyone in a relationship is missing out on others) he'd just be making a choice

edit: btw if you scare him off asking him out on a casual date something is probably wrong with him and you shouldn't feel too bad about it

most adults can handle being asked out without it being a big deal even if they say "no"

posted March 31, 2021 01:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
not a pisces guy but i can't see what good it does to be anything other than direct if you want something
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i've turned down plenty of people and remained friendly, it isn't a huge deal unless they take it to weird places and are actually ******* creepy about it

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Thanks Dumuzi, I’m quite a confident person, but with him I’m like melted jelly. So I ask him out and talk instead of talking after class?

posted March 31, 2021 02:28 AM            

I am terrible at flirting, too, unless I’m just messing around, and feel comfortable joking with someone.

posted March 31, 2021 06:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries21:
Thanks Dumuzi, I’m quite a confident person, but with him I’m like melted jelly. So I ask him out and talk instead of talking after class?

Where are all the pisces men?

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not in this thread i guess

you may as well not much to lose, it's either that or do nothing and get nowhere

someone mentioned the text thing and not responding, but i wouldn't necessarily take that to heart because sometimes i don't respond to texts and it isn't because of the other person at all

i just open it, read it, respond in my head then forget to actually write it or i do write a response and forget to send it

i'll notice anywhere from hours to days (sometimes weeks) that i did that 🤷‍♀️

it's not at all personal

i also sometimes just leave my phone off or on airplane mode etc and don't speak to anyone

you can ask about the text i guess but that won't necessarily tell you everything, there's definitely such a thing as "bad at texting" or "life comes up" etc in spite of what vansio has said

with both acquaintances and established relationships alike

posted March 31, 2021 12:20 PM            

I think it’s pretty annoying when somebody cannot even text an important answer when you’re not a stranger to him. It would be a red flag.

Often, it’s blessing in disguise when a person ghosts you or show his negative sides too early so you don’t need to be heartbroken later.

posted March 31, 2021 10:50 PM            

following nonexistent rules that make little sense just because it "seems right" is pointless no?

it's just not really the sort of thing that's worth having strong morality over

posted March 31, 2021 11:59 PM            

My phone is messing about, but here is a search: http://cse.google.com/cse?cx=014396770703423262299:fimogv1id4c

posted April 01, 2021 12:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

following nonexistent rules that make little sense just because it "seems right" is pointless no?

it's just not really the sort of thing that's worth having strong morality over

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He is Capricorn moon. This might a source of the problem. It could be more Saturn in his chart.

posted April 01, 2021 03:58 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Oh, I meant to add that Aries could search lindagoodman.org, for “Pisces man” or anything else related to her question.

My phone is messing about, but here is a search: http://cse.google.com/cse?cx=014396770703423262299:fimogv1id4c

...which didn’t link to my search! Try putting “Pisces men” into that search box.

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posted April 01, 2021 06:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Also, having only Sun in Pisces doesn’t mean he possesses many Pisces traits. His chart might be dominated with different signs.

He is Capricorn moon. This might a source of the problem. It could be more Saturn in his chart.

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i don't see why there has to be a major impediment just because of a text message or saturn in his chart, well more like one that's there

people don't need to react immediately to something for the eventual outcome to be different

no need

too much weight on a text message

he didnt react immediately and if she wants a real answer she can say it in person, and really that depends on whether or not she needs to or wants to know right now why she didn't get an answer

if it becomes awkward she already took the risk in needing to part ways when she got in touch in that manner in the first place

she'll know immediately when she sees him how to handle it i'm sure

tension isn't even bad 🤷‍♀️ in terms of this sort of thing tension can be good and work out and if it doesnt oh well

posted April 01, 2021 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Dumuzi, I pointed Capricorn and Saturn in response to your quote “following nonexistent rules that make little sense just because it "seems right", not necessary about texting.
Also, about overthinking the situation by believing his answer or making the interaction more personal could break their teaching relationships what might be valuable for him.

Well, I’m Virgo with heavy aspected Scorpio Mercury. If you don’t answer my important message for longer than hm... day and half, you’ll be seeing me in your nightmares hissing lol 😏😆

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i didn't think you were talking about texting, anyway i have a capricorn mars and a sun-saturn aspect (and minor aspects with saturn to other planets) and people definitely put too much structure on those things tbh

i've been with 2 cap suns, and had a sortof thing with a cap moon once and what i said still stands 🤷‍♀️ these are someone else's imaginary rules, they aren't necessarily his

i'll staunchly follow any set of morals i have for myself, but if someone else's ideas and morals conflict i won't give them the same weight or consideration

posted April 01, 2021 04:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries21:
Thanks Dumuzi,
I’ll bring up the text this week, will see how he responds.
Another time I thanked him in a message for the music he played for me as he knew I loved the singer, he didn’t reply back to that message as well.
I guess the art show might have been overwhelming
for him, the crowd ....

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np

posted April 02, 2021 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

i'll staunchly follow any set of morals i have for myself, but if someone else's ideas and morals conflict i won't give them the same weight or consideration

to assume he has this specific value would be pointless

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