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arcturus90
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posted August 14, 2023 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for arcturus90     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why do people often expect others to act different from their signs (without thinking of astrology) ?

I mean, a Pisces person : many people hope that this Pisces person would not daydream.
A Lion person : many people hope that he wouldn't be proud
An Aquarius person : many people hope that he would not act different and people want him to be the same as others.

Why ?

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posted August 14, 2023 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They don't want the negative qualities.

Sag is fun. But also irresponsible.
Cap is responsible.But can also be cold.
Gemini is versatile.But can also be duplicitous etc.

We want the rain, but not the mud 🤷🏿‍♂️

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posted August 14, 2023 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for arcturus90     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries23degrees : I don't agree. They see qualities as bad things. genius thoughts of the Aquarius, they see them as weird and too different... Romantic dreams of the Pisces, they see them as bad and selfish illusions. etc
No sign can have 100% positive qualities. Maybe people want others to be perfect, that's what you're telling me. but why ? and no quality is 100% perfect.

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posted August 14, 2023 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it’s simply projections from our own view (maybe like our own natal chart). When we project we compare it with something within us or what we know or don’t know. How would a person know if that person is family oriented? If everyone is, we wouldn’t necessary say they are not or is family oriented. It simply just is. With so many variable outcomes, we see these separation (labels).

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posted August 14, 2023 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for arcturus90     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SimplyLuna : True
We all experience all 12 signs, maybe we experience each sign differently, some people have more the daydreamer quality of the Pisces, some other more the religious quality of this sign, etc. Maybe according to the planets and asteroids in a sign. And still according to the planets (and others) in a sign, we don't like some bad sides of this side.
For example, Saturn in Pisces rationalize the Pisces and isn't a daydreamer, has rather a rational way to experience this sign, etc.

But I noticed that maybe many people put some distance with signs, other people's sign and charts... And even with there own chart... Maybe those people are Scorpio rising, or Sun in Scorpio, or Sun aspecting Pluto, in natal chart, synastry, composite, etc. They retain themselves (control, etc... I don't know the more accurate word in English... in French it's "refouler"... psychological word)... Maybe that's because of it... I noticed.

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posted August 14, 2023 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GoldenSword     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not everyone has the ability and sensitivity to understand others... some have this ability developed some almost completely lack it.

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posted August 14, 2023 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for arcturus90     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
GoldenSword
Yes. that's too bad

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posted August 14, 2023 07:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
People on here, never used to guess my sign. They would say that I gave off Pisces or Scorpio vibes (my Mars and ascendant).

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posted August 14, 2023 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think I know what you mean with refouler. Perhaps it takes awareness to go within ourselves asking why we made such a judgement/statement and ask ourselves why we reject those quality.
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"They day dream too much" -- perhaps it means it's a sign we need to get in touch with our imagination too. There is this opposition going on. The extreme wanting to rebalance and re-center. We need a bit of Pisces energy.

Or to the nitty gritty, they were reminded of someone or something they have been let down. It could be numerous things. Either way I see these 12 zodiac signs are here to help us grow and learn from it - if we choose to. It's just easier that way - to accept and follow up with our own intuition and what's right for us. I think it's also easier to see any knowledge learned as relative. Wordings are limiting, our understanding of the world is too we put things as bad or good (in a box) when really it simply is. We can see it in our book of astrology - even health - "Don't eat this its bad for you" - but it could potentially be okay for another to consume.

Scorpio/Pluto energy may see things black-white but I think that's because it's ruled by Pluto they govern the extreme and that's part of the lesson for them. To neutralize. I'm saying this from a Sun/Pluto that I have in my chart.

Putting people in a box is safer and easier for the person, it's rarely about the other person. But a box is a cage 😂 ahhh 😮‍💨

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posted August 15, 2023 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for arcturus90     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SimplyLuna : I think too that the Scorpio sign see everything in black and white. Sagittarius maybe too because most of their Sun is in Scorpio in sidereal astrology.
So the objective of the Scorpio person is to become more neutral ? The objective of Pluto, is that too ?
My Sun is in 8th house, maybe it works for me too
I used to see life in black and white, now that it's no longer the case I can't stand this in other people anymore
"Wordings are limiting, our understanding of the world is too we put things as bad or good (in a box) when really it simply is." : true

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posted August 16, 2023 11:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oopsieeee Neutral may not be the best choice of word haha, its the non-attachment. I see Pluto as a spiritual opportunity. Neptune is too but it's a different flavor.

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posted August 25, 2023 09:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 25, 2023 12:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PhoenixRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are the actor --acting with those abilities and the collective audience is watching you. Projecting their own desires on you.

You goal is find the wizard behind the curtains and when you do the drama ends for you and it becomes a play there after.

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posted September 25, 2023 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
They don't want the negative qualities.

Sag is fun. But also irresponsible.
Cap is responsible.But can also be cold.
Gemini is versatile.But can also be duplicitous etc.

We want the rain, but not the mud 🤷🏿‍♂️



I love this response! Definitely the case where many wish to only accept the sugar coating. The bitter undertones many wish the native could "outgrow" or completely have an "attitude change ". Our nature is to be how Celestia created us. Light with dark. sweet and sour.

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posted September 25, 2023 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 25, 2023 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PhoenixRising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol!

Indeed the matrix is a duality world. You chose one and the complementary always appear. Note I say complementary not opposite.

Cancer and Capricorn are complentary, so is Taurus - Libra.

Leo and Aqua are complementary too and make the whole in the axis. Whoever said, opposites cannot meet

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posted September 26, 2023 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think may born Geminis are closers to what you'd expect.

A June born Gemini whould have more variability and act differently then what you'd expect.

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