posted March 11, 2011 08:33 AM            

How often do you argue? How soon do you make up?

Do you still have butterflies? If not, when did they begin to dissipate?

posted March 11, 2011 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
When did you realize your mate was the ONE?

How often do you argue? How soon do you make up?

Do you still have butterflies? If not, when did they begin to dissipate?

Is this the first person you believe is your soulmate?

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What actually is a soulmate?

Soulmate does not=in a relationship forever, or even for life.
As many folks here knew here at LL,
my ex#3 and I have near perfect "soulmate" synastry.
Oh yes, the soulmate indicators are there and better than most have or dream of having with a Significant Other.
Much we learned from each other and were right for each other for awhile.
However the last few years it has not been working and so I said it was over and there you have it.
So.....
what exactly is a soulmate?

I feel the man I love now is more than a soulmate......
if that makes any sense.
It is like my ex#3 was/is a soulmate.
We had and still do have work to do;
books, psychic work and so forth.
We were meant to come together for that.
However, as lovers, no, that was a mistake.
As spouses, very BIG mistake, but for HIPPA
and other legal rights it seemed logical and was.
So what is it when a person comes into your life where the synastry is great, and the feelings go far beyond being merely soulmates?
A soulmate feels like coming home.
It feels safe and wonderful at first.
All is right with the shared world.
But once the reasons for the coming together
and lessons are learned;
well, the love is still there but you both know that love means letting each other move on to what is "personally" the best for them.
So again I ask;
What is a soulmate?
And.....
What is it called when you connect with a person who is beyond a soulmate?
Soul Twin, Twin Flame have too many ambiguous and alternative definitions.

I think one can have many soulmates,
but not a soul match(?).
Sigh
the language and terms/labels fail.
Maybe the perfect "match"
is a person with whom you have been with in past lives; in every possible combination,
good friends, lovers, master, student, parent, child, male/female/other;
and the list goes on until you have lived every combination possible with that person,
and then the (final?) meeting is the full circle culmination of those shared lives;
and only then are you both ready for eternity to be shared with each other together.
I am rambling.

posted March 11, 2011 09:54 AM            

You think soul mate synastry would make everything OK, forever

posted March 11, 2011 10:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
What were your soul mate synastry aspects,Lexx?
I know they are prolly a lot to say but I would be very interested if you could.

You think soul mate synastry would make everything OK, forever

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posted March 11, 2011 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by LEXX:
[QUOTE][b]Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
When did you realize your mate was the ONE?

How often do you argue? How soon do you make up?

Do you still have butterflies? If not, when did they begin to dissipate?

Is this the first person you believe is your soulmate?

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What actually is a soulmate?

Soulmate does not=in a relationship forever, or even for life.
As many folks here knew here at LL,
my ex#3 and I have near perfect "soulmate" synastry.
Oh yes, the soulmate indicators are there and better than most have or dream of having with a Significant Other.
Much we learned from each other and were right for each other for awhile.
However the last few years it has not been working and so I said it was over and there you have it.
So.....
what exactly is a soulmate?

I feel the man I love now is more than a soulmate......
if that makes any sense.
It is like my ex#3 was/is a soulmate.
We had and still do have work to do;
books, psychic work and so forth.
We were meant to come together for that.
However, as lovers, no, that was a mistake.
As spouses, very BIG mistake, but for HIPPA
and other legal rights it seemed logical and was.
So what is it when a person comes into your life where the synastry is great, and the feelings go far beyond being merely soulmates?
A soulmate feels like coming home.
It feels safe and wonderful at first.
All is right with the shared world.
But once the reasons for the coming together
and lessons are learned;
well, the love is still there but you both know that love means letting each other move on to what is "personally" the best for them.
So again I ask;
What is a soulmate?
And.....
What is it called when you connect with a person who is beyond a soulmate?
Soul Twin, Twin Flame have too many ambiguous and alternative definitions.

I think one can have many soulmates,
but not a soul match(?).
Sigh
the language and terms/labels fail.
Maybe the perfect "match"
is a person with whom you have been with in past lives; in every possible combination,
good friends, lovers, master, student, parent, child, male/female/other;
and the list goes on until you have lived every combination possible with that person,
and then the (final?) meeting is the full circle culmination of those shared lives;
and only then are you both ready for eternity to be shared with each other together.
I am rambling.

[/B][/QUOTE]

posted March 11, 2011 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by roshanrai:
GRANT ME SO MUCH THAT I MAYN'T SO MUCH SEEK....
.....TO BE UNDERSTOOD, AS TO UNDERSTAND........
.....TO BE LOVED, AS TO LOVE......

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posted March 11, 2011 01:27 PM            

"When did you realize your mate was the ONE?"

I never really realized it. I was an atheist until recently. With the first one I learned was a soulmate who was bipolar, when I first met him I got this feeling that that was where I belonged. I also got the feeling that I would ruin my life for him and not even care. I've also been told he's kind of incarnated into this metaphorical black abyss that would drag me down and he's a path I am not supposed to go down. I have a lot of dreams that push for that direction, but fortunately they've stopped.

I dated a guy more recently that I knew in high school (he was my best friend's other best friend) whom I've been romantically involved with in past lives, and he piqued my interest passivly in an odd way, and I never thought he was a soulmate. When I was watching The Fountain with him, he kept thinking about me as being a soulmate and as an atheist I was thinking about the bipolar guy. I saw one life with the both of them and I cheated on the bipolar guy who was my husband to be with the second guy (I also liked women more then and he was a she :x). Too much information!

(Edit: I also want to add the guy I mentioned was leaving the state. I don't believe in dating someone and loving someone else unless I know they're in a place of understanding, and I ended up hurting him a lot partly for that reason.)

How often do you argue? How soon do you make up?

I've argued with my soulmates a bit, moreso with the guy I knew from high school. He was an afflicted leo and would get arrogant and do a lot of posturing which would bring up things for me and I would get upset. We made up pretty quickly but I eventually left him. I felt a strong sentimental attachment to him when I was with him and have always since. When I dream about him there is this empathic connection that is very gentle. The libra/sag guy I was married with initially in my last life I never argued with. I get the feeling we would make up quickly. The bipolar guy I'm sure I would have argued with more often. With the aries who's mars squared my dejanira, my chiron was conj his south node. It may have been romantic in a past life but everything was so mystical and perfect and we never -ever- argued, and post iraq when he started becoming mentally abusive I didn't really argue with him then and didn't really fight back in the little that I can remember.

Do you still have butterflies? If not, when did they begin to dissipate?

They've never fully dissipated. Usually they weren't too strong at first though they might have taken my breath away initially. Between a day to a few weeks it would get very intense depending on the soulmate. They all affect me differently. Some people just give me a comfortable euphoria. I've become more attached to all of them over time, though some I never got butterflies for like the libra/sag guy and it was only my instincts to dissect the synastry and look into it psychically that revealed that. I did feel comfortable with him, but I didn't want to meet a soulmate when I met him, and his venus was conj my saturn.

Is this the first person you believe is your soulmate?

posted March 11, 2011 02:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
LOL Lexx
I was gonna come back and ask you to clarify it.
I was interested in which soul mate aspects you had.
I was wondering if you could list them.
Maybe,I might ask you questions about them ,if I might .

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Originally posted by EverEvolvingSpirit:
Ami, maybe you and LEXX can start a different thread. I'd like this one to stay on topic, please.

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