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Topic: I finally moved far from home
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 12915
From: Uranus
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 29, 2023 12:56 AM
  
I finally took the plunge and moved 500 miles a week ago to be roommates with an old friend in a big city. It's been an eye opening experience! I can see that my mom was the only person or thing anchoring me to Tennessee and since she's gone I had no reason to stay there. I don't miss it and feel happier and more at peace in my new environment. It really dawned on me today at work when I realized how much more nonreactive I am here now. Back home relationships of any kind were really difficult. It always felt like people were antagonistic towards me, albeit mostly in very passive aggressive ways. Some time ago I learned that my hometown was on my Pluto line and the lady who told me that said "No wonder you feel like the world is out to get you there!" I don't feel that energy here. Oddly enough, I have felt very welcomed by people here and it's a big city known for crime and unfriendly people. So go figure!IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted April 29, 2023 08:29 AM
Congratulations, bro! The Universe has been telling you that louder and louder until you listened. I think you'll find every aspect of your life improving. I'm happy for you.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted April 29, 2023 11:18 PM
Thanks,
Randall! It's interesting how just moving to a new place can change you. I feel way more calm and my emotions are more regulated. Stuff that triggered me and made me angry at home doesn't bother me here.
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 12915
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posted May 01, 2023 07:30 PM
I'm getting a completely different vibe from women in my new town. Way more friendly and down to earth. Women in Tennessee are snobs and are way less physically attractive than women here. I don't miss the women back home at all.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted May 01, 2023 07:31 PM
I'm getting a completely different vibe from women in my new town. Way more friendly and down to earth. Women in Tennessee are snobs and are way less physically attractive than women here. I don't miss the women back home at all.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted May 02, 2023 03:14 PM
I just think circumstances were taking place to give you a gentle nudge to persuade you to move. Things are going to get better and better.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted May 03, 2023 09:21 AM
What state did you move to?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Uranus
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posted May 03, 2023 01:40 PM
The St. Louis Area in Mo.IP: Logged |
saronna
Knowflake Posts: 1832
From: Sydney Australia
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted May 06, 2023 01:38 AM
It's good you moved. I wish I had moved to be closer to the beach. I'm sick now and can't move but maybe there's a greater plan. I have learned this lifetime about self love and it's important for me to focus on myself and my twin soul journey. It's good you take the opportunity to move.IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted May 06, 2023 04:16 AM
Good for you!! am slowly starting to sink in the sh1t hole that is Stockholm. Ironically, the very place I escaped when I was 18 (moved to Los Angeles), only to come back 19 years later. I do feel it’s been very karmic and I’ve mentally gone though hell here since I came back; reliving things I ran from. People are over and over proving the point of view I had back then, correct.
I miss the PEOPLE in US but I don’t miss the country or the system. Sooner or later I’ll move again. My husband is of the same sentiment. He’s never liked Sweden but he got stuck. I think we together will change for the better with a move somewhere else.Sometimes life and one’s outlook on life, can change dramatically with a move! IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted May 20, 2023 02:02 PM
Any updates?IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 20, 2023 12:47 PM
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 12915
From: Uranus
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 25, 2023 08:36 PM
I'm doing better. I've been no contact with a lot of my family for awhile and I'm more at peace. My family has really mistreated me and not being in contact with them has been good for my mental health and sanity.IP: Logged |
GoldenSword
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posted February 23, 2024 11:20 PM
You're missed brother.
Hope everything is going well.IP: Logged |
GoldenSword
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posted March 05, 2024 05:39 AM
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Originally posted by GoldenSword:
You're missed brother.
Hope everything is going well.
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