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peachbeigeblue
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posted November 23, 2013 07:42 PM
  
What's going on in your chart that's making you down in the dumps? For me i think it's my break-up.. probably transiting Uranus conjunct my Mars in 5th. Saturn crossing over my ascendant making one of my wisdom teeth come in painfully, ow. Transiting pluto square mars - which i've had on/off since 2k11. I probably don't even notice it but one day I woke up and was like "i feel better" and it had finally gotten far enough away to not square my mars -- but then it came back. also saturn sq sun and mercury. i wonder if i feel especially bad today because tMoon is conjunct my nSun so it's making all the nasty squares my sun makes in my natal chart. iduno IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 23, 2013 07:55 PM
Some pretty hardcore transits you're going through, peach.  **hug** I am so sorry about your break-up.  Just know that you will eventually feel better.
It's perfectly normal to have the blues in a moment like that. It will pass.  - I have tSaturn on my Sun now and booooy can I feel it. Such a downer.
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peachbeigeblue
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posted November 23, 2013 07:59 PM
yeah, you're right. i think the hardest part is adjusting to the free time i have. and thinking that i have to start over again. but at this point i'm not even ready to talk to a guy besides my close friends. you're a scorpio, right? middle of the sign? most of my major transits to sun/moon/pluto you would be feeling simultaneously since my fixed t-square. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 23, 2013 08:05 PM
I know what you mean.
It actually makes me sad to hear that your relationship is over... It kind of inspired me, the way you talked about it. But hey, things happen for a reason, all right.
This is not the end.
Give it some time, don't rush.
Everything will fall into place, when the time is right. - Yes, Scorp.
Saturn will actually cross my Pluto & Mars later on, and before that, it will square my natal Saturn. Something's telling me I'm up for some fun times, ahem. I'm not going through a break-up or anything like that, but trust me, I know what it's like to feel like **** so I am sending you all the empathy I can gather, along with some chocolate, wine & a bear hug.
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peachbeigeblue
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posted November 23, 2013 08:33 PM
you're younger than i thought! so wise. i think it was a fated relationship.. it had to be. i was prepared to get engaged to him in the next few months. but then work started getting busier for me, i got a promotion (so bad, sooo bad with a virgo SN in 10th) and he just really wasn't supportive. like ultimately he didn't want me to work. i can get kicked into a workaholic gear (which is nothing as bad as i used to be) and it just kind of highlighted some problems and expedited the fact that i couldn't imagine living 2 hours away from my family and friends. i moved an hour away once and was so homesick and depressed. i was at a serious low. it was definitely the healthiest relationship i've ever been in - although apparently it wasn't meant to last. baby steps.
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 23, 2013 08:37 PM
I sometimes come across older / wiser than I am - Capricorn MC.
I'm far from being wise in practice though, haha. But thank you for the compliment.- Mhm, I see what you mean.
It must be really sad for you to part ways if it was a good relationship.
Maybe you'll reunite later on? Who knows.
Life is full of surprises.
Don't despair, okay?
Just take it one day at a time and don't be hard on yourself. ~ IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted November 23, 2013 08:43 PM
thank you thank you thank you.are you feeling down circumstantially or just feeling the unease of some intense transits? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 23, 2013 08:58 PM
You're welcome, hun.
I've been chronically depressed for as long as I can remember. I think I have dysthymia (mild chronic depression) but there are times when I get full blown depression and other times just wild mood swings - usually triggered by my feeling unloved and hated by others.
I have big issues with self-hatred and lethargy. And then there's a bunch of other things like social anxiety and avoidant traits, blah blah. I want to get help but so far my attemps have been thwarted for one reason or another... very frustrating. It seems that I actually have to really, really push and persevere to even get some attention from the medical field. Oh well. Hopefully I will get better some time in the future. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted November 23, 2013 09:18 PM
yeah i was in/out of therapy for most of my adolescence and early adulthood. i had an eating disorder from 14-21 and depression went hand in hand. one is a side effect for another. the best advice i could give anyone: GO
it doesn't meant you'll have to see a therapist for the rest of your life. you might not even think it's working. i went in anorexic and without even realizing it - stopped going with a healthy relationship with food much stronger than the average person. i would think, "oh, why am i even going - we're not talking about it" and then all the sudden i realized i was no longer addicted to starving myself in phases of my life. i've since had a traumatic event and i thank god i had that eating disorder because i'm not sure i would have survived it without having a therapist i could call and had a relationship with that knew me. he basically kicked me out after there was nothing really to talk about and i was doing well. but if something ever comes up - i always know a professional i can call. he also spotted my untreated ADHD and suggested I talk to a physician about it after knowing me for a while. That in it of itself changed my life for the better. GOOOOOOOO. If you don't click with a therapist - see another. Unfortunately, my therapist wouldn't tell me his sun sign. But i'm a creep and found out he was a cancer. At one point i saw a young woman when i was 14 and i couldn't talk to her. i was too insecure at that point in my life and it wasn't relatable. the man who i saw for years was an older man in his mid-60s. it probably would have been hard to talk to a younger man about all my eating and dating issues anyways.
ps. if i stop answering it means i fell asleep because i have the mental age of a 70 y/o woman and it's way past my bedtime
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aquaguy91
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posted November 23, 2013 10:00 PM
Transiting Saturn conjunct natal Pluto. Yeah, you can prolly guess how fun that is...IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 24, 2013 05:22 AM
Peach That sounds really tough, I am sorry you had to go through all that. But I am glad you're doing better now. And thank you for the encouraging words...
I'm not really afraid of seeing a shrink, I did that in the past already (two years ago or so).
And I'm definitely not the "keep it to myself" type... If I get to see a shrink, I tell them everything, because if I don't, they can't help me. So what's the point if you're gonna act shy or secretive?
I know I have to deal with my **** and the only thing do that is to let it out, liberate myself from all the internal pressure and emotions. Anyway, rambling. Hope you're feeling better today ((( peach )))
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aquaguy, Do you wanna talk about it?
I haven't had that transit yet, but will have it in a few months.
Sorry you're in a tough place
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aquaguy91
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posted November 24, 2013 06:13 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Peach That sounds really tough, I am sorry you had to go through all that. But I am glad you're doing better now. And thank you for the encouraging words...
I'm not really afraid of seeing a shrink, I did that in the past already (two years ago or so).
And I'm definitely not the "keep it to myself" type... If I get to see a shrink, I tell them everything, because if I don't, they can't help me. So what's the point if you're gonna act shy or secretive?
I know I have to deal with my **** and the only thing do that is to let it out, liberate myself from all the internal pressure and emotions. Anyway, rambling. Hope you're feeling better today ((( peach )))
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aquaguy, Do you wanna talk about it?
I haven't had that transit yet, but will have it in a few months.
Sorry you're in a tough place
My natal pluto is in the 9th house and transiting saturn is conjuncting it. Basically Saturn is being a d*ck and delaying my return to school.I was supposed to start back in january but my current financial situation is so bad I wont be able to. I'm dealing with a lot of family and financial stress.
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 24, 2013 04:23 PM
That must be stressful.
I am sorry, AG.I hope things will be sorted out for you soon.
Hang in there! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted November 24, 2013 05:14 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
That must be stressful.
I am sorry, AG.I hope things will be sorted out for you soon.
Hang in there!
Thanks. It's just more of the same, I always figure things out though. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted November 24, 2013 05:26 PM
How are you doing Doux buddy? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 25, 2013 06:29 AM
You're welcome.Not doing well, not gonna lie. My anxiety/depression got worse and it's hard to be functional. I feel like I'm sinking and there's no hand in sight to pull me out of the water.
Just gettigng by.
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aquaguy91
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posted November 25, 2013 08:21 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
You're welcome.Not doing well, not gonna lie. My anxiety/depression got worse and it's hard to be functional. I feel like I'm sinking and there's no hand in sight to pull me out of the water.
Just gettigng by.
Aw. I'm sorry buddy *hugs*
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 25, 2013 05:07 PM
Thanks, AG!
I'm feeling pretty okay now. 
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aquaguy91
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posted November 25, 2013 08:56 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Thanks, AG!
I'm feeling pretty okay now.
Good. Cheer up, you are too silly to be down for too long :P IP: Logged |
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