posted October 20, 2013 09:05 PM            

My teachers are the charts. I become very intimate with my clients. I don’t believe in skimming over the surface when doing the charts. Why pay for a chart if you are just going to find out your hobbies or favorite colors? There is no healing without the pain of looking at oneself. However, the pain of exposing one’s wounds to the light is LESS than the pain of carrying it like an eternal ball of shame and sorrow. It will fester and poison all you do. I have the asteroid Jung conjunct the Sun. I do charts to get to the core of them and the core of the person, as this is one and the same.

Many of my clients come to me about relationships. I can tell from the tone of the initial contact if it is a Nessus/Dejanira relationship. In these cases, the woman seems as if she will die if she cannot get the man. The urgency is unlike any aspect in synastry, even Moon/Pluto. Moon/Pluto would be next, though, and a close second. Moon/Pluto is the ageless love we read about in classics like Romeo and Juliet. It is once in a lifetime love. It seems to be one to a customer. That relationship is never forgotten, even when it is long past and you are both old and grey. It sits atop your dresser with your favorite photographs and an old lace covering that your grandmother made you when you were a child and still believed in love.

Moon/Pluto is not dark. It is passionate to the max. Darkness and passion are two different things. I want to establish that. Moon/Pluto is not light. It has the strength of the tidal waves and the vulnerability of a new born baby. That is intense. However, it is not dark. Moon/Pluto tends to affairs or off and on long term relationships but NOT marriage and true long term commitment. Maybe, it burns itself up. Maybe, the force of the waves wash it away. Maybe, it is too intense to last a lifetime but is supposed to be one grand passion. I don’t know but I don’t see Moon/Pluto in those long term relationships that last decades.

Venus/Pluto is the third most passionate with Nessus/Deja being first and Moon/Pluto being second. Venus/Pluto is the passion of Pluto combined with the pure love of Venus. It is powerful. It is not as powerful as Moon/Pluto because Venus is not as deeply core to a person as is the Moon. However, you will feel the tidal waves sweeping you away into the land of fantasy.

Dark is abuse. Nessus is the asteroid of the abuser. If his Nessus touches your Sun, you will want him to abuse you. You will want to lie down as the victim and let yourself be demeaned. That is dark passion. That kind of relationship enslaves you until you submit. Then, it plays like a record stuck on a groove until the pain exceeds the pleasure and you run, naked,devoid of every vestige of your dignity. You know that if you don’t run, you will die. It burns itself up. It was not made for soul mate. It was made for a grand fantasy. However, it goes bad just as surely as does food left on the counter because you were too lazy to put it away. It goes rotten. It becomes ugly.

You don’t know what you saw in that person. You feel you were drugged with some sort of drug from the nether gods. You were NOT. You were under the spell of Nessus/Deja. If you break free, the person you thought you could not live without will take on a coat of flesh. He was just a man and a failed one. All that passion was just smoke and illusion.* Sigh*You came under the spell of Nessus/Deja. At that point, cold hate can enter. Revenge is a possibility. Nessus/Deja starts out as a beautiful flame but ends leaving you in ashes.

The other dark aspect is the Fixed star Algol. If a man has this in a prominent place and it touches you, RUN. I would run, anyway. Some people think you should not judge a man by his chart but I don’t agree. It is the rare person who can overcome his chart. If I see Algol in a prominent place such as conjunct the Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Mercury, or any of the angles( ASC,DSC, IC or MC), I would run. It is not the person’s fault that he has this chart. However, only a true relationship with God will transform it. If he does transform, he will be a powerhouse because he has touched the dark side and come out unscathed.

Foot Note--I am coming back to this article to add Mars conjunct Uranus. With this aspect, a lightning bolt hits both people. This is a love at first sight aspect. This does not tell us if the attraction will last. However, you can be safe in telling people that it will be there at first sight.

Mars conjunct Venus in synastry is an attraction aspect, too. It is not AS lighting bolt as Mars/Uranus but it is still a great deal of primal attraction. Again, this does not say if the attraction will last or the relationship will be MORE than attraction.

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posted October 21, 2013 08:18 AM            

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Originally posted by m.blade:
Hi ami, I have Algol conjunct my descendant. What does this mean for me and how should I overcome this painful aspect as you say in the future? ty

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Wow How close is it, Mblade? If it is super close, I would be careful that I don't find partner who are up to no good. I hate to say it like that but the charts never lie imo

God can overcome charts, though. When there is an aspect like this which looks bad, on the earth, I think one has to seek God to transform it.

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posted October 21, 2013 02:50 PM            

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Originally posted by m.blade:
Literally just about 10 minutes apart, very close conjunction from the 7th not 6th

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You are very young so would not have seen how this would play out, I bet.

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posted October 21, 2013 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by m.blade:
True; just something to be sure about for the future

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Well, if it were to play out, you would be attracted to evil people. YOU would not be doing the evil lol

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posted October 22, 2013 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by LuckyStar:
My partner's north node conjuncts Algol, how would that play out?

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WOW

Before I answer, tell me about him. xx

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posted October 24, 2013 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by LuckyStar:
What specifically would you like to know, do you want his chart?

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Well, does he seem like he really struggles with his evil impulses more than most people?

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posted November 04, 2013 11:43 AM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Nataly I have Nessus Square Venus in 2A degree.
That makes me feel attracted to abusers? O.o

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Does it, Dani?

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posted November 05, 2013 08:42 AM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
Ami, I'm having Saturn transiting my 12th house. In January it will hit my 1st. In your opinion, this is the best time to heal this situation and try not to be so innocent I was until now?

I'm feeling that I need to use my Chiron (8th house in Gemini), but I don't have experience in the house of death and sex. I need to heal. I need to look for the future!

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Wow I don't look at transits too much. I think people can get obsessed with them. Any time is a good time to heal. The problem is that healing is really slow lol

To me, the 8th House Chiron is one of the harder ones because you do not feel comfortable with your primal passions. One of my clients has this.

Do you feel like you have to be sooo perfect and never have"bad" emotions?

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posted November 05, 2013 08:49 AM            

With bad emotions, you mean, I don't want to be angry with someone who hurts me?

posted November 08, 2013 09:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Well, does he seem like he really struggles with his evil impulses more than most people?

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Sorry it took so long for me to respond. It's not that he struggles with evil impulses. He is courageous and tries to do the right thing, he has morals (thank God for his mother). The problem is he has a cruel streak. His father was a horrible man and the example his father demonstrated was I always get what I want no matter what and I will f*** you in the process. His dad was let's call it "la Famiglia" if you get my drift.

He is not that cruel but he thinks he is always right and tries to push his agenda. If I object it's almost like I must be squashed. It is hard being in a relationship like this, I need to always tap dance and say "I don't know" so I don't start a fight by exerting my opinion/desire.\

Other than that he is probably what everyone would consider the perfect husband. He is crazy about me, is an excellent Dad, does the laundry and cleans the house and has an excellent career. I just can't bring myself to trusting him.

posted November 10, 2013 07:41 PM            

Did you tell me his Mars position. Sorry, if you did. What about Moon and ASC. If you did, sorry! xx

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posted November 10, 2013 07:43 PM            

I will come back later and check. I see you said they were all close! xx