posted January 29, 2014 09:28 PM            

For example, me and this person (not my significant other) have Moon conj. Pluto & Mars conj. Pluto.

I know this is powerful, but for who? Me or him?

posted January 30, 2014 04:06 AM            

It is powerful, but it continues to be unfulfilled. He's been close to me since birth & he apparently asked his mom if he could hold me (he was 2!), his mom told me once.

We grew up as best friends & went our separate paths but we recently reconnected. The comfort / familiarity is crazy... as if we were never apart.

He's overseas (military) so that's an obvious hindrance.

I am romantically involved with someone else, but I'm so shaken by his reemergence in my life... it feels like it's meant to be, like I should not ignore this second chance we've been offered.

posted January 30, 2014 07:22 PM            

What a cute story you have. Even as a novice, I can see reasons for the instant familiarity. Your ascendants look conjunct, and your mercury looks conjunct his ascendant. Your surface personalities are similar, as well as the way you think and communicate. Plus your suns are in the same sign adding to your affinity for each other. Your moons are trine indicating emotional compatibility and comfort with each other. Your moon overlays his 4th house which I read is one of the best overlays for the moon. Couples with this overlay are described to feel like family to each other. Your moon conjuncts his neptune, and his moon trines your neptune. This double whammy aspect can be indicative of unconditional caring for each other, and be highly romantic and spiritual in nature. Moon/neptune can create a bond where two people are so spiritually in sync they have psychic exchanges. You're in tune to a point where you think of each other at the same time, finish each other's sentences, feel what the other feels, and sense things about the other when you aren't together. There is a very gentle/compassionate nature to moon/neptune. In your charts, neptune contacts could be especially suggestive of pluto-like sexual attraction and depth since neptune rules both your 8th houses. His saturn trine your moon can add stability to all the romantic interchanges and idealism. You also have double whammy north node aspects showing a relationship that can be mutually beneficial to the personal development of both people according to the planets involved. In this case, his sun conjuncts your NN which could have a considerable impact since the sun is his chart ruler, and your venus conjuncts his NN. Venus is an important planet in your chart since it rules the house it's in(3rd), and an angle (MC). Your impact on him may involve things concerning beauty, love, art (venus), communications(3rd house), siblings(3rd house) and work(MC). I can't tell the orb but your venus is conjunct his Uranus. Uranus is important in his chart and yours since it rules your descendants, and his Uranus conjuncts his NN. Then there's the best part, your pluto conjuncts his mars, your mars conjuncts his venus, and your moon sextiles his pluto. Mars and pluto are the rulers of both your 4th houses. Not only are they aspects indicative of sexual attraction, but it possibly reinforces any feelings of family-like familiarity.

What you describe could be more than pluto talking. For instance, the venus-Uranus conjunction suggests breaking away from old thinking and patterns. It's a relationship than can break up what exists, but not working and change the way you think about love. That's what I read about it anyway. Pluto is deep and transforming in nature, so it indeed has it's role in it all. In my case, which has some similarity to yours, I've definitely reassessed who I am and what I want. I can definitely relate to not wanting to have regrets. For myself, I've come to the conclusion that it's not fair for myself or my partner to stay in a relationship that obviously falls short in a lot of areas even though there is love and caring involved. I thought why stay with someone I love this much or only this way when we both can have so much more and so much and better. It's not fair to me or him to deny that to ourselves. The best thing I did was being honest and upfront about it to myself, and my husband.

I have to say... I have 3 kids, and each one since birth had their own distinct identities. They've grown, evolved a bit, but I can still see the same temperaments and general dispositions I noticed initially. I always thought how strange it was they were born with such distinctive characteristics. I think young children are so innocently who they are until they learn to censor themselves according to social acceptance, values, morals and the like. My point is... What if, even at 2 years old, love/attraction already existed? Wouldn't that be something! Movies are made with these themes for a reason, right?