posted June 17, 2020 10:15 AM            

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Originally posted by andrea22:
Please somebody help me,im trying to get answer for months and noone still wanted to see it,and all i wanted was just one simple questions.. does he feel emotions or not?

He cut me off coldly and i want to see why it happened, why he faked all,does this synastry shows some emotions and bond from his side or was just fake and he lied me? just that,nothing else really

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I'm not an expert, so someone else on this site will probably give you better insight on your synastry with him.

From what I see, his Neptune is square to both your Sun and your Mercury. So there's a high possibility that he was not being completely truthful with you, a/o that you idealized him and didn't see him for what he was.

Also, his Saturn is opposite your Sun and Mercury, and square to your Mars and Uranus. Those are very difficult aspect to handle in synastry. Especially the Mars square Saturn one! It isn't surprising that he ended up being very cold towards you. The Saturn person can often be cold, critical and dismissive.

From the looks of it, there might have been some attraction with all the Lilith action going on. But Lilith isn't about durability or wholesome attraction. It's very carnal and lustful...

The Sun to Venus double whammy is quite nice. He probably seemed very charming and attractive to you in the beginning.

The Pluto/Moon DW can point to an emotional attraction between the both of you... BUT, his Pluto is square your Moon. This can be extremely difficult for the Moon person, especially if the Pluto person is not well-intentioned. They can have control over your emotions and sometimes bring out the worst in you.

posted June 17, 2020 10:58 AM            

Saturn Mars square is very difficult. I had it with 2 guys, in one I was Saturn and in the other I was Mars. It is difficult either way. When you are Saturn you don't like how the other person acts, and when you are Mars you feel judged.

Neptune doesn't make positive aspects to personal planets.

Check where Juno is and what aspects does to the planets and the angles.

Lilith is on your IC, squares Mars - which could be some atraction.
Pluto square moon could lead to some attraction, but as I see it and feel the squares pluto makes, it is difficult.

posted June 17, 2020 04:24 PM            

I had a guy putting his Lilith on my Moon and I was soo charmed by him. It was also my Moon conjuncting his South Node too, so maybe that made the pull seem so hard handle.

I had to distance myself from him for a month to get out of the irresistable desire. - and this is not an overreaction.

posted June 18, 2020 11:57 AM            

His moon might conjunct your south node. You don't know for sure because you don't know the time of his birth. But still being in the same sign it has some effect.

posted June 24, 2020 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by andrea22:
Thank you..interesting,i don't know much about astrology,its all new to me

But his venus is in Taurus and i basically don't have any Taurus in my natal chart,so it means he doesn't find me that much his type?

Our moons trine,im cancer moon,and it says scorpio and cancer moon are match,so at least that is good

and most importantly what confuses me, i read alot about my venus in aries online.. it says aries venus women like to pursue... but i hate it from my heart,i feel happy being completly submissive in and out of bed with any man...
when i had to text first,or pursue it makes me angry.. so i give up.. i like only men who are very dominant,strong and always in charge and lead in all situations almost

so that part is not clear to me...
im direct,outspoken,but i like men who pursue me,when i had to pursue i don't think of that man as a man,so i lost respect for him..its how i feel

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Venus in Aries makes a woman be the type that pursue men. If it is for a man, he will be pursued. A man will tend to attract women around him.

As for his venus, it doesn't have to be the same sign. He doesn't like to be pursued, since it is in taurus. But his sun enjoys your venus energy. There is a conjunction. I have my venus in taurus and it is about long term relationships, but i'm a pisces so... different energies.