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Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 13, 2023 11:29 PM
Can some one please help? I have known this man three years, and he sorta blows my mind, but I’m not sure if he is feeling it for me or if he is just using me .. I can’t really see any love from him in the chart, but he does treat me lovingly and caringly during life, I’m afraid I’m an option to him, like he could take it or leaveCan anyone tell me if they see anything good or bad My own planets :
Sun in 3° 1' Virgo Moon in 15° 35' Gemini Mercury in 20° 36' Leo (r) Venus in 19° 4' Libra Mars in 14° 3' Libra Jupiter in 28° 4' Cancer Saturn in 3° 51' Virgo Uranus in 12° 52' Scorpio Neptune in 15° 32' Sagittarius (r) Pluto in 14° 57' Libra North Node in 27° 58' Virgo (r) True Node in 27° 1' Virgo (r) Chiron in 9° 41' Taurus (r) Ascendant in 16° 12' Libra MC in 17° 41' Cancer Lilith in 24° 44' Cancer Juno in 24° 42' Capricorn ——————————————————————— His planets : Sun in 12° 43' Cancer Moon in 24° 28' Taurus Mercury in 21° 21' Gemini Venus in 26° 52' Leo Mars in 2° 58' Taurus Jupiter in 22° 8' Aries Saturn in 21° 10' Cancer Uranus in 28° 21' Libra (r) Neptune in 9° 34' Sagittarius (r) Pluto in 6° 34' Libra North Node in 28° 46' Scorpio (r) True Node in 0° 15' Sagittarius Chiron in 27° 50' Aries Ascendant in 2° 57' Virgo MC in 29° 14' Taurus Lilith in 16° 47' Pisces Juno in 5° 18' Cancer —————————————————————— Aspects in synastry: Uranus Trine Sun orb: 0 °
Jupiter Square Uranus orb: 0 ° Jupiter Trine North Node orb: 0 ° Juno Trine Moon orb: 0 ° Lilith Sextile Moon orb: 0 ° Sun Trine Mars orb: 1 ° Saturn Trine Mars orb: 1 ° Sun Conjunction Ascendant orb: 1 ° Saturn Conjunction Ascendant orb: 1 ° Mercury Sextile Mercury orb: 1 ° MC Trine Lilith orb: 1 ° Moon Square Lilith orb: 1 ° Jupiter Square Chiron orb: 1 ° Neptune Square Lilith orb: 1 ° Jupiter Sextile MC orb: 1 ° North Node Sextile North Node orb: 1 ° True Node Sextile North Node orb: 1 ° Mercury Trine Jupiter orb: 2 ° Venus Trine Mercury orb: 2 ° Jupiter Trine True Node orb: 2 ° Venus Square Saturn orb: 2 ° Mars Square Sun orb: 2 ° Pluto Square Sun orb: 2 ° North Node Trine MC orb: 2 ° True Node Trine MC orb: 2 ° Lilith Square Jupiter orb: 2 ° Juno Square Jupiter orb: 2 ° Sun Sextile Juno orb: 2 ° Saturn Sextile Juno orb: 2 ° True Node Trine Moon orb: 3 ° Venus Opposition Jupiter orb: 3 ° Sun Square True Node orb: 3 ° Saturn Square True Node orb: 3 ° Minor Aspects
Sun Quintile Mercury orb: 0 ° Saturn Quintile Mercury orb: 0 ° North Node Quintile Neptune orb: 0 ° True Node Quintile Neptune orb: 0 ° Chiron Quintile Saturn orb: 0 ° Lilith Quintile Pluto orb: 0 ° Sun Septile Sun orb: 0 ° Saturn Septile Sun orb: 0 ° Mercury Octile Juno orb: 0 ° MC Octile Ascendant orb: 0 ° Juno Octile Neptune orb: 0 ° North Node Quincunx Chiron orb: 0 ° True Node Quincunx Chiron orb: 0 ° Chiron Quincunx Neptune orb: 0 ° Ascendant Quincunx Lilith orb: 0 ° Mars Sesquiquadrate MC orb: 0 ° Pluto Sesquiquadrate MC orb: 0 ° Lilith Sesquiquadrate Neptune orb: 0 °
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Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 13, 2023 11:38 PM
In the list of aspects I’m the first planet and he is the 2nd planet. The relationship is healthy, although I am afraid he has control issues and a few other issues, but he is overall a smart decent person , but I’m afraid I’m just a convienence for him, I don’t know what the future could be for us, IP: Logged |
Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 14, 2023 12:04 AM
https://app.photobucket.com/u/jmenesbitt/a/7e4539b0-180d-4c8d-85cf-5ea9f06cf54eIP: Logged |
Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 14, 2023 12:05 AM
In the list of aspects I’m the first planet and he is the 2nd planet. The relationship is healthy, although I am afraid he has control issues and a few other issues, but he is overall a smart decent person , but I’m afraid I’m just a convienence for him, I don’t know what the future could be for us, IP: Logged |
StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 1161 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted March 14, 2023 10:16 AM
try removing the s from the https.... I tried to follow the link and it took me to the general photo bucket site.And we need to see the chart to help, reading the aspects is pretty challenging just from the list, though I appreciate you took the time to type them all out! IP: Logged |
anevolena Knowflake Posts: 108 From: Registered: Mar 2022
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posted March 14, 2023 12:05 PM
If you want some help, try posting pictures of the charts. That's much easier to analyze than a list of aspects.IP: Logged |
Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 14, 2023 12:30 PM
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StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 1161 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted March 14, 2023 02:07 PM
it still doesn't take me to the chart. Take a photo of the chart, upload it to something like Imgur, then capture the link and post it here.IP: Logged |
Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 14, 2023 05:59 PM
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Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 14, 2023 06:04 PM
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Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 14, 2023 06:06 PM
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StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 1161 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted March 14, 2023 07:11 PM
I definitely see attraction- his sun squares your ASC, Venus, Mars, Pluto!!!!! -- that seems intense. And his Jupiter opposes this and square his own Sun. He's already a Sun square Pluto so he probably totally digs this square between his sun and your stellium. I will say though that your stellium probably makes you a very magnetic, attractive person to begin with and you may be used to this energy? You may be used to others pursuing you but it may not feel deep, it may you leave you feeling like others appreciate you for your beauty and sexuality?Your Sun on his ASC feels very good to him, I am sure. That's very good compatibility right there, and his Mars trines your Sun. You have attraction factors, you have communication factors, and you have longevity factors (albeit challenging ones). IP: Logged |
Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 15, 2023 12:53 PM
Thanks a lot for your help. I had not even thought about it like that. It was very insightful. I was looking mostly for some type of moon feeling he had for me, so I’m glad you pointed out the importance of his sun. It’s hard to perceive it as if I were him. I want to make him commit to me or create an unbreakable bond somehow. That’s why I was looking at moon/love. With the Libra stellium I have , all I notice is I feel like 90% of the time I have extremely Libra characteristics, overly trying to keep the peace and fairness and niceness and politeness, I care a lot about shopping and making everything beautiful, like no one else lol 😳 so I It definitely controls my chart. So you think his sun is very important in his chart?IP: Logged |
StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 1161 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted March 15, 2023 02:14 PM
Mercury or Chiron is his chart ruler, depending on how you define Virgo rulership. And his Chiron widely opposes your stellium. With Venus as your chart ruler, and involved in the stellium, this is a good indicator. If Mercury, this trines your Venus and stellium... so either way your chart rulers connect. He has a Taurus Mars and a Taurus Moon, I would say if he is in a relationship with you, the longer it goes the better it speaks of longevity simply bcs Taurus energy builds as it continues. The bond is formed slowly, but very strongly. He likes a Venusian ruled woman, which is you. But this woman will have a little bit of fire (you do- your lone fire sign Mercury), and someone who has a softness about her- Neptune inspired. This is also you with your 12th house placements and your own Neptune in sextile to your stellium. Unbreakable bond? His Saturn squares your stellium. I just say be careful what you wish for there, but I get it- you're a Pluto conjunct Venus, Mars, ASC for god's sake! Your Saturn is on his ASC, that's pretty binding. But be careful with that one bcs it can become very nagging and nitpicky... esp in Virgo.
I understand you keep the peace and harmonize, but you are not your typical Libra thanks to that Pluto. I would guess you are quite lovely, and yes I would agree you love to surround yourself with beauty, art, music... but you are a Pluto person too- you need to know your partner will go to the ends of the earth for you- you idealize that romanticism. His moon falls in your 8th, it probably drives you wild. You don't have anything in your 8th so this could feel extra intense, exactly how you like it. Do you have a composite chart? And how long have you been together? IP: Logged |
Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 15, 2023 03:56 PM
This is the composite chart http://imgur.com/a/BXbqfZv I liked it, but I was unsure wether to consider it because we don’t live together. We only date on the weekend (mostly all weekend long). During the week, we talk daily on our phones, good morning, and throughout the day, during dinner and good night. We are very attentive all week long, and it would be nearly impossible for him to be dating anyone else, that’s the good news. He spends a lot of time and attention on me, but this has been going on for three years, I honestly don’t know what the future could be for us. He has never lived with another person! honestly I’m at an age where I’m afraid to miss people that I love, I have lost a husband a few people have died, lost a couple boyfriends, sort of empty nesting my college son, I don’t want to miss anyone else! I do love him , but yeah maybe he is just enjoying the relationship and the romantic part of it, maybe there is no future for us, which scares me
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Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 15, 2023 03:56 PM
I’m really grateful for your helpIP: Logged |
Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 15, 2023 03:59 PM
He and I live and work about 40 minutes apart, which isn’t badIP: Logged |
Jamielynn Newflake Posts: 14 From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA Registered: May 2020
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posted March 15, 2023 04:07 PM
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StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 1161 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted March 15, 2023 06:11 PM
I think you are doing fine for three years- he's a Taurus Moon and Mars and they do not move fast. He's been there for three years, he's in. Taurus Mars take their time and do things when they are good and ready. But the Moon, that one holds on to things they love. And they can be very loyal. It probably hasn't occurred to him to live together, and to some degree they are slow to change things that they don't feel need to be changed. I will look at the composite. But I don't think he's using you. I do think he has probably had a tendency to love women who weren't necessarily available to him (Venus in 12th), and as such he may have learned to live within those confines. IP: Logged |
StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 1161 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted March 15, 2023 06:16 PM
The composite looks good, I think!Jupiter is the ruler, and it's conjunct the Moon and sextile the Sun, Mars, Saturn, Mercury stellium. Venus is conjunct the MC... And that stellium is in the 8th! Depth, sexual energy, good mental engagement and connection... and longevity. Pluto trine Moon and sextile the stellium. Neptune on the ASC could make it hard to pin down, but I think you have a lot of really nice things in the composite. I don't think it matters that you don't live together- you are very much a couple and the more time goes by the more that is solidified. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 170589 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 01, 2023 01:54 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 170589 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 15, 2023 09:34 AM
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