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Jamielynn
Newflake

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From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA
Registered: May 2020

posted March 13, 2023 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can some one please help?
I have known this man three years, and he sorta blows my mind, but I’m not sure if he is feeling it for me or if he is just using me .. I can’t really see any love from him in the chart, but he does treat me lovingly and caringly during life, I’m afraid I’m an option to him, like he could take it or leave

Can anyone tell me if they see anything good or bad


My own planets :

Sun
in
3° 1'
Virgo

Moon
in
15° 35'
Gemini

Mercury
in
20° 36'
Leo
(r)

Venus
in
19° 4'
Libra

Mars
in
14° 3'
Libra

Jupiter
in
28° 4'
Cancer

Saturn
in
3° 51'
Virgo

Uranus
in
12° 52'
Scorpio

Neptune
in
15° 32'
Sagittarius
(r)

Pluto
in
14° 57'
Libra

North Node
in
27° 58'
Virgo
(r)

True Node
in
27° 1'
Virgo
(r)

Chiron
in
9° 41'
Taurus
(r)

Ascendant
in
16° 12'
Libra

MC
in
17° 41'
Cancer

Lilith
in
24° 44'
Cancer

Juno
in
24° 42'
Capricorn

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His planets :

Sun
in
12° 43'
Cancer

Moon
in
24° 28'
Taurus

Mercury
in
21° 21'
Gemini

Venus
in
26° 52'
Leo

Mars
in
2° 58'
Taurus

Jupiter
in
22° 8'
Aries

Saturn
in
21° 10'
Cancer

Uranus
in
28° 21'
Libra
(r)

Neptune
in
9° 34'
Sagittarius
(r)

Pluto
in
6° 34'
Libra

North Node
in
28° 46'
Scorpio
(r)

True Node
in
0° 15'
Sagittarius

Chiron
in
27° 50'
Aries

Ascendant
in
2° 57'
Virgo

MC
in
29° 14'
Taurus

Lilith
in
16° 47'
Pisces

Juno
in
5° 18'
Cancer

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Aspects in synastry:


Uranus Trine Sun
orb: 0 °

Jupiter Square Uranus
orb: 0 °

Jupiter Trine North Node
orb: 0 °

Juno Trine Moon
orb: 0 °

Lilith Sextile Moon
orb: 0 °

Sun Trine Mars
orb: 1 °

Saturn Trine Mars
orb: 1 °

Sun Conjunction Ascendant
orb: 1 °

Saturn Conjunction Ascendant
orb: 1 °

Mercury Sextile Mercury
orb: 1 °

MC Trine Lilith
orb: 1 °

Moon Square Lilith
orb: 1 °

Jupiter Square Chiron
orb: 1 °

Neptune Square Lilith
orb: 1 °

Jupiter Sextile MC
orb: 1 °

North Node Sextile North Node
orb: 1 °

True Node Sextile North Node
orb: 1 °

Mercury Trine Jupiter
orb: 2 °

Venus Trine Mercury
orb: 2 °

Jupiter Trine True Node
orb: 2 °

Venus Square Saturn
orb: 2 °

Mars Square Sun
orb: 2 °

Pluto Square Sun
orb: 2 °

North Node Trine MC
orb: 2 °

True Node Trine MC
orb: 2 °

Lilith Square Jupiter
orb: 2 °

Juno Square Jupiter
orb: 2 °

Sun Sextile Juno
orb: 2 °

Saturn Sextile Juno
orb: 2 °

True Node Trine Moon
orb: 3 °

Venus Opposition Jupiter
orb: 3 °

Sun Square True Node
orb: 3 °

Saturn Square True Node
orb: 3 °


Minor Aspects

Sun Quintile Mercury
orb: 0 °

Saturn Quintile Mercury
orb: 0 °

North Node Quintile Neptune
orb: 0 °

True Node Quintile Neptune
orb: 0 °

Chiron Quintile Saturn
orb: 0 °

Lilith Quintile Pluto
orb: 0 °

Sun Septile Sun
orb: 0 °

Saturn Septile Sun
orb: 0 °

Mercury Octile Juno
orb: 0 °

MC Octile Ascendant
orb: 0 °

Juno Octile Neptune
orb: 0 °

North Node Quincunx Chiron
orb: 0 °

True Node Quincunx Chiron
orb: 0 °

Chiron Quincunx Neptune
orb: 0 °

Ascendant Quincunx Lilith
orb: 0 °

Mars Sesquiquadrate MC
orb: 0 °

Pluto Sesquiquadrate MC
orb: 0 °

Lilith Sesquiquadrate Neptune
orb: 0 °

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Jamielynn
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From: Bay St.Louis, MS, USA
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posted March 13, 2023 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In the list of aspects I’m the first planet and he is the 2nd planet. The relationship is healthy, although I am afraid he has control issues and a few other issues, but he is overall a smart decent person , but I’m afraid I’m just a convienence for him, I don’t know what the future could be for us,

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Jamielynn
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posted March 14, 2023 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
https://app.photobucket.com/u/jmenesbitt/a/7e4539b0-180d-4c8d-85cf-5ea9f06cf54e

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Jamielynn
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posted March 14, 2023 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In the list of aspects I’m the first planet and he is the 2nd planet. The relationship is healthy, although I am afraid he has control issues and a few other issues, but he is overall a smart decent person , but I’m afraid I’m just a convienence for him, I don’t know what the future could be for us,

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StoneMoon
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posted March 14, 2023 10:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
try removing the s from the https.... I tried to follow the link and it took me to the general photo bucket site.

And we need to see the chart to help, reading the aspects is pretty challenging just from the list, though I appreciate you took the time to type them all out!

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anevolena
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posted March 14, 2023 12:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anevolena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you want some help, try posting pictures of the charts. That's much easier to analyze than a list of aspects.

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Jamielynn
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posted March 14, 2023 12:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Http://app.photobucket.com/u/jmenesbitt/a/7e4539b0-180d-4c8d-85cf-5ea9f06cf54e

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StoneMoon
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posted March 14, 2023 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it still doesn't take me to the chart. Take a photo of the chart, upload it to something like Imgur, then capture the link and post it here.

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Jamielynn
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posted March 14, 2023 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://imgur.com/a/MY5aoSj

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Jamielynn
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posted March 14, 2023 06:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://imgur.com/a/MY5aoSj

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Jamielynn
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posted March 14, 2023 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://imgur.com/a/MY5aoSj

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StoneMoon
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posted March 14, 2023 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I definitely see attraction- his sun squares your ASC, Venus, Mars, Pluto!!!!! -- that seems intense. And his Jupiter opposes this and square his own Sun. He's already a Sun square Pluto so he probably totally digs this square between his sun and your stellium. I will say though that your stellium probably makes you a very magnetic, attractive person to begin with and you may be used to this energy? You may be used to others pursuing you but it may not feel deep, it may you leave you feeling like others appreciate you for your beauty and sexuality?

Your Sun on his ASC feels very good to him, I am sure. That's very good compatibility right there, and his Mars trines your Sun.

You have attraction factors, you have communication factors, and you have longevity factors (albeit challenging ones).

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Jamielynn
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posted March 15, 2023 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks a lot for your help. I had not even thought about it like that. It was very insightful. I was looking mostly for some type of moon feeling he had for me, so I’m glad you pointed out the importance of his sun. It’s hard to perceive it as if I were him. I want to make him commit to me or create an unbreakable bond somehow. That’s why I was looking at moon/love. With the Libra stellium I have , all I notice is I feel like 90% of the time I have extremely Libra characteristics, overly trying to keep the peace and fairness and niceness and politeness, I care a lot about shopping and making everything beautiful, like no one else lol 😳 so I It definitely controls my chart. So you think his sun is very important in his chart?

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StoneMoon
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posted March 15, 2023 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mercury or Chiron is his chart ruler, depending on how you define Virgo rulership. And his Chiron widely opposes your stellium. With Venus as your chart ruler, and involved in the stellium, this is a good indicator. If Mercury, this trines your Venus and stellium... so either way your chart rulers connect.

He has a Taurus Mars and a Taurus Moon, I would say if he is in a relationship with you, the longer it goes the better it speaks of longevity simply bcs Taurus energy builds as it continues. The bond is formed slowly, but very strongly. He likes a Venusian ruled woman, which is you. But this woman will have a little bit of fire (you do- your lone fire sign Mercury), and someone who has a softness about her- Neptune inspired. This is also you with your 12th house placements and your own Neptune in sextile to your stellium.


Unbreakable bond? His Saturn squares your stellium. I just say be careful what you wish for there, but I get it- you're a Pluto conjunct Venus, Mars, ASC for god's sake! Your Saturn is on his ASC, that's pretty binding. But be careful with that one bcs it can become very nagging and nitpicky... esp in Virgo.

I understand you keep the peace and harmonize, but you are not your typical Libra thanks to that Pluto. I would guess you are quite lovely, and yes I would agree you love to surround yourself with beauty, art, music... but you are a Pluto person too- you need to know your partner will go to the ends of the earth for you- you idealize that romanticism.

His moon falls in your 8th, it probably drives you wild. You don't have anything in your 8th so this could feel extra intense, exactly how you like it.

Do you have a composite chart? And how long have you been together?

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Jamielynn
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posted March 15, 2023 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is the composite chart
http://imgur.com/a/BXbqfZv


I liked it, but I was unsure wether to consider it because we don’t live together. We only date on the weekend (mostly all weekend long). During the week, we talk daily on our phones, good morning, and throughout the day, during dinner and good night. We are very attentive all week long, and it would be nearly impossible for him to be dating anyone else, that’s the good news. He spends a lot of time and attention on me, but this has been going on for three years, I honestly don’t know what the future could be for us. He has never lived with another person! honestly I’m at an age where I’m afraid to miss people that I love, I have lost a husband a few people have died, lost a couple boyfriends, sort of empty nesting my college son, I don’t want to miss anyone else! I do love him , but yeah maybe he is just enjoying the relationship and the romantic part of it, maybe there is no future for us, which scares me

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Jamielynn
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posted March 15, 2023 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m really grateful for your help

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Jamielynn
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posted March 15, 2023 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He and I live and work about 40 minutes apart, which isn’t bad

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Jamielynn
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posted March 15, 2023 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamielynn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://i.imgur.com/iqVx7oI.jpg

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StoneMoon
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posted March 15, 2023 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think you are doing fine for three years- he's a Taurus Moon and Mars and they do not move fast. He's been there for three years, he's in. Taurus Mars take their time and do things when they are good and ready. But the Moon, that one holds on to things they love. And they can be very loyal. It probably hasn't occurred to him to live together, and to some degree they are slow to change things that they don't feel need to be changed.

I will look at the composite. But I don't think he's using you. I do think he has probably had a tendency to love women who weren't necessarily available to him (Venus in 12th), and as such he may have learned to live within those confines.

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StoneMoon
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posted March 15, 2023 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The composite looks good, I think!

Jupiter is the ruler, and it's conjunct the Moon and sextile the Sun, Mars, Saturn, Mercury stellium. Venus is conjunct the MC... And that stellium is in the 8th! Depth, sexual energy, good mental engagement and connection... and longevity. Pluto trine Moon and sextile the stellium. Neptune on the ASC could make it hard to pin down, but I think you have a lot of really nice things in the composite. I don't think it matters that you don't live together- you are very much a couple and the more time goes by the more that is solidified.

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posted April 01, 2023 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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