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posted November 08, 2020 12:39 PM            

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posted November 08, 2020 01:24 PM            

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I have this deja vue feeling looking at the birth details.Haven't you asked the same question before just phrased differently and people here desperately tried to convince you in a long thread that it wasnt one sided... http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/009954-2.html

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posted November 08, 2020 01:37 PM            

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posted November 08, 2020 01:57 PM            

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Hi andrea,

I also think this is the same guy....I took a quick glance and all of the aspects that others pointed out in your old topic, apply here as well...just want to say that it is okay to post a chart with the same person more than once and ask for more opinions...no need to feel self conscious about it and I agree with the others from before, I don't see it being one sided. Relationships are difficult as you know, and sometimes we can really like someone, but the timing may be off or we may not be ready etc etc..and it is up to you to decide whether you want to stick around until he possibly changes his mind or move on to someone who actually wants and is ready for a relationship with you. Best of luck

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posted November 08, 2020 02:02 PM            

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posted November 08, 2020 02:05 PM            

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I understand. I hope some of the more experienced members here will give you an answer that is helpful. Take care

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posted November 08, 2020 02:27 PM            

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OK I'm not very good at interpreting a synastry
But yours mars conjuct his neptune
And your venus opposite his pluto
Seems preety good for me
I think he surely likes you from that two aspects
And he might play some games to have you under his control
But other members who are more experienced will tell you better

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posted November 08, 2020 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by andrea22:
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Yes,it was different back then..
Few weeks back i asked him if he could see me as his potential girlfriend.. He said yes,if he lived closer and all was well,i think its just excuse.
We had many fights,but we are still stuck on eachother,but now its alot nicer between us,we talk fun and he is more opening up to me and want more contact until next meet.

He already said he had long distance relationships,so I don't believe anymore he is into me the way I'm into him.
It's definitely one sided,his mars is too unaspected by me, and my pathetic Mars is touching alot of his planets.. So i think he is in advantage

Can you please check his natal placement and see if i resemble the girl he prefer..
I don't know what to look for,so asked here..
So only that Im interested in,to see what type of women he prefer according to his natal.
Its definitely not me,and I need peace of mind to find out finally as this man is my weakness,and i Want to cut him off if his natal prefer other types of women

All i know is,he is definitely my type,but if Im not his,I want to move on

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You really, really, for the sake of your sanity, shouldnt zoom in on individual aspects of your synastry and obsess about them. Just because his natal mars isnt particularly aspect doesnt mean he isnt or is less into you than vice versa. My boyfriend during my college years was WAY more into me than I was into him and judging by some aspects in synastry that should not have been the case. He had Moon and Venus in aries, I didnt have a strong mars nor any planets in Aries. And his mars only received 2 meagre aspects from my planets. As Saggy said, it's no problem to revisit the same synastry chart, but it's just very difficult to motivate others to look at a synastry chart again and again, if you are so utterly convinced that he is not as into you. It's like - what do you want people to say if you don't seem willing to accept the positive readings?

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posted November 09, 2020 02:34 AM            

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posted November 10, 2020 07:22 AM            

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A lot people have given you input on your Synastry so no point you keep digging for more.

Now what’s clear is he says you’re his type but he doesn’t want a relationship with you, meaning no commitment on his part. A guy may like you but he may also see no future in you (e.g. distance) and doesn’t wish to pursue further. If you want the same thing, carry on. If you want commitment, move on. It’s honestly as simple as that.

The qn is what do you want?

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