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posted January 02, 2021 03:37 PM            

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Does anyone know how this can play out, and wether itīs a good or bad thing to have in synastry?

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posted January 02, 2021 03:52 PM            

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It depends.. I experienced this and it was not good.. I wanted commitement and he was super childish.. But it was saturn conjuct desc exact.. maybe if you.are activating his Saturn also it can work

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posted January 02, 2021 04:58 PM            

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It depends on how one defines "good" or "bad". Saturn usually indicates/symbolizes lessons, challenges, abrupt and out of the blue major changes. These are good for the Soul's growth, but us physically based personalities don't tend to like it all that much.

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posted January 02, 2021 05:11 PM            

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I personally wouldn't look at that as a problematic position, check the aspects! A trine or sextile (maybe conjunction) to his 7th house chart ruler would be lovely, also his sun, moon, venus and mars.

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posted January 07, 2021 06:44 AM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
I personally wouldn't look at that as a problematic position, check the aspects! A trine or sextile (maybe conjunction) to his 7th house chart ruler would be lovely, also his sun, moon, venus and mars.

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What about(saturn) squares to sun,moon,Venus of mars?

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posted January 07, 2021 07:56 PM            

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I had Saturn square Sun, Mercury and Mars with an ex. I felt like he was always judging me, it was heavy. He is an ex.

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posted January 08, 2021 09:32 AM            

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Originally posted by TrueScorpio:
I had Saturn square Sun, Mercury and Mars with an ex. I felt like he was always judging me, it was heavy. He is an ex.

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Were you saturn or the personal planet person? I assume the planet person becasue that would be the typical scenario

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posted January 08, 2021 09:44 AM            

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Originally posted by TrueScorpio:
I had Saturn square Sun, Mercury and Mars with an ex. I felt like he was always judging me, it was heavy. He is an ex.

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I’ve read that Sun square Saturn can indicate longevity in a relationship. But I think having Saturn square to Mercury and Mars as well was probably too much.

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posted January 08, 2021 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by honeyloveee:
Were you saturn or the personal planet person? I assume the planet person becasue that would be the typical scenario

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I think it really depends on whether you have saturn in your relationship profile. Then, you might actually like being the planet person. I'm strongly saturnian (3 planets in capricorn, saturn ruled 7th house and saturn in the 1st house) and I really don't mind being the planet person and receiving heavy saturn aspects. On the contrary, I have them in my closest friendships and greatest loves. One of my closest friends for instance has her saturn conjunct my sun, mercury and venus. A man I was deeply in love with had his saturn opposite my venus and mercury .

However, I do agree that if someone does not have saturn as part of their relationship profile, it's highly likely they will consider saturn oppressive, or just feel you are pushing for a relationship. I had my saturn for instance exactly conjunct a man's 7th house and although I was extremly attracted to him and felt a deep connection for a number of reasons I never considered a relationship....however, he read everything I did as a clear indication I was actively seeking a relationship with him (which I didnt). He also was extremely thin skinned and read criticism in so many of my comments which werent meant as criticism. My saturn was conjunct his mercury (mercury being a highly significant relationship planet for him). Saturn was in no way linked to his astro relationship profile.

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