posted March 20, 2021 03:07 PM            

His Moon/Saturn in your 4th, may give you occasional bursts of nostalgia. I don't think that is something you necessarily should force yourself to fight. Some nostalgia is okay and necessary in our life.

posted March 20, 2021 03:07 PM            

His Moon/Saturn in your 4th, may give you occasional bursts of nostalgia. I don't think that is something you necessarily should force yourself to fight. Some nostalgia is okay and necessary in our life.

posted March 24, 2021 05:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi,

Composite Jupiter in 12th house is square to the Moon/Pluto midpoint in the 3rd house, and Pluto in 3rd house conjunct IC... these are very binding aspects and likely why you can't find detachment. also, in synastry you have Pluto conjunct Moon and Pluto/IC square Mars, again very hard to let go... transiting Jupiter just travelled square through composite Pluto, but transiting Saturn is square to the Moon/Pluto midpoint, so detachment/letting go may be coming.

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wow, no wonder I can't forget him. wonder if he feels the same. sometimes he asks me to visit him at work but I always declined.

posted March 24, 2021 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
Just wanted to say I think that cardinal energy - Saturn, Venus, chiron, mercury and Neptune -
Is recognized by you most. It may be your chart us most sensitive to this. You innately know this person was a good *committed one for you*. It probably, after looking bk, feels he was the one?

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yes, it feels like he was the one. with those saturn transits

posted March 25, 2021 01:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi,

Composite Jupiter in 12th house is square to the Moon/Pluto midpoint in the 3rd house, and Pluto in 3rd house conjunct IC... these are very binding aspects and likely why you can't find detachment. also, in synastry you have Pluto conjunct Moon and Pluto/IC square Mars, again very hard to let go... transiting Jupiter just travelled square through composite Pluto, but transiting Saturn is square to the Moon/Pluto midpoint, so detachment/letting go may be coming.

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posted March 25, 2021 06:02 PM            

Add the fact you natally have a Scorpio moon... you hold onto things/people and don’t ever forget emotional experiences. Every moon in Scorpio I’ve ever known still has some type of feelings towards their ex’s (for good or bad). Scorpio moon struggles to let go. If you love, you love so deeply and intensely. You have an incredible emotional memory, doesn’t matter how much time passes, you’ll still be able to remember how you felt if the experience affected you, and of course being in love is a very intense/memorable experience.
This is all exacerbated with his Pluto conjunct and Jupiter opposite your moon (anything you felt around him is intensified/deeper (Pluto) and BIG/lots of it (jupiter) and creating an even stronger emotional imprint to your already intensely feeling. deep, passionate, incredible emotional memory Scorpio moon 🙃; Of COURSE you can’t forget! lol

Other things I see in the Synastry worth noting:
-Sun conjunct moon (great compatibly aspect, you have a lot in common and balance each other out, since it’s in Saggy you probably brought each other’s funny/goofy/adventurous side out a lot)
-His Neptune conjunct your Venus: VERY romantic aspect, you feel these otherworldly, soft, dreamy, idealistic affection towards him. You don’t see him or the relationship clearly at all, and you probably felt like he was your soulmate and felt an unconditional type love towards him (Neptune). This aspect in Synastry can easily make the Venus person gullible tho because they wear rose coloured glasses when it comes to Neptune, and be taken advantage of as well because Venus will be extra tolerant and forgiving and keep giving second, third etc. chances (Neptune).

The bad:
-Mercury opposite Saturn: he thought you criticized him and his ideas/opinions a lot and/or didn’t listen to him. This could have made him feel insecure or hold back sharing things with you and might have created some resentment. This aspect is terrible for communication. Lots of misunderstanding and frustration when it comes to understanding each other and communication. I’m assuming this was a big issue between you two? Communication? And one of the reasons or the main reason you two broke up is communication issues, Mercury is opp mercury by sign too.
I’m feeling verbal abuse maybe or just harsh words exchanged with your Chiron energy added to this aspect.. (Mercury conjunct Chiron), plus your moon in Scorpio and Mars in Gemini.
I’m curious too since Saturn is involved, if your arguments reminded you or triggered you regarding your father? Was your father verbally abusive or did this guy say things sometimes that your dad would say to you kinda thing? Or vice versa, maybe you caught yourself saying similar things to your father.

-his Chiron opposite your Sun and Venus: he could have caused you a lot of pain and/or triggered a lot of insecurity within you regarding your self-love, self-worth, your attractiveness and value and what you have to offer, or what need or deserve in a relationship etc. It can be healing in the end, since Chiron gives a lot of wisdom and healing and growth etc. but only AFTER the growing pains of it all.

posted March 26, 2021 05:56 AM            

wonder if he feels the same about me...

I've added the composite

posted April 05, 2021 09:18 AM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
I also have someone I can't forget, who appears in my dreams 7+ years later. Tons of 12th house overlays. FML

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