posted May 05, 2021 06:30 PM            

We are in the same work space that's where we met,

Feels like something deep even though it hasn't been a long time...but what do I know...

No idea how to read synastry, composite, davison, so please, any help is appreciated.

Please just call it as you see it, no sugarcoating needed, I love honesty.

He is a bit mysterious..so I am not able to figure out what he thinks about this long term yet..but he is a scorpio and they tend to keep their cards close to their chest so he just might be as into this as I feel and not sharing it...

Aaaargh, I am gonna drive myself crazy thinking and overthinking! HELPPPPPPPPP!

SYNASTRY

COMPOSITE

DAVISON

posted May 05, 2021 07:20 PM            

...he has Venus, Moon and Mercury in Scorpio, and that's why he's mysterious.

posted May 06, 2021 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Actually... he's a Libra :-)
well, his Saturn is trine your Venus, with your Venus/Jupiter midpoint conjunct his MC opposite his Juno, his Venus is sextile your Jupiter, his Jupiter/North Node trine your Moon... I don't think he dislikes the idea of a stable relationship with you :-)

...he has Venus, Moon and Mercury in Scorpio, and that's why he's mysterious.

In the Composite, there's clearly great attraction and a fated feeling with North Node trine to the Sun/Mars midpoint. The Moon/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct Neptune opposite Lilith so romance a deep feelings are flowing, the Mars/Venus midpoint is conjunct Uranus, this may be love at first sight, but it is square Juno, and Chiron is opposite Sun, and widely square Juno. This is a challenging aspect as on the long run it can give criticism and arguments, unless you have a strong intimate knowledge of each other, a deep soulmate feeling... it may also signal external factor challenging the relationship, difficult circumstances interferring. is the work environment challenging your intimate connection? With Uranus square Juno and Saturn and Pluto square the IC/MC axis, this may actually turn out as a short term affair, even though other elements such as saturn/moon midpoint conjunct venus would point to long term expectations.

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Thanks so much

Yeah, so, the thing is, he was in a long term relationship with this girl who also works in the same place and still continues to, though in a different department. They were together before I joined this place and had broken up and this all happened before I met him. But they are still friends. And obviously since we all work at the same place, we continue to bump into each other.

I do not want to come across as a jealous wacko, nor do I mistrust him. It is just that, I feel that his ex is still not over him. She comes across as a lovely person, and I have no complaint about her behavior but I just feel that she is not over him.

It might just be my insecurity talking, and I try and suppress this. This is the only thing bothering me. And I appreciate him talking about this on our very first date, and he completely cleared the air, and I totally trust him. But my gut keeps telling me that they had something stronger and that bond is still not broken

posted May 06, 2021 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
I think your feeling is completely understandable :-)

I am not sure she's the issue though, looking at the chart, it seems more about an inner dynamic between you two, with Neptune as midpoint bewteen Moon/Jupiter trust doesnt seem an issue at all. Uranus square Juno may make things develope fast actually, but it can also give an element of instability, where your committment might not be well established, same as Chiron square to Juno and opposite Sun, this aspect works only if there's a full deep intimacy and closeness at all level, otherwise can cause frictions... the main issue here I'd say is Pluto/Saturn square the axis, this is usually a red flag as the two people direction in life may be different and arise conflicts, usually not a long term aspect... as for the rest, it looks quite passionate and romantic.

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Phew, that's a relief!