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Annalou
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posted June 28, 2021 02:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Annalou     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello lovely people,

I got dumped for someone else by the guy I was seeing and was really craving to he with. I was kind of obsessed with him physically,because it was the best physical attraction I have ever had. Both sexual and intimate-hugging wise.
However, out of the blue he dumped me for another girl. He said he was only sometimes in love with me and sometimes not at all. After seeing them together I have been feeling really depressed.
We have venus opposite saturn in our composite chart. I think this may symbolize the unanswered feelings.

However, my best friend in high-school was madly in love with me for almost ten years and I was not in love with him. I had rejected him several times, however, we did get together in the end after almost a decade of chasing me. In the end in our relationship which lasted almost three years, the power dynamic reversed completely with he dumping me and never wanted to speak with me again. The minute I started to want commit to him completely, he started pulling back. So in he end, it was me wanting him and he not wanting me. We have been separated for three years and I still miss him severely and think and dream about him a lot.
So it seems that the love came requited, but then became unrequited again from the other side. Very frustrating timing. I still hope we will get back together someday. Maybe when we are forty or older...i cannot let go.

The new guy has been lot of heartbreak too.

However, does venus opposite saturn ever give a romance that goes both sides? Is venus opp saturn different in synastry then it is in composite? Can only saturn in easy aspects give a successful romance?

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Hikaru29
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posted June 29, 2021 07:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You gotta look at the whole chart instead of just one aspect. I’ve seen long-term relationships with Saturn harsh aspects. Saturn can block and control Venus’ love expression but it does not mean a complete block unless there are other aspects showing a loss of affection/attraction over time or too much differences.

Do you have this aspect in both relationships?

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ToughPrincessa1997
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posted June 29, 2021 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ToughPrincessa1997     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello, sorry to hear about your situation
I have this aspect in synastry and composite and also in progressed synastry with my bf of 1 year, i am venus in both.. yes it doess manifest like hikaru said saturn is cold and venus gives love.. in our case it did not Prevent a relationship it Just adding some strictness from.his side

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