posted June 28, 2021 02:08 PM
Hello lovely people,I got dumped for someone else by the guy I was seeing and was really craving to he with. I was kind of obsessed with him physically,because it was the best physical attraction I have ever had. Both sexual and intimate-hugging wise.
However, out of the blue he dumped me for another girl. He said he was only sometimes in love with me and sometimes not at all. After seeing them together I have been feeling really depressed.
We have venus opposite saturn in our composite chart. I think this may symbolize the unanswered feelings.
However, my best friend in high-school was madly in love with me for almost ten years and I was not in love with him. I had rejected him several times, however, we did get together in the end after almost a decade of chasing me. In the end in our relationship which lasted almost three years, the power dynamic reversed completely with he dumping me and never wanted to speak with me again. The minute I started to want commit to him completely, he started pulling back. So in he end, it was me wanting him and he not wanting me. We have been separated for three years and I still miss him severely and think and dream about him a lot.
So it seems that the love came requited, but then became unrequited again from the other side. Very frustrating timing. I still hope we will get back together someday. Maybe when we are forty or older...i cannot let go.
The new guy has been lot of heartbreak too.
However, does venus opposite saturn ever give a romance that goes both sides? Is venus opp saturn different in synastry then it is in composite? Can only saturn in easy aspects give a successful romance?