posted July 15, 2021 08:54 PM            

Mars (me) conjunct Saturn =>
they tell me I am wrong when I have an idea. My jokes aren't funny. They get agitated the most (two different person)

Moon (me) square Saturn =>
misunderstood me and think I mean one thing and "corrects" me when it isn't what I meant in the first place before trying to ask me what I mean

Sun (me) square Saturn (conjunct my Mars) =>
corrects my pronunciations, disagree with my way of think and idea, makes too many suggestions what I can better myself, or points out details that can be consider a flaw

Mercury (me) square Saturn =>
thinks I need speak his "level" but I do not see he speak anymore maturely

Venus (me) square Saturn =>
Doesn't correct me, just go silence if she disagree.

posted July 16, 2021 12:06 AM            

My Saturn forms only trines/sextiles to my inner planets so while I’m serious minded, I’m not overly critical of others. My criticisms are also mostly cushioned and I think strong Neptune/Venus in my natal play a big part.

My Saturn conjunct my guy’s Mars and square his Moon. I’ll tell him if I feel that he’s being reckless. With his Mars conj Jupiter square Pluto, he doesn’t like being told what to do. He’s always confident, for good and bad. So I don’t push him… I just tell him how I feel and let him make the decisions himself… he would often come around to see my PoV.

I think the part about jokes is not so much Mars because I find him to be adorably funny even when he’s not trying to be. I believe it should be Mercury and Moon aspects.

posted July 20, 2021 11:30 PM            

Sadly I don't have that with them (except sextile with one). I think it would make a whole a lot of differences. It's rare to come by for me.
My Saturn makes trine to my Sun and square Jupiter.

Some of them do have harsh aspects such as the conjunction to their Mars, Venus or Sun. I think it's notably apparent when they start correcting me. The one with Saturn/Mars have less patience or agitated vibe, while Venus is more soft-toned and the Sun just seem thrilled correcting me. But I can't help to feel less than.

The Mercury one doesn't have harsh placements, but he keeps telling me to grow up because I tried to tell him the name callings he said in the past had made me uncomfortable. Maybe it's some other additional factors. The Venus conjunct my ASC doesn't sooth the discomfort of the Saturn.

Can I ask you does Saturn aspects get easier overtime? The one I'm talking to has his Saturn square my Sun and conjunct my Mars. He's the one with the Saturn/Sun conjunction in his natal. It also conjunct Mercury, he freely vocalize and he seem to feel confident about it (Uranus conjunct there too). It catches him off-guard when he does lecture me, so it seems. And he said he thought he was doing it out of caring nature. IC cap for him. But his Venus is in Sag. I don't feel the Sag much honestly. Maybe when his work-load is lessen, it does come out to play. We have the Venus/Moon sextile, I low-key wished it was a conjunction.

posted July 22, 2021 02:11 PM            

I’ve a friend who has Saturn opposite Sun/Moon/Mercury. Her Sun is in Cap and Moon/Mercury in Sagittarius. Even with the jovial Sagittarius energy and she can be funny etc but she can come across strict, controlled and unbending as well.

I find Venus-Saturn individuals more soft, like you said, but very reserved in love. They’re those when you ask: “Do you love me?” they can’t seem to give an answer.

posted July 24, 2021 12:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Yes, Venus-Moon aspects feel very nice 🙂 even the trine and sextile. I’ve Venus trine Moon DW with my guy, I’m very close almost exact orbs. We’re sweet to each other and very caring. It helps a lot as we’ll argue one moment and be very sweet to each other again soon, like it’s hard to stay angry.

I’ve a friend who has Saturn opposite Sun/Moon/Mercury. Her Sun is in Cap and Moon/Mercury in Sagittarius. Even with the jovial Sagittarius energy and she can be funny etc but she can come across strict, controlled and unbending as well.

I find Venus-Saturn individuals more soft, like you said, but very reserved in love. They’re those when you ask: “Do you love me?” they can’t seem to give an answer.

Sun/Mercury-Saturn people are serious minded and a bit negative IME, and can be more critical and harsh. I’m not sure if it gets better overtime since I’m the Saturn person here 😬 but Saturn can reasoned with, I believe.

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^_^ Thank you sharing your input Hikaru.