posted September 06, 2021 06:03 PM            

I'm really looking for some help interpreting this synastry between myself and someone I have been dating.

I really can't tell if this is something I should hold on to or if I should let the situation go.

We have a very deep and spiritual connection, (telepathy, and can even move each other's energies).

This is the deepest feeling of intimacy I have ever had with someone so soon and it spans every area of our lives. We both have had many obvious spiritual situations that came up that we literally just coin the term "We can't make this **** up" So many signs and coincidences suggest that we were meant to meet and have a deep bond

Now with all this including great communication, common goals, and intellectual compatibility. It seems like this connection is stuck in a weird friendzone. She has repeatedly told me that she doesn't see a relationship, yet her mind and her body say otherwise every time. She also suggested that we not be physically intimate anymore because she felt she would "Get distracted and be engulfed in this" but then suggest that she can't keep her mind off of what we had... It is so confusing!

I know I'm sharing a lot but I hope someone could shed some light or even just give some advice.

Charts below

posted September 06, 2021 06:49 PM            

I don't know why, but looking at synastry charts tend to be draining psychically/energetically for me, so I tend to avoid them.

For now will just say, that when someone gives you such mixed messages, it is a big red flag. Often relates to fear of vulnerability and closeness. These types of connections can be emotional roller coasters of push-pull (these themes of fear of vulnerability/intimacy/closeness, emotional roller coasters, and push pull are often correlated with strong 8th House connections btw, which you have).

posted September 06, 2021 07:46 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Whose who?

I don't know why, but looking at synastry charts tends to be draining psychically/energetically for me, so I tend to avoid them.

For now will just say, that when someone gives you such mixed messages, it is a big red flag. Often relates to fear of vulnerability and closeness. These types of connections can be emotional roller coasters of push-pull (these themes of fear of vulnerability/intimacy/closeness, emotional roller coasters, and push-pull are often correlated with strong 8th House connections btw, which you have).

You need to be honest with yourself and ask yourself, do you want to be on an emotional roller coaster? Because I've been on them and its not fun.

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Hello!

I'm blue, I have reviewed that thought but I guess my issue is should I just remove myself or stick it out.

You also don't have to reply if the charts drain you, I wouldn't want that energy on this post as I'm seeking clarity. I appreciate you sharing your opinion about the chart tho. I thank you kindly!

posted September 06, 2021 09:43 PM            

8th house overlay might be the reasons for the fear. I just posted my own request for opinions because I’m dealing with a heavy 8th overlay with sun, moon, Venus, and merc. The 8th house is acting like a source of gravity in our situation that we’re fighting against.

That “engulfed” feeling can be scary, and perhaps the house person is feeling it stronger. Having only the Sun here might be uncomfortable for the 8th house person because it’s a perceived vulnerability. Not fun having the house of secrets lit up by the sun…

In my situation, the moon & Venus is in 8th as well with the sun. This softens the feeling of exposure by the sun because moon and Venus makes it feel like all the secrets will be unconditionally accepted.

posted September 08, 2021 08:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
First thing I noticed is the sun overlaying the 8th and the moon overlaying the 1st house.

8th house overlay might be the reasons for the fear. I just posted my own request for opinions because I’m dealing with a heavy 8th overlay with sun, moon, Venus, and merc. The 8th house is acting like a source of gravity in our situation that we’re fighting against.

That “engulfed” feeling can be scary, and perhaps the house person is feeling it stronger. Having only the Sun here might be uncomfortable for the 8th house person because it’s a perceived vulnerability. Not fun having the house of secrets lit up by the sun…

In my situation, the moon & Venus is in 8th as well with the sun. This softens the feeling of exposure by the sun because moon and Venus makes it feel like all the secrets will be unconditionally accepted.

How do you feel as the Sun overlaying their 8th house?

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Hey Koho!

Yea, I read a bit into this on some other sites.

What I have noticed is that my sun in her 8th is actually making her aware of her spiritual side, and her psychic gifts.

We have had some pretty jaw-dropping telepathy, and Psychokinesis(Moving energy through each other and influencing body movements)

We also share really deep intimate secrets, ones that we have never shared with anyone else. She has said that she feels completely comfortable sharing this with me and I also have.

posted September 10, 2021 10:18 PM            

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Originally posted by IV4Four:
Hey Koho!

Yea, I read a bit into this on some other sites.

What I have noticed is that my sun in her 8th is actually making her aware of her spiritual side, and her psychic gifts.

We have had some pretty jaw-dropping telepathy, and Psychokinesis(Moving energy through each other and influencing body movements)

We also share really deep intimate secrets, ones that we have never shared with anyone else. She has said that she feels completely comfortable sharing this with me and I also have.

I can agree that your moon-venus-sun 8th would probably feel a little bit easier to manage. esp if you are giving to your partner or sharing things in some way. It seems very unconditional. Whereas i feel the sun in someone 8th is really spotlighting that scorpionic transformation they might need.

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posted September 12, 2021 07:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
Looking again, I noticed both our cases have Mercury in the 8th as well. Pretty important because I think without the Mercury there along with the Sun in your case, or the Sun, Moon, Venus in mine no progress would be made without open discussion.

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A lot of the feelings with in our relationship we have been able to have open discussion about. We’ve shared a lot about how we felt about each other and what we thought was great about the connection.