posted September 26, 2021 05:17 PM            

The synastry with his girlfriend

posted September 27, 2021 02:33 AM            

I had the DW with a guy in synastry and the attraction was very very very strong, but unfulfilling.

posted September 27, 2021 09:05 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
that's because this aspect is about lust, not love. The opposition shows respect and learning from each other.

I had the DW with a guy in synastry and the attraction was very very very strong, but unfulfilling.

She said this because Scorpio Mars needs a lot of sex. I said this to my bf. We have the opposition to my Venus.

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posted September 28, 2021 05:23 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:

She said this because Scorpio Mars needs a lot of sex. I said this to my bf. We have the opposition to my Venus.

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posted September 28, 2021 07:53 AM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
Call me curious but how much is a lot?

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posted September 28, 2021 08:54 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
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at least 3 times a day... I said this to him often. We didn't do it that often because it was too much for me. And we were making love to one another, but still ... It was too much, but only with a Scorpio Mars I can make love to... it fits my being so well, and he said the same about me.

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posted September 28, 2021 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Three times a day isn't much. I think if a woman tells a guy he wants too much sex it's a sign of sexual incompatibility. I have Venus in the 8th house and I won't lie I do love sex. And once I had a guy tell me I use my sexuality as a way to communicate. I wish to have a guy that doesn't judge me because of my sexual nature.

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Three times a day for 1 hour each time is a lot considering that people don't just have sex all day long.

He isn't judged. I didn't judge my bf. We were actually laughing about this. In the end, the fun comes from opposite energies, not same energies. I only feel good with scorpio mars, those with Taurus Mars didn't satisfy me.

A Scorpio Mars will always say that he doesn't feel satisfied. They will try different takes on sexuality. My bf told me after 10 years that I was the only one with who he felt good making love and I'm sure he did it with a lot a girls.

Don't take his words on this that he doesn't feel satisfied. Even if I said that to my bf, don't think that we didn't have an active sexual life and we didn't have tons of moments. We even jokingly counted the times we did it in the first year and there were more than 2 x days in a year.

posted September 28, 2021 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Three times a day for 1 hour each time is a lot considering that people don't just have sex all day long.

He isn't judged. I didn't judge my bf. We were actually laughing about this. In the end, the fun comes from opposite energies, not same energies. I only feel good with scorpio mars, those with Taurus Mars didn't satisfy me.

A Scorpio Mars will always say that he doesn't feel satisfied. They will try different takes on sexuality. My bf told me after 10 years that I was the only one with who he felt good making love and I'm sure he did it with a lot a girls.

Don't take his words on this that he doesn't feel satisfied. Even if I said that to my bf, don't think that we didn't have an active sexual life and we didn't have tons of moments. We even jokingly counted the times we did it in the first year and there were more than 2 x days in a year.

But we had the opposition. That opposition I think it's the best between Venus and Mars.

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posted September 28, 2021 08:10 PM            

I have a few questions you comment earlier about the synastry above, how come Saturn blocks intimacy in the 8th? It looks like it's there with no aspects (unless we count inconjunction). Is it still active?

And Mars square to her 8th house moon, how come that puts more sex restriction? Isn't moon/mars a sexual combination? And how come it didn't balance out that Saturn 8th overlay?

If his Saturn was his 8th or 5th house ruler (Let's pretend it is), would it change anything?

posted September 28, 2021 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
[b]mee_chryssa, Ooo lala, that's equivalent to a person's daily course meal (in the US)
With the right chemistry and right person, we all can go beyond. haha

I have a few questions you comment earlier about the synastry above, how come Saturn blocks intimacy in the 8th? It looks like it's there with no aspects (unless we count inconjunction). Is it still active?

And Mars square to her 8th house moon, how come that puts more sex restriction? Isn't moon/mars a sexual combination? And how come it didn't balance out that Saturn 8th overlay?

If his Saturn was his 8th or 5th house ruler (Let's pretend it is), would it change anything?

Does this mean the guy is making her feel sexually restricted if it is his Saturn in the making? Wouldn't that be projecting on to her?[/B]

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posted September 29, 2021 02:43 AM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
[b]mee_chryssa, Ooo lala, that's equivalent to a person's daily course meal (in the US)
With the right chemistry and right person, we all can go beyond. haha

I have a few questions you comment earlier about the synastry above, how come Saturn blocks intimacy in the 8th? It looks like it's there with no aspects (unless we count inconjunction). Is it still active?

And Mars square to her 8th house moon, how come that puts more sex restriction? Isn't moon/mars a sexual combination? And how come it didn't balance out that Saturn 8th overlay?

If his Saturn was his 8th or 5th house ruler (Let's pretend it is), would it change anything?

Does this mean the guy is making her feel sexually restricted if it is his Saturn in the making? Wouldn't that be projecting on to her?[/B]

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The guy will have specific ways in which they should have intimacy. Saturn is also widely conjunct her Moon. He feels attached to her. Probably that's why he said those things. But with Saturn I've noticed in my relationships, even if there are blockages, the people involved share feelings about the other person, even if it's Saturn or the planet person. Maybe i'm wrong about this, but when I was the Moon in a Saturn square Moon, I had a need to express my feelings very mature and with deep caring, I actually was very amazed of how I thought about expressing those feelings, but didn't get to express them. My Moon is opposite Pluto so emotional intimacy is hard for me.
And I have a friend with which I have Venus square Saturn DW in synastry and we can't express ourselves even if at some point I wanted to be with him, and he said that feels the same, that there are some blockages. He slept at my place many times and we didn't even touch each other. But we are still in each others lives.

With the conjunction with a friend of mine, I take care of her. We both used to have anxiety and depression and I give her advices of how to overcome them, because in a way I am better than I used to be.

posted September 29, 2021 05:36 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
The guy will have specific ways in which they should have intimacy. Saturn is also widely conjunct her Moon. He feels attached to her. Probably that's why he said those things. But with Saturn I've noticed in my relationships, even if there are blockages, the people involved share feelings about the other person, even if it's Saturn or the planet person. Maybe i'm wrong about this, but when I was the Moon in a Saturn square Moon, I had a need to express my feelings very mature and with deep caring, I actually was very amazed of how I thought about expressing those feelings, but didn't get to express them. My Moon is opposite Pluto so emotional intimacy is hard for me.
And I have a friend with which I have Venus square Saturn DW in synastry and we can't express ourselves even if at some point I wanted to be with him, and he said that feels the same, that there are some blockages. He slept at my place many times and we didn't even touch each other. But we are still in each others lives.

With the conjunction with a friend of mine, I take care of her. We both used to have anxiety and depression and I give her advices of how to overcome them, because in a way I am better than I used to be.

Saturn always has a specific way in which something should happen.

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