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posted June 24, 2023 06:55 PM            

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Hey,

So I have this chemistry with this guy, I can't help it, he attracts me a lot...but I'm worried about other aspects and me getting hurt in the end, like there being no stable love in the relationship...any thoughts before I even go ahead pursuing anything??...He makes me really nervous as in self conscious in how I act, what I say and stuff, not sure if that is a bad thing really

http://imgur.com/gallery/dvJZedX

Composite: http://tinypic.host/image/Screenshot-20230624-230827-Chrome.z8Ph

Synastry: http://tinypic.host/image/Screenshot-20230624-230705-Chrome.z9I6

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posted June 25, 2023 07:30 AM            

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Anyone??

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posted June 25, 2023 08:30 AM            

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Can't read the charts

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posted June 25, 2023 08:36 AM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Can't read the charts

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Do you know how to make it into an image? I'm using tinypics

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posted June 25, 2023 08:39 AM            

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I will try to fix it

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posted June 25, 2023 09:30 AM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Can't read the charts

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I just sent put up an imagur link above the composite and synastry. Can you see it now?

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posted June 25, 2023 05:09 PM            

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Anyone?

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posted June 26, 2023 04:44 PM            

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The first thing I saw was his Pluto square your Sun. I would say caution. As an 8th houser myself (I see your stellium there!), I love Pluto contacts and get sucked in quite fast. But. It has always blown up.

These relationships serve to bring change to our world, but man do they hurt. Your Suns are square, your Moons aren't talking... There are nice sextiles from Venus/Sun and Mercury to Mercury. Mars are different too... I would just say caution.

I don't want to scare you off, because every person who enters our lives has a potential valuable lesson to offer us. It's up to us whether we want to take it or not. And, again, as a fellow 8th houser, I always seem to take the lesson. I think those types of things are part of our calling sometimes...

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posted June 26, 2023 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
The first thing I saw was his Pluto square your Sun. I would say caution. As an 8th houser myself (I see your stellium there!), I love Pluto contacts and get sucked in quite fast. But. It has always blown up.

These relationships serve to bring change to our world, but man do they hurt. Your Suns are square, your Moons aren't talking... There are nice sextiles from Venus/Sun and Mercury to Mercury. Mars are different too... I would just say caution.

I don't want to scare you off, because every person who enters our lives has a potential valuable lesson to offer us. It's up to us whether we want to take it or not. And, again, as a fellow 8th houser, I always seem to take the lesson. I think those types of things are part of our calling sometimes...

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Hey StoneMoon, thank you!
Omg you're right, I got sucked into it really fast and made me so uncomfortable and yesterday things blew up, I've never met such a cold person, it was like a push and pull sensation round him and it boggled my mind! Attractive but that's bout it!

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posted June 27, 2023 05:02 PM            

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Well that was fast- and that's a blessing for you. I am sorry he went cold on you, that never feels good. Mine tend to go on for a long time and then blow up. Sometimes I am the Pluto and sometimes it's them. Either way, it doesn't end well.

Maybe this resonates with you, but I find that without Pluto contacts I am usually bored or not inclined to seek a deeper connection. But with Pluto contacts, they are explosive and painful. I've had trines, conjunctions, squares, and oppositions. I would love to know how we find contentment in connections that don't require upheaval and explosion. If you know the secret, let me know! Lol!

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posted June 27, 2023 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
Well that was fast- and that's a blessing for you. I am sorry he went cold on you, that never feels good. Mine tend to go on for a long time and then blow up. Sometimes I am the Pluto and sometimes it's them. Either way, it doesn't end well.

Maybe this resonates with you, but I find that without Pluto contacts I am usually bored or not inclined to seek a deeper connection. But with Pluto contacts, they are explosive and painful. I've had trines, conjunctions, squares, and oppositions. I would love to know how we find contentment in connections that don't require upheaval and explosion. If you know the secret, let me know! Lol!

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Well the dude started shouting at me down the phone because I was expecting him to tell me what he thinks about a message I sent him bout making me feel nervous cuz he was psychoanalysing me and wasn't showing as much emotion as me....I de-escalated the situation but can't have someone disrespect me like that and be mean! It felt like a very psychologist/patient and really intense connection, my nerves were shattered round him. I have mars conjunct mercury in Capricorn I believe I can be really direct and don't tolerate **** .
Actually since my Scorpio is on my descendant I find them absolutely beautiful, really intense attraction (doesn't help that my pluto is in my 7th house and makes a trine with my moon and sextiles my sun.. emotional intensity is irresistible!
My ex of 10 years (if you remember that chart you read for me) had a Scorpio ascendant and when I saw him for the first time it was like love at first sight. His Pluto conjunct my descendant and mine his ascendant so both Pluto's were conjunct too and many good aspects with sextile to sun and trine moon. (I have Taurus Asc so a man with the opposite ASC is devine). Got possessive of him as our synastry has my pluto square his Venus, I wanted to consume him almost, never felt so intensely for another human being.
What broke us up is the moons though but I think the composite Venus square Uranus put the nail in the coffin and Uranus in 12th house composite. I've noticed that if I have Uranus in 12th house with someone I usually leave the relationship unexpectedly.
I think Pluto connections can be really good with the right person, and preferably with more positive aspects to it than negative. If you see Venus square Uranus run, if you want a family that is and marriage.

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