ana_bee
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posted October 03, 2023 01:26 PM
  
I was in a relationship with this man back in 2019-mid 2021, on and off. We recently started seeing each other again.
I’d like to know if this is real or not. What does he really feel for me? He is emotionally unavailable just like he used to. It’s a recurring issue with him. According to him I’ve been the only woman who could reach him, but even with me, it wasn’t enough apparently. He couldn’t connect emotionally, according to him. We now reconnected sexually, just bc this has been one area that we’re good at together, at least in the beginning. Is there anything I could do, to make him emotionally connect with me after all, or is this meant to be some karmic lesson?
I am physically his type. He likes my personality. We do have similar interests .. but something back then always seemed to be off in a very frustrating way… almost like: it could be so easy.. why is everything always so complicated-type of way. One moment he’s in love.. the next moment he‘s distant, saying he can’t connect.
I look at the synastry and am genuinely confused. His moon is in my H4 conj my Sun in Pisces, my H8 moon and vertex conj his Venus, my Venus conj his Dsc .. we have Comp Sun conj Venus (birth times are correct) it doesn’t make sense to me, why we can‘t relax with each other and just enjoy life and take it slow. There’s always interruptions in our communication. He can come on to me.. but when I reciprocate, he’s distancing himself again. It goes so far that I can literally observe this pattern in something as benign as his use of emojis. He sends me a heart, once I send a heart back, he won’t text me for two days.. and our communication stalls again. I have to be distant and aloof for him to be affectionate. As soon as I’m being affectionate he’s gone again. I’m a sensitive person and willing to help my partner in a non-judgmental way. I’m willing to learn and work on myself.. so if you see something I could do better to help him, pls let me know.. if there’s any chance at all, or if we’re maybe just incompatible and I have to accept it.
Thank you My chart is on the inside reel, his is outside. Let me know if it’s more convenient if it was the other way around for a proper reading. 
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posted October 04, 2023 03:17 PM