posted November 27, 2023 09:13 PM
Yes, after 32 years, and in this year of intense and overwhelming growth.I've met this lovely woman just over a month ago through tinder, we instantly clicked through our love of music and spirituality, and as soon as we first met, there was an instant connection, and she ended up sleeping in my place, a few weeks ago, don't know if it was on purpose or just by circunstance, I've invited her to my birthday party and she was the first girl that met my friends ever, and she gave me a lovely present, and she ended up sleeping at my place again, we clicked even more.
And last week we have our first date at an art gallery, and we shared more personal information, and she slept again at my place, this time, by sheer force of the aftermath of a night full of sex, we shared our feelings and told her to be my girlfriend, she said yes.
We talk almost every day, and share a lot of our daily stuff.
For what my life has been, even with what happened this year(open relationships and stuff), this is so different, as I did this very fast, and very spontaneously, feels weird, but correct. As like we do feel like it's worth it. The most difficult thing in my life, became so easy with this woman, so, even if we're just barely started to date, I feel it's worth it, even if I'm having second thoughts, and I have issues unresolved.
For now I just need to enjoy this lovely present, and take care of my girl, because that's what she said to me - Take care of me, I'll take care of you. Simple but powerful words.