posted January 31, 2024 11:42 AM            

i approached him many times always asking to spend time and he was always very nice snd open- eventually we decided we would spend time together every monday.

sometimes this would happen online- and the other day we were video calling when he told me he could sit there and look at me all night- it was the first time i got any indication he might like me too.

our synastry worries me though- there are virtually no aspects and the aspects that do exist are weak and negative.

does anybody see anything that could’ve caused my quick attraction?

here’s our synastry chart, i’m the inner circle!

posted February 01, 2024 11:22 AM            

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Originally posted by itisokay:
Node axis close enough your mc ıc axis and
Your south node conjunct his moon chiron are causing the warmth maybe

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posted February 01, 2024 11:37 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:
Can you post the composite too?

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posted February 01, 2024 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:
Hello! Well, now this is interesting…! I’m thinking it’s because of your angles! Look at them - they aren’t in tight conjunction but they are all very close. Also, your vertex’ ARE conjunct. I’m quite new here and to astrology in general but I have a very tight conjunction with my boyfriend. It’s tighter than your angles and we’ve got quite a lot going on in synastry BUT I’ve been researching as to why the angels are so close together. It seems to indicate a karmic connection. Also angels and vertex conjunct in synastry are very binding apparently. They act differently from planets which are more magnetic or electric. Instead they tend to “suck in” the energy.
So there may be a binding feeling between you without an understanding of why… Does that resonate?
Have you known him for a while?

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posted February 01, 2024 11:40 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
Your jupiter in his 4h. I think there's a quick comfort about your energy exchange. He might feel happy with you around him too.
You may feel a belonging in his presence.

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posted February 02, 2024 08:26 AM            

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Originally posted by enypen:
this is our composite!
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It didn’t work ;-) Try taking out all the spaces and the s after the http

From my understanding the composite is the best place to look at for longevity

This is the astrologer that I got the angle conjunction info from (I emailed) but some info here https://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html

This is what I found re vertex conjunction https://galacticmystic.com/blogs/news/synastry-aspects-for-soulmates-vertex-conjunct-vertex-vertex-conjunct-antivertex

I’ve often read that feeling very comfortable around someone quite early on is the sign of a karmic relationship and the purpose of the comfort is to bring you together quickly to learn the lessons necessary, which is a bit of a depressing thought.

With mine I feel that he is family. So not just comfortable but almost like we’ve been family in the past. There is a feeling of unconditional love. This may be the angle conjunction as well as our Venus moon conjunct.

Otherwise I’m not knowledgeable enough to offer any other advice. Though, I notice, that quite often we know right from the beginning what the purpose of the connection is. Although we don’t always know it’ll work out, our intuition regarding purpose is rarely wrong if we listen.

Before I looked at my boyfriend’s chart I knew he would help me to move towards my soul’s purpose. Then discovered that his north node is in Leo and his moon loosely conjunct’s it. Quite often ppl don’t consider a loose conjunction of the nodes strong enough to make an impact but I can REALLY feel it and it’s had a massive impact with a few months. So, I dunno!

posted February 02, 2024 09:09 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:
It didn’t work ;-) Try taking out all the spaces and the s after the http

From my understanding the composite is the best place to look at for longevity

This is the astrologer that I got the angle conjunction info from (I emailed) but some info here https://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html

This is what I found re vertex conjunction https://galacticmystic.com/blogs/news/synastry-aspects-for-soulmates-vertex-conjunct-vertex-vertex-conjunct-antivertex

I’ve often read that feeling very comfortable around someone quite early on is the sign of a karmic relationship and the purpose of the comfort is to bring you together quickly to learn the lessons necessary, which is a bit of a depressing thought.

With mine I feel that he is family. So not just comfortable but almost like we’ve been family in the past. There is a feeling of unconditional love. This may be the angle conjunction as well as our Venus moon conjunct.

Otherwise I’m not knowledgeable enough to offer any other advice. Though, I notice, that quite often we know right from the beginning what the purpose of the connection is. Although we don’t always know it’ll work out, our intuition regarding purpose is rarely wrong if we listen.

Before I looked at my boyfriend’s chart I knew he would help me to move towards my soul’s purpose. Then discovered that his north node is in Leo and his moon loosely conjunct’s it. Quite often ppl don’t consider a loose conjunction of the nodes strong enough to make an impact but I can REALLY feel it and it’s had a massive impact with a few months. So, I dunno!

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oh noo sorry! i was tired and didn’t look properly, thank you so much for all your words!!! i love hearing other people’s experiences for reference which is also why lindaland is so good :] thank you!!!

i do honestly also think it is a karmic relationship (not sure if that’s good yet hahaha) and like i’m gonna fall pretty hard for him… it’s a bit scary haha

you guys have amazing aspects tho stuff like venus conjunct moon i can definitely see that making sense with those feelings!!

oh and here it is again i hope it works