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Topic: If you have a lot of natal Uranus aspects, are you better suited for Geminis?
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InTheStars
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posted March 06, 2024 05:33 PM
  
Okay, here's the deal. I'm a very fixed gal. Taurus Sun, Mercury, Venus. Scorpio moon. I love commitment and depth. But, hear me out. All those Taurus placements are square Uranus. They're my tightest aspects. I like commitment, but not drudgery. Do you think I could make it worth with a Gemini dude...especially if Gemini dude has Taurus Mars and Cancer Venus that supplies some of my fixed needs, too? IP: Logged |
AquaMoon323
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posted March 06, 2024 09:09 PM
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Originally posted by InTheStars:
Okay, here's the deal. I'm a very fixed gal. Taurus Sun, Mercury, Venus. Scorpio moon. I love commitment and depth. But, hear me out. All those Taurus placements are square Uranus. They're my tightest aspects. I like commitment, but not drudgery. Do you think I could make it worth with a Gemini dude...especially if Gemini dude has Taurus Mars and Cancer Venus that supplies some of my fixed needs, too?
I think more than the sun maybe look at an air or fire Venus. I am a Taurus sun Aqua moon so I have fixed energy as well but my Aries Venus squares my Uranus and I definitely feel that in my energy. I have an always had the best connections with people that have a lot of fire or water. Both can be passionate in different ways. I don’t tend to like air signs even Venus because they are a bit too detached and calm for me. Fire tends to bring that heat and water brings that romance deep love but can be a bit sensitive at times. I think maybe a Pisces sun with Aries Venus could be a good fit for you. My first love had that and he’s still me greatest love to this day! Or cancer sun with Leo Venus but I think being a Taurus someone with water and fire could be a good mix for that. I tend to have the best relationships with people that have strong water and fire mix. That mix gives them a bit of contradictory edge that could keep you interested but still stable enough to grow with.
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InTheStars
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posted March 06, 2024 09:15 PM
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I think more than the sun maybe look at an air or fire Venus. I am a Taurus sun Aqua moon so I have fixed energy as well but my Aries Venus squares my Uranus and I definitely feel that in my energy. I have an always had the best connections with people that have a lot of fire or water. Both can be passionate in different ways. I don’t tend to like air signs even Venus because they are a bit too detached and calm for me. Fire tends to bring that heat and water brings that romance deep love but can be a bit sensitive at times. I think maybe a Pisces sun with Aries Venus could be a good fit for you. My first love had that and he’s still me greatest love to this day! Or cancer sun with Leo Venus but I think being a Taurus someone with water and fire could be a good mix for that. I tend to have the best relationships with people that have strong water and fire mix
Funny. The Pisces Sun, Aries Venus placements you recommended are my dad's. I want something different than my dad, at least for variety's sake. LOL. So, I'm keeping in mind what you said about the fire+water combo, but I admit, I came here with one singular Gemini in mind who has my fancy right now. I know, I know...I actually have to get to know the dude, but let a girl dream for right now. Do you think his placements (Gemini Sun, Cancer Venus, Taurus Mars) mixes well with mine? The only thing is I don't know if he's a Cap Moon or Sag Moon.... IP: Logged |
antiphon
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posted March 07, 2024 12:55 AM
There’s one answer for everyone: sun conj moon; moon conj moon; asc or dsc conj sun, moon or asc. Arguably Sun or moon making a hard aspect to the sun/moon midpoint.These are pretty much the ultimate aspects to have. I don’t know why you would settle for less if you didn’t have to. IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted March 07, 2024 09:35 AM
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The only thing is I don't know if he's a Cap Moon or Sag Moon....
I was thinking where is his Moon that says a lot about someone. If this guy seems more serious and puts a lot of attention into work related matters i would say it`s in Capricorn if howerever he seems more jokey and "jolly" i would say it`s in Sag. But the Uranus aspects won`t do much if his Uranus is not aspecting his Moon, Venus or if he`s not having Uranus/Aqua in the 5th or 7th houses or Venus or Moon in the 11th house. These are the placements that shows what kind of women we are drawn too and if this is the Gender you are attracted to these placements will definitivly show what kind of women are your "types" so with his Venus in Cancer this guy might be drawn to and attract or be attracted to women who might be more on the moodier side, sensitive and caring but any major aspect to his Venus might modify his "type" like say this guy also has his Uranus in a hard aspect to his Venus he will still be drawn to "Cancerian" traits in women but the women might also be of the unpredictable kind and turn hot and cold on him and this will also modify how he is with his relationships like he might not be as clingy as this Venus sign might suggest or he might be hot and cold himself. If say he has his Moon in Sag too he might be drawn to women who might like to travel or teacher types or Moon in Capricorn women who takes care of business and work a lot too. With Venus or Moon in the 11th he might fall in love with a friend or fall in love with someone who he met through a friend group and putting a lot of importance in having to have a friendship with their mate or they will end up as friends with their previous partners these placements might also resemble Venus-Uranus and Moon-Uranus too that they might deal with hot and cold types or wanting some freedom and space in their relationships. With Uranus/Aqua in the 5th they like to have fun with Uranian/Aqua types these people bring them joy and they might have a lot of common interests when it comes to fun times or how the Uranian/Aqua person "is" reminds the 5th house person of the things the 5th house person finds pleasure in and again they might like some space in their romantic relationships or they might get involved romantically with people who lives further away from them. With the 7th house if Uranus is in opposition specifically to their Rising these people might find themselves often drawn to or having to deal with Uranian/Aquarian types or they might end up Marrying someone with this influence or they might have an unusual Marriage or their Marriage partner is unusual in some way or they might end up Marrying someone whom they where friends with first. Also if his Moon or Venus ends up in one of his relationship houses the 8th, 5th or 7th houses then he`ll be even more into women who are influenced by the Sign of his Moon or Venus signs. So if you want to know what this guy handles and likes when it comes to his relationships and the sort of women he might be attracted to look at these placements in his chart that will say a lot about how he`ll be with his relationships and the types he wants to be romantically involved with. IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted March 07, 2024 02:46 PM
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Originally posted by antiphon:
There’s one answer for everyone: sun conj moon; moon conj moon; asc or dsc conj sun, moon or asc. Arguably Sun or moon making a hard aspect to the sun/moon midpoint.These are pretty much the ultimate aspects to have. I don’t know why you would settle for less if you didn’t have to.
It really depends which houses these conjunctions ends up in someone`s chart. Those conjunctions will not be as romantically driven if they end up in lets say the 3rd house or the 10th house if this is the case you might have these aspects with one of your longest friendships or a colleague or boss with whom you became really close friends with but not so much with people you have been romantically involved with these aspects might even be a bit lukewarm in these houses too or lose the "romantic" side of these aspects but the closeness might still be there but more in a Platonic sense but if you got them combined with more emotionally and romantically driven houses then it might change things a bit. This is why some people might think Moon conj Sun is just meh and didn`t really do much for them while others thought it was the greatest aspect they`ve ever experienced with someone. Also if you got conjunctions with someone in houses that are "weak" in your chart like you have nothing in those houses or any influence from the sign or planet that house belongs to that conjunction might not do much for you because the matters of that house might not be of much interest to you so if you have nothing in the 7th house and nothing in Libra or no major aspects to Venus from your Sun, Moon or Rising or having Venus in your 1st house then conjunctions in the 7th house might not be of much interest to you or it might not produce very strong feelings in you. IP: Logged |
antiphon
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posted March 07, 2024 11:24 PM
idk I’ve seen probably hundreds of examples of people saying stuff like “I can’t get this guy out of my head” and 9 times out of 10 there’s one of those aspects. So I feel that it’s actually very simple.I think people get confused about what they need when they analyze and intellectualize their attraction. It’s much better to rely on gut instinct. I knew this girl with a Capricorn descendant who insisted on only dating men who drove expensive cars. When she dreamed of her ideal guy, she imagined a Capricorn with a nice car, but she got confused thinking it was about the car. Needless to say, she kept dating the wrong guys because as it turns out, this is a very bad way of finding a Capricorn. She figured it out in the end and now she is married to a Cap rising who is not wealthy. IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted March 08, 2024 03:49 AM
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idk I’ve seen probably hundreds of examples of people saying stuff like “I can’t get this guy out of my head” and 9 times out of 10 there’s one of those aspects. So I feel that it’s actually very simple.
And it was probably more that happened in their synastries other than those aspects. Like i`ve experienced the Moon conjunction Moon aspect and i have the Moon conjunction Sun with a friend. The Sun conjunct Moon aspect is experienced in a more platonic way for both of us because it`s in my 3rd house while it`s in her 10th house but we are not "into" this aspect in a romantic sense and i actually friendzoned a guy who had his Moon conjunct my Sun. With Moon conjunction Moon i experienced this aspect in a much deeper way then the guy did because it was in my 12th and his 11th so he experienced it in a more lighthearted way and even when he thought i was attractive and wanted to talk to me he just seemed to not be able to devolop a more serious deep interest in me. House overlays have much to say and has a huge impact on how aspects will be experienced between two people in my experience. Like i have very rarely been attracted to someone who ends up in my 8th house because it`s a weak house in my chart but i can like Pluto aspects in synastry probably because i have some Pluto aspects myself so i like the "themes" of that house i just don`t want to "be" inside the house. But i`m very often attracted when it comes to the other two Water houses because both those houses are strong in my chart. IP: Logged |
antiphon
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posted March 08, 2024 07:40 PM
I mean yeah if you are straight you aren’t going to develop romantic feelings for someone of the same sex regardless of what the synastry is. You are also probably not going to fall in love with a baby or a 90 year old or a dog or someone who comes from a completely different culture and you don’t even speak the same language. Or if either of you are already in love with someone else, or find each other completely physically unattractive. Even very powerful synastry aspects aren’t a magic potion. It’s not a guarantee that you will develop feelings - it just tells you if you do develop feelings, how will it feel.And even if you do both develop powerful feelings, it doesn’t mean you’ll end up together. A lot of people are cowards, especially men. They will walk away from a possible relationship not because they don’t have deep feelings, but because they do and it scares them. IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted March 08, 2024 08:48 PM
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I mean yeah if you are straight you aren’t going to develop romantic feelings for someone of the same sex regardless of what the synastry is. You are also probably not going to fall in love with a baby or a 90 year old or a dog or someone who comes from a completely different culture and you don’t even speak the same language. Or if either of you are already in love with someone else, or find each other completely physically unattractive. Even very powerful synastry aspects aren’t a magic potion. It’s not a guarantee that you will develop feelings - it just tells you if you do develop feelings, how will it feel.And even if you do both develop powerful feelings, it doesn’t mean you’ll end up together. A lot of people are cowards, especially men. They will walk away from a possible relationship not because they don’t have deep feelings, but because they do and it scares them.
Ofc you are not going to be attracted to everyone you have mindblowing aspects with and that was never what i thought. I think you misunderstood what i meant when i said both she and i don`t experience the Sun conjunct Moon aspect in a romantic way i meant that we both have never been romantically attracted to men who we share this aspect with i even friendzoned a guy i had this aspect with but we can love it in friendships because to me this aspect is felt in a much more platonic way and i think it`s because it ends up in my 3rd house which is a very friendshipy house so this aspect is just not that mindblowing to me. My point is that I think it`s very important to see which houses conjunctions ends up in to see how it will affect the people involved and if certain houses are strong in their charts. If a guy "runs" away from someone he was never in love with that person in the first place or not that serious about them. The only times a guy will be in love and still run away is when he is actually committed to someone else or the person has been treating him bad and he has come to his senses or when he has major commitment issues because he is usully involved with more then one person at a time and the person has put some pressure on him about committing himself to them so he runs away instead just to reconnect when it`s "safe" again. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2
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posted March 08, 2024 10:20 PM
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Originally posted by InTheStars:
Okay, here's the deal. I'm a very fixed gal. Taurus Sun, Mercury, Venus. Scorpio moon. I love commitment and depth. But, hear me out. All those Taurus placements are square Uranus. They're my tightest aspects. I like commitment, but not drudgery. Do you think I could make it worth with a Gemini dude...especially if Gemini dude has Taurus Mars and Cancer Venus that supplies some of my fixed needs, too?
I Have Taurus Venus and Cancer mars. So a bit of the opposite. Due to my Taurus Venus i've had my share of friendship with Taurus women. I'd put the ball in the Gemini dudes court, as a start for friendship. Gemini will gravitate to fixed signs for the stability {Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, and Aquarius} when they can't make up there minds. The saying be the yin to their yang is true with Gemini suns. My Planets
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posted March 09, 2024 10:05 AM
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I'd put the ball in the Gemini dudes court, as a start for friendship.
Could you explain more of what you mean? IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted March 09, 2024 10:29 AM
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Could you explain more of what you mean?
Are you trying to attract this guy? Then you are looking at the wrong planet because his Sun has nothing to do with what he wants or how he`ll be in his relationships. But i think his Cancer Venus might like your Taurus stellium it sextiles his Cancer venus if not by aspect then it does by sign. Show this guy your cooking skills and be caring and attentive if you are trying to "please" his Sun he might end up friendzoning you because it`s not the traits he`s looking for when it comes to women. IP: Logged |
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posted March 09, 2024 04:02 PM
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Could you explain more of what you mean?
There's no textbook on Gemini males!!! So you have to really know them to succeed. I was suggesting you get to know him more, you'll probably realize once you get closer to him he's not what you though he was or he's alot more work then you think. There is undoubtably an attraction between Tarrus and Gems but I think the Tarrus always ends up confused because the two signs are similar in someway but different in many other ways. It's not like say a more natural compatibility sign. For example I don't know SleepyDiary outside of lindaland but based on her posts so far... I know if I meet her in person she'd being running rings around me. quote:
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Are you trying to attract this guy? Then you are looking at the wrong planet because his Sun has nothing to do with what he wants or how he`ll be in his relationships. But i think his Cancer Venus might like your Taurus stellium it sextiles his Cancer venus if not by aspect then it does by sign. Show this guy your cooking skills and be caring and attentive if you are trying to "please" his Sun he might end up friendzoning you because it`s not the traits he`s looking for when it comes to women.
I had to smile at this post, encountered a Tarrus women that had an Aries Mars Conjunct my Moon. I felt the energy but because I was Cancer mars which is more passive, I didn't say much. She did exactly what you described. She'd bake cupcakes. She's a friend but she couldn't fully open me up. With a Cancer Venus and mars aspects you'll have to get them comfortable and open them up...which may or may not happen. My Planets
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posted March 09, 2024 06:07 PM
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I had to smile at this post, encountered a Tarrus women that had an Aries Mars Conjunct my Moon.I felt the energy but because I was Cancer mars which is more passive, I didn't say much. She did exactly what you described. She'd bake cupcakes. She's a friend but she couldn't fully open me up. With a Cancer Venus and mars aspects you'll have to get them comfortable and open them up...which may or may not happen. My Planets
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I know you Venus in Taurus men can be similar to Cancer Venus men when it comes to loving women who cook or loving to cook she must have sensed this about you because her Mars was on your Moon and this can have the Mars person sense or approach you in a way that might be emotionally fulfilling to the Moon person but other placements between you might not have let this been like this in a consistent manner and i also think her Mars which is very strong in Aries must have been a bit too "firey" for your Venus and Mars unless she was tone down a bit elsewhere in her chart. IP: Logged |
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posted March 09, 2024 08:08 PM
Well, I am by no means a cook-and-clean lady. Not in the 50s housewife way. I know how to take care of myself, and I'll love to provide for my family (oscillating between being a SAHM and a working mother over the years), but little Suzie Homemaker? Nah.But! I'm curvy and cuddly, love to touch and love to indulge. I met said Gemini at a book club, but it's not until we inadvertently showed up at another event together did he plop right next to me and was kinda touchy during the night. I thought he was flirting, but I later realized he does that friendly flirt with everyone. It still struck my interest, though. I thought him being a Gemini and me a Taurus was the death knell of any possibility between us, but the harmony between our Mars and Venus made me think different. But, cracking the code to attracting these fellas is not as easy as I thought. How do you make these friendly-flirters start to more singularly pursue you? IP: Logged |
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posted March 10, 2024 07:15 AM
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It still struck my interest, though. I thought him being a Gemini and me a Taurus was the death knell of any possibility between us, but the harmony between our Mars and Venus made me think different. But, cracking the code to attracting these fellas is not as easy as I thought. How do you make these friendly-flirters start to more singularly pursue you?
They don`t need someone that is a great cook but it`s a huge bonus if you are one but the qualities they really do want in a woman is sensitivity and being attentive. Show him that you are attentive thoughtful and caring these are the qualities these men really likes. Ask him how he`s doing show him that you care about what he feels get him in touch with his feelings make him feel safe. These men tend to like sensitive women who can intuit their needs which i don`t think would be a huge problem for you since you have your Moon in Scorpio which can be a very intuitive Moon sign that can read other people well. And like DualGem said make him feel comfortable and safe enough to open up to you. These are the Men that might like the "therapist" types who seem intersted in what they think and feel and gives a listening ear. For him to start pursuing you i think you need to show him these qualities first. So next time you meet him ask him how he`s doing or what he thinks about a book for example or what did he feel when he was done reading a book. IP: Logged |
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posted March 11, 2024 05:57 PM
Interesting...Thoughts, @DualGemV2? IP: Logged |
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posted March 12, 2024 08:45 AM
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Originally posted by InTheStars:
Interesting...Thoughts, @DualGemV2?
Just be your stable Taurus self, talk with him, get his mind rolling, and show your feminine Taurus energy. If your okay showing off your feminine curvy tarrus body wearing Lulus/yoga pants and showing a bit of cleavage while being reliable and someone to turn to...it might just appeal to his Cancer Venus. Also a plus that you have Scorpio moon, I think you'd have intuition on him. My Planets
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