posted July 26, 2016 10:54 AM            

These aspects are for the relationship chart–Synastry.

1. Mars Conjunct Venus

This aspect is cupid’s arrow shot into the hearts of both. They see each other in a crowded room and time stops and cartoon hearts fill the air.

2. Moon Conjunct Pluto

This aspect ups the nuclear flame of Number One. This aspect is nuclear war versus conventional war. (What a terrible analogy) Moon/Pluto is one of the strongest aspects for attraction. This as pect, also, confers great, great depth i.e soul. This aspect confers great tenderness, as well. This aspect combines the love a mother has with her nursing baby to the love a woman has with the one love of her life. This aspect IS nuclear power. Don’t play with it.

3. Moon Conjunct Venus

This aspect is slightly less nuclear than Moon/Pluto. This aspect is less soulful than Moon/Pluto. It has more pure love than pure soul, if you can understand what I mean. Venus is pure love. It is not sexual, per se. Think of love one has for one’s dog. This may be a strange analogy, but most people have unconditional love for their pets. Add the power and passion of Pluto to the unconditional love of Venus and you will have this aspect.

4. Nessus Conjunct the Sun

Now, we come to nuclear fission. I think it it is fission. It might be fusion, but whatever it is, this aspect is so hot that it can fry eggs on the sidewalk. I experienced it once. One to a customer, but that is how one learns. Many of my clients contact me due to a Nessus relationship. All of a sudden, a nuclear bomb exploded and they don’t know what to do. Nessus can make the most meditative yogi levitate to the seventh floor. I don’t think people can really control the Nessus relationship. People will argue, but this has been my experience with clients and myself. It runs it’s course. That which started out as undying passion ends with either a fire bomb or a cold splat. Either way, don’t make major decisions when in the throes of a Nessus relationship.

5. Pluto Conjunct the ASC
This aspect seems to make the Ascendant person weak in the knees. The Pluto person feels the pull as well.

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posted July 26, 2016 11:12 AM            

what should the orbs be?

I have the first 3 with one guy.

1) My Mars conjunct his Venus (3.41s)
My Venus conjunct his Mars (2.03a)
2) My Pluto conjunct his Moon (1.59a)
3) My Moon conjunct his Venus (5.44a)

And more.......

Double whammy Venus Pluto

My Venus square his Pluto (3.33s)
His Venus trine my Pluto (0.43s)

Double whammy Mars Moon

My Moon conjunct his Mars (6.32s)
My Mars trine his Moon (0.59s)

Ami Anne,

posted July 26, 2016 11:37 AM            

Pluto has the power in these aspects. he wants to control the Moon/venus person but he is obsessed, too

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posted July 26, 2016 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Ami, you have a way with words. Were you an editor/writer prior to being an astrologer?

If you wrote a book on astrology, I am sure it would sell very well.

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You are so sweet, B. You made my day and I needed it today, B.

No, I was not an editor/writer. I have had so many jobs, due to being a Gemini, but mainly worked in natural health.

I have mercury and the sun trine Neptune.

The trines confer unearned gifts to everyone who has trines.

You have to jump in and use them.

I never had the confidence to do it, prior to the death of my son.

Then, I turned my whole life over to God and didn't care as much if I looked stupid/ silly etc lol

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posted July 26, 2016 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Orbs can be up to 5--the closer the stronger

Pluto has the power in these aspects. he wants to control the Moon/venus person but he is obsessed, too

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posted July 26, 2016 12:22 PM            

Nessus in the 8th is the unevolved Pluto.

posted July 26, 2016 01:06 PM              

Moon-pluto in synastry is a winner, but not enough to make me go insane sexually. Not enough to arouse my passions in that area. Emotionally, definitely but other factors have to agree. Moon-pluto alone won't do it.

Pluto and oppositions are what gets me going.

I know this post was general but I thought I would share my thoughts.

posted July 26, 2016 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
Nessus opposite the moon hurts too especially if Nessus is in the 8th house opposing the woman's moon it's so hurtful I was hurt by Nessus Nessus just wanted to play with my feelings.

Nessus in the 8th is the unevolved Pluto.

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I did the conjunctions for clarity but the hard aspects are harder.

The easy aspects--trines and sextiles-- are easier and can give healing to people.

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posted July 26, 2016 01:19 PM            

Do you have an intense natal charts? Moon sq Pluto etc?

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posted July 26, 2016 01:29 PM              

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Originally posted by angel4845:
Yes the closer the orb the better I love Venus/Mars aspects but I honestly unfornately don't see this aspect as a marriage one unless your lucky!!

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posted July 26, 2016 01:32 PM              

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I see these aspects all the time as the "it" aspects for sexual attraction, but NONE of these do it for me. I don't even bat an eyelash. The only aspects out of the 5 you mentioned that I would semi-agree with is Moon conjunct Pluto but in composite. I go nuts.

Moon-pluto in synastry is a winner, but not enough to make me go insane sexually. Not enough to arouse my passions in that area. Emotionally, definitely but other factors have to agree. Moon-pluto alone won't do it.

Pluto and oppositions are what gets me going.

I know this post was general but I thought I would share my thoughts.

I enjoy your posts. Very informative.

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posted July 26, 2016 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Mohini108:
I have a Venus Conjunct Mars with a girl at a very tight orb (1 degree). She is the Mars (in Leo) and I'm the Venus (also in Leo). Is it true if the roles are reversed, the aspect is not as powerful? I seen that said a few times. If the woman is the Mars and the man is the Venus, the energies aren't in their "ideal" state, and it lessens the effect.

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I personally think it's amazing and you will feel a sexual attraction no matter if the roles are reversed it just DEPENDS if your comfortable being Venus? If so you probably get turned on by a girl who makes you feel sweet, cozy and lovable like a soft teddy bear I love double whammies personally but I think it's always amazing to see this aspect in synastry especially if it's a casual relationship I think it is beautiful.

Hey some guys love feeling feminine and that's not a bad thing considering that I'm bisexual but personally I've always been sexually attracted to guys whose Mars is hard aspecting my Venus and soft aspecting my moon at the same time! I think it could be because my Venus is my chart ruler and I'm a libra rising female so I think I would prefer a man's or woman's Mars on my Venus but I also don't mind being Mars especially with a guy!!!!! I love to feel sub and Dom with a guy but with a female I don't like it so much I need a female to aspect my Venus and moon that's a must for me.

I notice men who I'm 10000% physically attracted to have there Mars hard aspecting my Venus and moon. Just a thought.

Please don't quote thank you

What's the ruler of yor Venus by the way? That always helps.

posted July 26, 2016 02:28 PM            

I personally have Pluto square the Ascendant and so people around my age group or younger also square my Ascendant with their Pluto. I wonder how it feels for them?

Also i have Venus square Mars double whammy with someone. It honestly fades out and only the annoyance and competitive nature of it remain. Would be good if it could be used to earn money together.
I don't love it when the girl is Mars in this aspect. Although it really depends in which signs Mars and Venus are.In my case I am Sag Venus - he is Virgo Mars, and i am Aries Mars he is Capricorn Venus. So by nature he is more passive and i'm all fire. We're not a great match for sex.

posted July 26, 2016 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Mohini108:
My Venus is ruled by Leo. Her Mars is ruled by Leo.

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Let me look at the chart in the other thread

posted July 26, 2016 03:36 PM            

Hi Out!

I never talked to you before.

Mars/Moon is Yuck, no matter how you play it.

This would be one of the worst.

The Mars person can be really nasty to the Moon person, like want to harass the heck out of them

Someone's Mars conj my Moon and she harasses the heck out of me

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posted July 26, 2016 03:41 PM            

I was going to write about that but I get people, not usually on here, who harass me about not being sensitive to gender.

You can't burp today without hurting someone's feelings.

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posted July 26, 2016 03:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[b]I wonder how Mars square Moon is like? Any thoughts or practical experience?

Hi Out!

I never talked to you before.

Mars/Moon is Yuck, no matter how you play it.

This would be one of the worst.

The Mars person can be really nasty to the Moon person, like want to harass the heck out of them

Someone's Mars conj my Moon and she harasses the heck out of me

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Haha, oh dear. Well we also have Moon square Moon so definitely not good. i think we can both be a bit nasty to each other. My Pluto trines his Mars though, that may give me a slight upper hand.

We briefly talked on another thread recently, about the North Node aspects in the natal chart.

Keep bringing more of these discussions, they're fun!

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posted July 26, 2016 06:39 PM              

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Thank you, Yang xx

Do you have an intense natal charts? Moon sq Pluto etc?

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Haha, yup. Maybe not as intense as you would think.

Scorpio Sun, mercury, venus, jupiter, pluto.

Moon in libra.

Pluto rules my 7th.

mars in the 7th.

Pluto conjunct Sun, mars.

Sun, mars, pluto opposite my ASC.

Moon semi-sextile pluton(fairly weak, but it still shows).

Jupiter conjunct Moon, mercury, Venus.

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posted July 26, 2016 08:11 PM              

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Put up your chart if you want, Yang.

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